Quit hobby

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There is such a thing as Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA)... similar to AA... meetings that help addicts break the cycle.... you can search for a meeting near you...

A'Man
^^^^ if all else fails that could be the motivation you need. Either way I wish you the best on whatever you decide
There is such a thing as Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA)... similar to AA... meetings that help addicts break the cycle.... you can search for a meeting near you...

A'Man Originally Posted by anandaman



I actually joined this. It's a great way to find women for sex.
Thx everyone
I don't quit particularly but I do take breaks, things can get dull for me even sex believe it or not. I am fortunate enough that everything in my life is in order. Financial, personal responsibilities, the balance of family and friends etc.

Do yourself a favor to step away for a good while if you happened to even question it. I know I had before but only based on my own feelings or simply cause I needed to be away out of town for business reasons I would actually use it as a break sometimes. Take a gander at IRL situations with girls, go on dates, have it going on with a non-provider. Or just simply enjoy life in other aspects. I typically shuffle back and forth or at the same time between IRL and the hobby. Just to keep things fresh I guess.

Maybe after a good time away, you can fully reevaluate what it is that you really need. Whether it is to quit for good, or you just simply needed a break.
MarcellusWalluz's Avatar
If you can't just quit start seeing ladies with lousy reputations, after a few you'll be ready to get out of the game.
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If you can't just quit start seeing ladies with lousy reputations, after a few you'll be ready to get out of the game. Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

Good idea. Fuck it.
Or just don't do it. Self control is key. Find something else to do when your mind starts to think crazy thoughts...
Working out gives you lots of self control. It might just be what you should try... on top of being healthy, it will help you clarify your train of thoughts...
Cold turkey. Self control. Find something else to put the same kind of effort into...
Best of luck!(SELF CONTROL)
I take my jump rope with me EVERYWHERE! Guess what I do when my day goes sideways/someone makes me mad/B4 doing something stupid?
By the time I'm done, I'm back to normal...
Don't go seek for more sex to stop having sex,love. Make it make sense. Take care xoxoxo
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  • 04-13-2025, 08:42 PM
^^great idea
DEAR_JOHN's Avatar
Every time I see a picture of a MILF provider with a nice rack.....................


EAsy! commit a crime that lands you in jail for 10+ years, you will stop "hobbying" but you might "get hobbyed"
Samcro84's Avatar
The hobby is the hotel California. "You can check out any time you like but you can never leave..." Originally Posted by Demolition
Wow so true. One way to quit is not login to various sites. I don’t quit just take a break. But then ladies don’t agree and keep texting or calling. So for their sake I keep going.
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I took a long break when my ATF quit to go to Medical School. late 80s time frame. Got back in 1995 ish have been in ever since. with a couple short breaks. I will quit one day when I can not do it due to the equipment not working, or some other reason. One day we will Croak, or Go West any way.
There was a movie called Water for Elephants or whatever. Basic premise was a kid who loved animals couldn't afford to keep going to veterinary school. His parents died I guess. Ended up walking the railroad tracks in despair. Jumped on a train of a traveling circus. Immediately got his ass whooped. Was lead to the boss of the circus but before he was lead back there he was warned. Kid if you have anything else please go do that. What ensued was a fucked up life but eventually it worked out alright

Success in life us about controlling vices. Unmentionables, gambling, food, shopping, this. That's totally up to you. No one can unlock your brain. You have to figure it out. On any universe I promise you men were not designed to pay for something so beautiful as intimacy nor were women designed to sell their body. For that reason I'm cycling out.

Had an overnight the other day, paid her and had no sex. Just normal life. Cuddled with her, watched a movie. Sir if you have a wife go back to her. Rediscover why you fell in love with her in the first place. Get a dog. Go to the dog park. Go hiking. Join a book club. Etc. Find something because even asking this question let's me know you want out. This is the reason I would never recommend my male friends into this business. Ever. Something ain't right about what we are doing . Most don't make it out without losing everything. Last case scenario is look at every provider as your daughter. Would you want your daughter doing this and if she did how would you want her to be treated. To me it's just that simple. Either way good luck
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... Had an overnight the other day, paid her and had no sex. Just normal life ... Originally Posted by ChickenGravyNWaffles
Now that's just sad.