I have read the comments that "there's no logic" to dancers. Yet there is some logic, and it's also been posted here. The dancers desire cash. If they think you have it, and if they're otherwise not deterred from spending some time with you, then they'll probably offer to spend some time with you.
Things that deter them include: thinking you're a cop; an unpleasant odor; a sense that you might be dangerous in a way they don't want. I've been rejected en masse for two of those reasons (not odor). Solution: try another place or another time.
Originally Posted by rcusa
The OP mentioned that he tipped a couple dancers and they didn’t even bother to say hello after their sets. Now if they’re going to cozy back up to a regular, makes sense. If they’re going over to an empty table or barstool passing the tipper without so mich as a hello or thanks, it makes zero sense let alone dollars If the dancer is a top earner more than others she can pick and choose whom she wants to see. Often enough these no shows barely pull any tips on stage and not getting many if any lapdances. That’s the illogical bit. As tou mentioned they’re in it for the money. I’ve had quite a few dancers ask me if I’m a cop at a table or WHILE GRINDING ON ME (which was odd).
TLDR: bottom line is, their is no constants in the club other than strippers getting paid to shake tits and ass. They can be belles or bitches for any number of reasons beyond our means to influence or control. As rcusa said head to the next club (although for the OP that didn’t work out either. I feel ya bro). For me that is part of the appeal. Strip clubs are like a box of chocolates. You know the rest.