Helping a girl out

There is a special lady in my life that stunck, limped and living out of a car January. Today she is sober, still living in a hotel room, but she just got promoted, today as a matter of fact, to an assisted management position! She is in love, knows what she wants in life and is heading towards the life she dreams of. I am very blessed, that she trusted me enough,to let me guide her. She is happy, I am happy today. Who cares what tomorrow holds. We hold the happiness today, because tomorrow is not promised to anyone. Originally Posted by Anoksunamon

That should make you happy also that you could help and yes tomorrow is not promised

A lot of girls that are so willing to just ask for “help” are using you. It’s happened to me. I tend to have a big heart and if a girl knows you have a soft spot for her most of them will use you every chance they get. Which really sucks… just putting that out there.

A provider I had seen before posted an ad that she needed money to help move and was offering a discounted rate. However it was prepaid and when the time came to set an appointment she would either ghost me say she was not available. She is considered to be one of the better and more reputable providers. Even the best can take advantage of a kind heart. I would advise not to give money but help her to people and organizations that can help her.

I have two favs that they never ask for any extra money but on my own I give them extra from time to time so I know it helps them with bills but I never expect anything in return

I agree with Sweet Sandy. If they know you got a big heart they will abuse that to their full advantage.
I learned the hard way myself.

I also agree with Sweet Sandy, that if girls know that you really care about them, they will just use you to get what they want, I found this out just recently, unfortunately.

It is your money spend it as you like. I have been asked, passed. Especially when they say, I kniw you have and can afford it. Ha, I didnt get the money by making bad decisions. Was asked once for a ride to airport. Was glad to help out there cuz she didnt have a car. The night before she showed her appreciation by doing an overnight which was unexpected. We went out for a night on town and had good time. Unfortunately she never returned after flying home.

I had a very well known provider many years ago. She was awesome to hang out with truly enjoyed the lifestyle .I was a regular .One night she call all freaked out had a guy stalking her.She asked if she could come over i said yes. We spend most of the night talking got her calmed down.She spent the night we did not do anything other than just sleeping together. We became friends she had a gun i showed her how to shoot and handle a gun. got to hang out off the clock for a few months and she moved to KC .