What does it mean if a provider doesn't charge you for her time at dinner

Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
Being nice? Wants you as a long term client ? I’m an old man and trying to figure out the logic of a woman is impossible. Originally Posted by Mplay
Don't try. Just roll with whatever happens

If our session wasn't booked as a dinner date and we go out to dinner before or after our booked session, it means I like you on a personal "real-world" level and enjoy your company. Otherwise, you would only get session time. Like doesn't necessarily mean "real-world relationship" like, but we all know that happens as well. Originally Posted by Seline
All of this. ^^^
It means you still payed for expenses ...her food and sex lol
Nina the Dicknapper's Avatar
There's been more than one time when I've gone out to dinner with a provider either before or after our session.

Neither provider charged me for her time at dinner. They only charged me for our time in the bedroom.

As far as I know, it's customary for providers to charge for their time at dinner and in the bedroom Originally Posted by AdventurousMouse
I like to eat lol so I'd gladly accept a dinner. I think it's greedy to have the guy pay for the meal and pay the provider for eating the meal the guy just paid for lol. Not all of us are money hungry some of us just hungry period lol
Wile E Coyote's Avatar
The ladies have to eat, so invite one of your favs to enjoy a meal with you, but do not forget, go back to her incall for desert or go to her incall first to develop an appetite. Not as good idea to do JUST dinner.

Obviously you are paying for the entire meal and tip for the server, but if she wants to charge you for her time to go to dinner, she may like or enjoy you as a BCD client, but does not like you well enough to have dinner with you. If she does not charge for her time at dinner, feel honored and do not question her choice.
Busty's Avatar
  • Busty
  • 08-14-2025, 08:56 PM
^^exactly Being kind goes far