Friends With Mental Benefits

Rub away--it makes my day!

Ann
Rand Al'Thor's Avatar
While true that I have put up most of my female acquaintances against the "would I do her" scale, that hardly means that I think about them after that. Even if they did pass the "would I...", I generally don't think of them sexually unless there is some unusual occurrence to send my mind there - she is wearing a crazy low cut shirt and bends down, showing me a LOT... or she decides to show me a tat on her upper thigh that I didn't know she had... Some trigger.

As for the literal spank bank, I pull up a random porn rather than bring up images of someone.
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As for the literal spank bank, I pull up a random porn rather than bring up images of someone. Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor
Interesting. I go the other way for the most part; I prefer recent experiences or imagery. Unfortunately, due to reasons I won't go into, my memory isn't that great so if I got nothing recent, then I'll go to porn... or if I just feel like something different.

Porn is great, but when I think about experiences I've had, I can remember the feel of her skin (among other things) or her smell. With porn, I have to pretty-much imagine most of it.
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Interesting. I go the other way for the most part; I prefer recent experiences or imagery. Unfortunately, due to reasons I won't go into, my memory isn't that great so if I got nothing recent, then I'll go to porn... or if I just feel like something different.

Porn is great, but when I think about experiences I've had, I can remember the feel of her skin (among other things) or her smell. With porn, I have to pretty-much imagine most of it. Originally Posted by GRIN OF SIN
If there is a sexual experience involved, of course that's the preferred spank bank. I was saying the between imagery of a woman in the context of this thread (no sexual experience) and porn, I take the porn.
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Ladies have told me they fantasize about me in order to delay their orgasm. Originally Posted by GneissGuy

Confession: I do that too, gg...and it freakin' helps!

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My gallery was accessed 4,473 time this month already .. I strongly suspect it is not for the articles

Lina
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If there is a sexual experience involved, of course that's the preferred spank bank. I was saying the between imagery of a woman in the context of this thread (no sexual experience) and porn, I take the porn. Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor
I gotcha. Yeah, then I agree.

Also, I don't want to imply that its an every day thing. As someone referenced, there's usually a trigger, e.g., they wore something revealing or due to some other special circumstance/scenario.

Considering cckid2006's link; I guess if you work in porn, then its probably more likely to be an every day thing though lol.
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Wishing he worked in porn - sigh