FYI: It is rude to arrive early.

i believe some guys get there early for safety reasons as well. but thanks for the heads up, not that i had any plans of booking an appointment, but i am sure someone will read this and opt not to book with you again and spend their money elsewhere.

i like AustinsGurlz attitude much better.

If I am early I text her and tell her 'hey I'm a little early, text me back when your ready"

sometimes I hang out, read a book, window shop. And sometimes if she's ready to go a little early too then it's game on.

If I am early I text her and tell her 'hey I'm a little early, text me back when your ready. Originally Posted by budman33

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Also don't like to even show up til 5 mins before because of prying eyes and people's willingness to call 5.0.

At a time where the economy is still affecting the hobby for many, I don't see the point in this thread. I have been told by enough girls that the phone is not ringing enough and to complain about being a little early. Things could be alot worse.

This seems that this pet peeve about someone being too early, is best communicated via correspondence with hobbysists PRIOR to booking.

sixx

will have less problem now with guys arriving early.. or on time.. or late

Well if he had an appointment at 2:00pm and showed at 2:15 you would feel no problem at saying at 3:00pm that it was time to wrap it up. Guys are paying a premium for your time. Showing up early is a way of making sure that something like traffic doesnt cut into your time. Rather than getting upset you could have him watch TV while you finish getting ready or say that since you started at 1:45 we'll end at 2:45. I own my own local business and while it may perturp you that they show early, making a big deal of it will only make you look petty. Originally Posted by discretionaryincome

While she certainly could have made her point with a bit less attitude it is a profession and the reserved time is what is being paid for rather than just the service provided.

Having someone knock 15 minutes early defeats the purpose of even cleaning up. The moment he enters he is in her private space whether or not she still needs to shower the jizz out of her hair. If he is going to see her that way then why even bother cleaning up?

Also I doubt most women would feel comfortable or be foolish enough to give a total stranger unsupervised access to her place while she is distracted in the bathroom. Some people like myself are not couch sitting TV watchers.

A simple solution might be to start the clock from the moment the client enters but don't begin the BCD activities until the appointed time. This will allow her time to prepare with the bathroom door open. Having to pay to watch her discard used condoms, wipe off the sheets, douche, pee/poop and fix her make up would snap most offenders out of the early knocking habit pronto.

This works both ways as well. If an outcall provider arrives 30 minutes late to an hour appt. she should reduce the fee by 50% yet still provide a full hour of service if he has the extra time as he has reserved that specific hour slot just for her.
When the client is late doesn't his session get wrapped up right on schedule without any fee reduction?
If she is unexpectedly 15 minutes early she can likewise read a book in the car, window shop or comp the extra 15.
Common courtesy works both ways.

Of course a more realistic solution would be for both sides to simply allow and prepare for a 15 minute buffer before and after any scheduled appt. Shit happens.

I am ALWAYS ready early ...ALWAYS!

I can not be late. I have become quite OCD about it. Ironically though, it doesn't bother me if someone is late coming to see me.

With that, early arrivals generally aren't a problem for me. I think people actually appreciate the fact that they aren't circling the block, being watched by nosy neighbors and drawing unnecessary attention.

Besides ...since I'm always early to appointments, I always assume the gents will be, too. After all, it's rude to be late, right?

So, when that 20% show up early, I'm ok with it. All I ask is that you notify me that you are arriving early. Sudden knocks at the door can be startling.

And I only have one gent who is allowed to "let himself in". The rest are expected to notify me that they are on/near the premises so I can let them in. I would never allow anyone to freely come and go from my incall. It's important to control that situation. I've learned it's best to be notified before they enter, just in case maintenance is around or the neighbors are in the hall, etc. Drawing unnecessary attention to your door isn't a good thing. (unanswered knocks, etc).

Alisha ....xoxo

The common reaction to this thread amuses me. I wonder if you show up early for a doctor's appointment, you throw a fit if they don't let you in right away then, either. Respect for someone's time isn't exactly rocket science, guys resent it when women don't show respect for it (NCNS, hustling out the door early, etc etc) yet expect to be indulged for the reverse? Um... OK

The common reaction to this thread amuses me. I wonder if you show up early for a doctor's appointment, you throw a fit if they don't let you in right away then, either. Respect for someone's time isn't exactly rocket science, guys resent it when women don't show respect for it (NCNS, hustling out the door early, etc etc) yet expect to be indulged for the reverse? Um... OK Originally Posted by Vyt

Agreed. I don't have any problem with the OP's attitude but have all kinds of problems with some of the responses. If it was just one client who showed up early I think it could have been dealt with one on one but clearly there are quite a few guys who think they're entitled to show up whenever the hell they'd like. Probably some of the same guys who think they don't need to wash their assholes before an appointment.

"To be early is to be on time
to be on time is to be late"

My track coach always told me this in high school.......I just could not get it to work! Originally Posted by WildThing96

I was raised this way, and in business it is very common for my clients to show up early, as it is for me to show up early for appointments and meetings with my customers.

Kim, I understand your frustrations, but from some folks old habits are hard to break, and FWIW, I have read enough around here to understand the etiquette of appointment timing but also understand it can be difficult carving out that time during they day, and then have to time it down to the last minute too.

Just my thoughts on it...

Well if he had an appointment at 2:00pm and showed at 2:15 you would feel no problem at saying at 3:00pm that it was time to wrap it up. Guys are paying a premium for your time. Showing up early is a way of making sure that something like traffic doesnt cut into your time. Rather than getting upset you could have him watch TV while you finish getting ready or say that since you started at 1:45 we'll end at 2:45. I own my own local business and while it may perturp you that they show early, making a big deal of it will only make you look petty. Originally Posted by discretionaryincome

I hope the next guy who thinks it's okay to knock on the door 15 minutes early is greeted by the lady's father or brother who happen to be on their way out and have no idea what their daughter or sister does for a living. Try being a little more discreet, guys. Those who compare it to showing up early for a business meeting are completely disregarding the discretion element.

yea, when I show up early for Dr appointment I wait. hell If I show up on time, they still make me wait.

So do a lot of providers!

Of course a more realistic solution would be for both sides to simply allow and prepare for a 15 minute buffer before and after any scheduled appt. Shit happens. Originally Posted by Codybeast

With Austin Traffic, 15 mins seems reasonable.

And I only have one gent who is allowed to "let himself in". The rest are expected to notify me that they are on/near the premises so I can let them in. I would never allow anyone to freely come and go from my incall.

Alisha ....xoxo Originally Posted by Just Alisha

I tell all my outcalls to let themselves in or greet them outside. Sometimes I'm even hanging with my neighbors drinking a beer. I think it portrays a BF/GF relationship - lower profile.

I wonder if you show up early for a doctor's appointment, you throw a fit if they don't let you in right away then, either. Originally Posted by Vyt

I do and/or they do or apologize for keeping me waiting. My time is important too.

Don't worry it will probably slow down after this rude posting.Probably would have been more prudent to discuss with said clients privately, instead of such a generalizing attack on all clientele . Originally Posted by rockerrick

She wasnt being rude at all. She was letting the public know this information so they all take heed. Alot, NOT ALL, gentleman do this on a regular basis. Just because she didnt get emotional and start a riot in here like some childish providers do does not mean she is being rude- it means she is being an ADULT. I think YOUR post was rude and useless.

I agree with Kim, being too early and having to wait around outside a providers' incall is also not good as far as discretion goes. It is not safe to be waiting in a parking lot, apts, hotel, etc and causes suspicions to arise sometimes. Plus, you and I count on and would like to be virtually invisible to the outside world. Sort of a security issues- perhaps MORESO for the gentleman than the lady- as HE is the one having to wait and who knows what could happen.

While I appreciate a gentleman being punctual I put a limit myself on this by asking no one ever be 10 minutes earlier or later than the scheduled time if possible. We all understand shit happens but a phone call is always appreciated when it does.


KKA
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