I believe everyone has a choice. The reasons could be many but it is still a person's choice whatever the topic may be. I have heard some ladies say they wont see black men because of a bad experience. If I went by this logic for my own experiences then I could not be a provider to anyone but maybe an eskimo. LOL But really, it is all about preference and choice like many have said. It DOES go BOTH ways.
I do not discriminate against a persons color-ever. I like them all and they are all beautiful to me. What I do discriminate against is a bad attitude, disrespect, immaturity, arrogance and filth. Otherwise, let's get it on! LOL
KKA
- KlassyKelliAnn
- 04-29-2010, 05:08 PM
- caroline!
- 04-29-2010, 08:02 PM
The reason: Preference is a small part... mainly bc they've experienced some kind of security issue(s).
Doesn't matter what race: as already mentioned, it's your style... are you a gentleman? If not, some of these ladies (such as myself) can be right down M E A N!
There's hundreds, scratch that, thousands of providers and they don't all have the NBA. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it bc there's prob a lot of lovely ladies out there who wouldn't mind seeing you.
Doesn't matter what race: as already mentioned, it's your style... are you a gentleman? If not, some of these ladies (such as myself) can be right down M E A N!
There's hundreds, scratch that, thousands of providers and they don't all have the NBA. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it bc there's prob a lot of lovely ladies out there who wouldn't mind seeing you.
- BlackJedi
- 04-30-2010, 04:02 PM
Dennis:
Unfortunately we as AAs have an VERY bad rep in this business (just AAs not any other MINORITY). It just takes one or a few bad black hobbyist to ruin it for other blacks. I would just take it as a missed opportunity and just move on. If you're going to be judged for whatever reason or have some lady not see you based on their 'preference' or whatever it may be then I would not want to see them and will spend the $$ elsewhere. And yes I know the ladies have a right to see who they want too.
Unfortunately we as AAs have an VERY bad rep in this business (just AAs not any other MINORITY). It just takes one or a few bad black hobbyist to ruin it for other blacks. I would just take it as a missed opportunity and just move on. If you're going to be judged for whatever reason or have some lady not see you based on their 'preference' or whatever it may be then I would not want to see them and will spend the $$ elsewhere. And yes I know the ladies have a right to see who they want too.