...A provider usually won't discuss what she truly likes with a client because lets face it, most men like to talk about their experiences and we do like to keep some of our personal sexual desires for ourselves/our private life. But, the biggest reason is the trust factor between the two during a sexual experience. Originally Posted by MsElenaInteresting. I want to have sex with you, but I don't want you to know what I really like. Very insightful.