Not Newbie Friendly?

Why do some providers label themselves not newbie friendly? I would think in the hobby everyone would be open minded, and lending a helping hand to the rookies. I mean, everyone had to crawl before they could walk, right? Originally Posted by thequietguy

I feel for you quiet guy. Being somewhat of a newbie myself it can be a struggle to get in the door with girls, but if you keep at it you'll find some that will see you. Join P411 also. It is a good tool.

Holy cow Mr Smith, if youre still a newbie I'm not sure I even want to try this game anymore. I have gone through most of your reviews, albeit only the non premium versions and you are pretty much my hero! I just wish you offered apprenticeships........

As far as the frustration of being a newbie goes, I totally understand. I'm hopefully about to shed that status. I just make sure that I offer as much info as possible; name, age, phone, address, employment info, picture, etc. are all things you need to be willing to provide. Hell, i'll gladly let a lady come by my work to see that it's really what I do. As frustrating as it may be, there are quite a few risks involved for the ladies in this hobby and if they were willing to see anyone that contacted them they likely wouldn't be in the business very long.

Thats true fusingmetal it is so easy to get caught up in this hobby if a person does not take the extra security to make sure the newbie is legit well anything can happen. I would not wanna end up in the news hell no... screening is a must.

Happy Bday Codie, I hope to b with you one of these days. I look forward to an enchanted encounter. Till then enjoy !!!!!!!

A guy with refrences and okays on p411 could still be dangerous I have read alerts on guys who have many reviews anything can happen in this buisness. Like the one provider from dallas who have seen a guy before had refrences and everything and he snapped on her and she had to tasser his ass out the door..

I have nothing but respect for a ladies decision to not see newbies, with that said I wanna thank all the lovely ladies that do see newbies especialy the ones that gave me a chance I had a wonderful time with each of you, you know who you are I can't wait to do it again, and again, and again lol.

Wanted to add a quick caveat. i only will give out my info to a lady AFTER I have done my homework and feel she is trustworthy.

The guys that raise my suspisions are the ones that have been on here since like 2010 and have done no posts, no reviews have no refrrences these are the ones I avoid and some will say theyre new lol... Its just a bit more risky I gave a newbiew a chance and he robbed me so now I refuse to see newbies. Originally Posted by mirandalee

I saw a wonderful guy in Jan in Odessa and he travels all over the USA for his job.... He is like one of my ATF I have ever seen in a hotel late I almost did not go I am so glad I did.. any way he had never heard of this board I told him all about. He became a member right then. How ever he has not been on much because of work and has not written one review or post much now that he has some extra time on his hands to hobby NO GIRL trusts him on this site cause he has been a member for 6 months and no posts. Life does happen and us girls need to be careful but it is important to show your presence on here if you can it makes things easier.

The girls don't count backpage girls as a reference guys so keep that in mind. The girls on backpage don't remember you and they're not a reliable source of a reference. Make sure to connect with the girls you do see. What I mean is, make sure to stand out from the crowd because you might need an Eccie girl as a reference and she needs something about you to remember you by. Participate and post reviews or post comments. If you don't participate, you'll find it harder as a newbie.

If a girl is on bp, I check to see if they're on here with reviews or p411 as well.