Have you ever talked to someone in chat, and it made you want to visit with them?

Thought chat was for the Bored, Lonely, and Horny people. Some more than others.

Thought chat was for the Bored, Lonely, and Horny people. Some more than others. Originally Posted by shorty

LOL... there are a couple of those in there.. and dont forget Hungry and Rent is due in an hour!!

If youre bored- masterbate
If your lonely- order room service and answer door naked
Horny- see lonely.

chat is super, like normal communication , just on a different level. Synchronicity shows, the alchemy is there nevertheless. In our century we don`t need to meet in person first. I say to myself I can feel if I get along or don`t. I have never used chat on here, but on several dating sites, or other things before you meet in real life, and it works perfect. I used to get to know a nice guy via common friends on facebook first, we got along, then we met personally, and it was super nice, not a bit different. I think, it is possible to establish physical chemistry or to see via web first, if you have physical chemistry. In the cases where I felt "close" to the guy and wanted to touch him, it was perfect in real life , too. In the cases where it`s just friends, nothing happens ever, also in real life just friends.

I wonder what experiences you have - maybe outside the hobby as well?

Chat is nice and I have found alot of great guys to talk to all over the USA. Someone can talk to me everyday and even if I dont ever see him it is okay with me. I dont think of any guy as a time waster Skipp so feel free to talk as long and as often as you want too I dont mind. I can not name all of the great guys in chat some I have seen and some I havent. I have had appointments in chat. It is fun and away to get to know others. I hope anyone knows anytime you see me you can talk about the weather, work or anything that you want or need to get off of your chest. Hugs and Kisses !!!!! Ps there some good girls there too.

It's fun to get to know some of the ladies like TP. You know their likes and dislikes, and makes it easier when you meet and get to play. It feels like you're with more of a friend than a stranger.

Chat is not good for me because of a lack of local providers. If I were in a location where there we a lot of readily available providers on chat and looking to book a client, then hell yeah, I'd use chat. If I hit it off with a particular provider, I definitely would want to see her. I've done this via PM, e-mail, and posting in threads. I enjoy communicating with a provider prior to any meeting. I think it adds depth to an encounter.

I met a really awesome panty fetishist last night in person and it was solely due to chat--
so, I'm pretty jazzed about that I think some things are easier to ask in chat than over a PM so long as a certain etiquette is followed.

I am not on chat much, but I am all for the concept of exchanging ideas with a lady whether I plan on seeing her or not. PMs, e-mails, sometimes phone calls. I find a lot of ladies on here are just very interesting people, and the reality is I usually wind up talking with some--maybe as long as a year on and off--before I find I iwll be in their area on travel. When that happens I already know exactly who I want to see and she has had a long time to decide if I am someone she wants to see. I have had some excellent experiences that way, and honestly I see very few ladies for the first time who I have not chatted/texted/PMd/e-mailed before.

Personally I never do spur of the moment dates at all.

I am not on chat much, but I am all for the concept of exchanging ideas with a lady whether I plan on seeing her or not. PMs, e-mails, sometimes phone calls. I find a lot of ladies on here are just very interesting people, and the reality is I usually wind up talking with some--maybe as long as a year on and off--before I find I iwll be in their area on travel. When that happens I already know exactly who I want to see and she has had a long time to decide if I am someone she wants to see. I have had some excellent experiences that way, and honestly I see very few ladies for the first time who I have not chatted/texted/PMd/e-mailed before.

Personally I never do spur of the moment dates at all. Originally Posted by Old-T

I agree that Old-T's approach is very good, as long as he finds ladies who are interested in reciprocating his communications. I think that chat or other exchanges--even over a long period of time--make for a great way to decide if the two people want to meet each other and to establish a relationship.

I've read on a current basis (never by a member search and looking at a list of posts) a lot of Old-T's posts here and before that on ASPD. His ideas have always seemed good to me.

I never got any client from chat. All they wanted was free dirty talk in private messages and a lot of bullshit. I go in there once in a blue moon just to talk and have fun though.

I did once about a 2 years ago, and they both still come to see me

Chat has helped me eliminate providers from my TDL more often than adding them.

I have booked several traveling ladies from chat that I normally wouldn't know anything about. In fact I can name 3 ladies I never would have seen without chat and all three were a great time, I will repeat. Chat might not be able to keep you booked up every day, but it is fun and you can really get to know some people there.

I enjoy seeing you in chat though Beth so keep coming back .

And I agree chat has helped me fill out the do not see list. It can be a useful tool.

Thought chat was for the Bored, Lonely, and Horny people. Some more than others. Originally Posted by shorty

Pffff , u should know !!! Lmao !Don't even ..

Chat here on ECCIE is great! I find it a lot better to talk back n forth in chat, get to know the lady a little before meeting her.
I did find a great lady in chat who was fairly close, chatted a bit, then headed right over there. Great session! Will see her again!
Not all the ladies get on chat, but the ones that are there are very nice to the guys there.