Diasability question

Oh, yea, on or off doesnt matter to me. I would think off would be more comfortable for *you*
Either way, im cool
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  • Mokoa
  • 07-15-2012, 04:29 PM
I'm nosey. How did you loose your leg?
And I would say off. Does it feel more comfortable on or off during sex? Originally Posted by RandomBlkChick
Frankly, the circumstances surrounding what happened to him and how are none of our business. He simply asked a question. Answering that question is all that needs to be done on this thread.
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I'm a parapelgic and been paralyzed since i was16 (25) now but completely independent . I find myself asking providers if there incall is ground floor or have elevators. I'd hit up some of The lady's in this thread I'm sure they will accommodate you nicely.
had a few providers turn me away due to me only having one leg. I am a single leg amputee. So here is my question, Does every provider have a problem with a one legged man? And if you do not do you like the leg on or off. Originally Posted by luckyringwald

I'm just wondering, how do you know that is the specific reason you were turned away? Did they say that? I wouldn't have a problem with it. I have actually seen a guy in the same circumstance you are in
yes had 3 providers who i set up time with once i took my pants off and they saw my leg they said no they couldn't do it because it was a turn off. asked for service with my pants on but i guess we were past that point. For the ladies with the hoesty thank you just wanted to ask as I do not like to waste any providers time as I know time is money and if i schedule something and show up and you turn me away I feel like I wasted your time and you lost money on me. Those providers did get a tip for making an appointment with me and for the time I wasted of theirs, but i felt before i do this again let me ask so I know who in advance to book and who not too. thank you again to all the ladies for your answers. will see you soon
.....perhaps it is best to make sure they know when making initial arrangements
that would also open the window for discussions leading to any clarifications that may assist in the final determination.....
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yes had 3 providers who i set up time with once i took my pants off and they saw my leg they said no they couldn't do it because it was a turn off. asked for service with my pants on but i guess we were past that point. For the ladies with the hoesty thank you just wanted to ask as I do not like to waste any providers time as I know time is money and if i schedule something and show up and you turn me away I feel like I wasted your time and you lost money on me. Those providers did get a tip for making an appointment with me and for the time I wasted of theirs, but i felt before i do this again let me ask so I know who in advance to book and who not too. thank you again to all the ladies for your answers. will see you soon
Wow! Sorry to hear it went down like that for you. I think it's kinda messed up to leave them a tip though. They cancelled on you, not the other way around. If you did it voluntarily and without any pressure/guilt from the lady, then I respect your decision. But if a provider expects a tip in such a situation, I think that's just wrong.

The good news is that you got some of the best ladies on the board who have chimed in saying they would be happy to see you. So hopefully happier, more successful, hobby days lay ahead for you.
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Sorry they were so shallow and non understanding of your disability. Yet, so willing to take a *tip* from you even though they turned you away once you were there.
Loss of a limb doesn't take away from you being who you are as a *gentleman* nor does it mean you can't enjoy intimacy with a woman.
And next time you encounter such. DO NOT leave a tip. Nor feel you have to.
But I agree, do let them know upfront that you have disability of that kind and you'll be able to weed out the understanding ones from the shallow ones.




yes had 3 providers who i set up time with once i took my pants off and they saw my leg they said no they couldn't do it because it was a turn off. asked for service with my pants on but i guess we were past that point. For the ladies with the hoesty thank you just wanted to ask as I do not like to waste any providers time as I know time is money and if i schedule something and show up and you turn me away I feel like I wasted your time and you lost money on me. Those providers did get a tip for making an appointment with me and for the time I wasted of theirs, but i felt before i do this again let me ask so I know who in advance to book and who not too. thank you again to all the ladies for your answers. will see you soon Originally Posted by luckyringwald
Im their with you brother. I lost both my feet on my 5th deployment and on that mission I lost half my team. I had been injured before but what many dont understand is the reason I stayed in was because of my family. My brothers who I had served with in the teams for 10yrs! I am a little beat up but very attractive with my clothes on. When my clothes off you can see my scars and my prosthetic feet which have been a turn off for some providers and thats why I dont hobby as much because some see it as a turn off and have put me ridiculled me calling me "crippled" and "no legged man". I will not say which providers said these to me but to me I just let it run off my back like water. I know what I have done for this country and you should not let it get to you brother. There are plenty of fish in the sea!
Im their with you brother. I lost both my feet on my 5th deployment and on that mission I lost half my team. I had been injured before but what many dont understand is the reason I stayed in was because of my family. My brothers who I had served with in the teams for 10yrs! I am a little beat up but very attractive with my clothes on. When my clothes off you can see my scars and my prosthetic feet which have been a turn off for some providers and thats why I dont hobby as much because some see it as a turn off and have put me ridiculled me calling me "crippled" and "no legged man". I will not say which providers said these to me but to me I just let it run off my back like water. I know what I have done for this country and you should not let it get to you brother. There are plenty of fish in the sea! Originally Posted by prmex81
I don't see how they would make fun of you when you f*ck the way you do. It's amazing! Definitely no turn off here!

Moral of the story:
Doesn't matter if you have one leg, two legs, three legs, one arm, two arms, or five arms...as long as you know how to please a woman then you're good in my book!
yes had 3 providers who i set up time with once i took my pants off and they saw my leg they said no they couldn't do it because it was a turn off. asked for service with my pants on but i guess we were past that point. For the ladies with the hoesty thank you just wanted to ask as I do not like to waste any providers time as I know time is money and if i schedule something and show up and you turn me away I feel like I wasted your time and you lost money on me. Those providers did get a tip for making an appointment with me and for the time I wasted of theirs, but i felt before i do this again let me ask so I know who in advance to book and who not too. thank you again to all the ladies for your answers. will see you soon Originally Posted by luckyringwald
Well that was pretty fuckin rude of them! I dont see what the problem would be, but to each their own, I guess. And I concur, you should not leave anything because you are the one who got cancelled on.
Well that was pretty fuckin rude of them! I dont see what the problem would be, but to each their own, I guess. And I concur, you should not leave anything because you are the one who got cancelled on. Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield
I completely agree!!!
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My thing is I can't feel anything below the sternum but I still hobby its fun being around these lady's and pleasing them pleases me. Fortuantly mini me still has function so gotta get him in the game!
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Hope you have a better experience now that you know who to see to feel like any other guy out there! And thanks for service shit the providers should send bill to the VA or whatever haha
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I've had one girl turn me away I think it was in vegas she wes as nice as you could be but I didn't think too much on it and called another she wasn't that hot anyways