Is ECCIE the new backpage?!

P.S. alot can be chalked up to the heat...when its Africa hot like this people just don't get out if they have to. No offense meant to the ladies participating, you are top flight, but things are a bit out of whack...for us all. As I said before, with time, this will pass. As Mr. Chan has stated several times, the influx of traveling providers damn sure don't help either. Do what you do ladies...the cream will rise to the top in this situation we are pondering, as it always does...

I have talked to providers that have said things are slow...Maybe I'm wrong, but could part of this discussion be part of that???...As far as myself, its my $$$, and how I spend it is my choice. There are a lot of these ladies on my bucket list, but as with everything else it will come in time. Hell you find riff raffle at church, store, work etc...instead of bitchin about it run a few specials, stimulate the hobby and these discussions won't happen...If you try to have your cake and eat it too, who benefits???...just sayin... Originally Posted by diveguy6

Bitchin, eh? Sorry if it were deemed as such. I was only making an observation. I think I said in my original post that what actually provoked the thought was a solicitation from a low budget magazine.

No, this discussion has no relation to a wane in business. If my finances began to suffer from lack of calls then I may run one of those specials. Thank you for the marketing advice, sir.

No, bitchin is one of my catch all phrases. As I said, I meant no offense. I'm truly sorry you took it that way, but some are doing just that, thus my thoughts. To you I apologize, the others, well, it is what it is...

I'll chime in. I agree Brittany, It seems quite a few lower level providers are trying to make the big leagues. One could say, how do you know until you try? The other, what are you thinking?

As Mr Chan pointed out, only the very few who have the business and BCD skills will stay. The rest will have their provider dreams washed away as the surge from the tidal wave recedes.

What actually provoked this thread was a solicitation received via PM from a DIVA magazine!!
@ Sexy Brittany I recieved the same text and just responded DONOT TEXT ME ANYMORE!!!

I think the Proof is always in the PuddinG!!

I think as with most things, you either sink or swim ...

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

...This is a mans world and we are women living it...

<3 Originally Posted by Miss Dreams

I abhor this mentality! I've been a woman on my own in this "man's world" for over 4 years now, and I've done just fine. In fact, I've actually flourished.

Perception is reality – As long as a girl 'thinks' that she's too weak to handle her business on her own, she will be.

A case in point: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=503262

Look at this ridiculousness...

I can say that I am thankful for ECCIE ladys .I have seen several providers from ECCIE which all have been professional providers and I have seen some ladys several times that I consider top notch in beauty, skills, and personality. Some of these beautiful ladys give their heart and soul to a date , I consider that priceless and they are worth more that what they are asking .There are some top notch Eccie providers that advertise on BP and I hope to see them again. Many years ago using craigslist I had seen some terrible women. I seen some that when they opened the door. I would take one look at them and leave , some that looked ok that I went in with that would have a nasty ass mattress on the floor and I would leave. As of yet I never walked out on an ECCIE lady. Just reading some reviews and post there seems to be some ladys that are not what I consder professional . Personally I will pay a little more for what I know is the best .There are some ladys that I havent seen on ECCIE that are professionals that I have on my bucket list.and will keep watching for reviews and post . but there does seem to be some ladys that has slipped into ECCIE that should not be ,not just because they advertise on BP but because they are not a quality provider.

A case in point: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=503262

Look at this ridiculousness... Originally Posted by Sexy_Brittany

LOL!!!! the Haters!!!

Since it began the thread, and perhaps would provide enlightenment, what is a DIVA magazine?
I learned through Google there is a lesbian-bi periodical by that name, however I do not see the connection unless I am missing something.

LOL!!!! the Haters!!! Originally Posted by Sydney Pure

If there is one word that's use personifies ghetto, "haters" has got to be it. Thanks for the self-alert, dude!

Since it began the thread, and perhaps would provide enlightenment, what is a DIVA magazine?
I learned through Google there is a lesbian-bi periodical by that name, however I do not see the connection unless I am missing something. Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

I think I'm an awesome Diva and I have yet to receive an invite. Wtf?

Are you guys keeping up with that thread... If you'll do a little research and read some of these guys previous posts and reviews...

Very murky water with the Christina chick, imho.

If there is one word that's use personifies ghetto, "haters" has got to be it. Thanks for the self-alert, dude!



I think I'm an awesome Diva and I have yet to receive an invite. Wtf? Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Is this Christina chick even here???

Since it began the thread, and perhaps would provide enlightenment, what is a DIVA magazine?
I learned through Google there is a lesbian-bi periodical by that name, however I do not see the connection unless I am missing something. Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

I'm not sure what It is they texted me saying they say my ad on BP and would like me to be in their magazine I didn't even bother looking it up It sounds like a Pimp in Disguise to me................