BP:will we ever learn?

DAMN! I thought this was about British Petroleum and the spill on the coast!

Carry on, mongers!

Toyz,

I'm sorry to hear about you worst experiences. That is why it would make sense for a legit girl to advertise there. Many backpage memebers become regulars or p411/eccie members b/c of me and other like myself. If I were smart/selfish I wouldn't even mention review boards; but they always come back to mama anyway .

Toyz I won't explain my screening methods b/c other girls not advertising on BP is a plus for me, but know my screening is zip tight.

Often times I see guys that are complaining about girls on BP ripping them off. But half the time there are some BIG RED FLAGS that are plain as day. Or they are a member here and there is already an alert on the girl.

Guys here are some ways to avoid BP drama.

- 1st and foremost search here.

- Search the girls phone # on backpage and google and see what comes up. Usually if another girl has the same # they are usually under management.

- At the end of an ad, there is an option for the advertiser to display how long they have been a member of BP. This might help discern a legit girl from an ever changing scammer.

- If they tell you to come over without some kind of screening that is a dead give away.

- If you see bruises and unusual markings on the girls arm blatantly displayed in the pic or in person; stay away (it amazes me some of the alerts I see in which the girl blatantly has issues). Although you can find this with some of the popular ladies that advertise here and some of you have already seen girls like that. But hey, at least they didn't rip you off right. So who cares!

- If something just doesn't sound/feel right. Leave it alone. Guys often think with their little head.

I always want to ask the guys that post an alert: did you get a feeling something wasn't right? Most people do, they just fail to listen to it. Although, I had a very smart respected provider here once tell me she doesn't believe in intuition, or at least she had never felt any warnings of danger. I really didn't understand this. I though everyone had spidy-senses. Well even if one doesn't have spidy-senses, there is usually some sign or red flag displayed by a person who has ill intent. Something they say. Their tone of voice. It's amazing how some well-to-do people who have degrees in communication, law, healthcare, have little common sense when it come to human behavior. Stop being so gullible and think with the head that controls the whole body and not with the one who doesn't give a fuck about you.


Your big head will tell you:

Yo me! Don't do it. You have quite a bit to lose messing with these scalawags.

Your lil' head will tell you:

Listen here bitch, If this hoochie has her pimp knock you to oblivion at least I have helped you creampie enough times to produce another dumb-ass just like you so who needs you anyway.

That's what your dick said; not me.

Good lord EJ Usually log on just to get updates, not read a masters dissertation!


Gotta go listen to Rob Snieder (sp?) at Antones...have a great night!

Good lord EJ Usually log on just to get updates, not read a masters dissertation!


Gotta go listen to Rob Snieder (sp?) at Antones...have a great night! Originally Posted by Toyz

Sorry guy, but some people need a schooling from the school of hard knocks, b/c their masters degree didn't come with a lick of street smarts.

If a provider ripped me off as a hobbyist (at her public incall) she would have some issues.

Wait that already happened to me...... and I didn't do shit. Now I'm getting pissed all over again. Just know it's not only BP girls you have to worry about.
There are scammers everywhere, even here and p411
Gonna go find a punching bag now.

BP can be a valuable asset. I rarely dabble there, but a couple of years ago, on a whim, I contacted a young lady that was far beyond anything I've met recently. Some of the guys might remember a short span when she crossed over to the old site for a bit. $200 on BP and after finding out how much demand there was for the Executive Office type girl, she went to $500, then dropped out of sight completely. the name was Gabby, drove a Red pickup and presented herself better than most. Have tried again since then.. don't have the time, nor interest in sifting through all the debris...
It's just plain fun to browse sometimes to see how silly it can get.

Sorry guy, but some people need a schooling from the school of hard knocks, b/c their masters degree didn't come with a lick of street smarts.

If a provider ripped me off as a hobbyist (at her public incall) she would have some issues.

Wait that already happened to me...... and I didn't do shit. Now I'm getting pissed all over again. Just know it's not only BP girls you have to worry about.
There are scammers everywhere, even here and p411
Gonna go find a punching bag now. Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

It's easier for ladies then gents. 95% of the chicks on bp don't have reviews. You can screen 100% of the guys from where ever they call you from. All the pretty young hot faces on bp it comes down to a flip of the coin. I read what you posted suggestions and they are solid but bottom line is 90% of these ladies are gonna be hit or miss. The providers that are on there are not the ladies guys from here are seeking, if they were they'd have already called them from here so it's a big crapshoot. Here's a couple bad reviews since this thread started. So for ladies it doesn't really matter where you get clients from because you can screen. For us gents all the alerts and bad reviews show our success is a lot lower. Don't get me wrong I've had some good experiences. One of my ATF ladies was from back page. Years ago I met this young lady named summer something. AA lady from houston. Probably my first gfe experience with a provider. I saw her once a week until she moved away. mmmmmmmmmmmmmm memmories, I think it was summer melody.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=508214

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=500441

I see where you guys are coming from. But you have to be thankful of all the good intel the more "adventurous" gents provide. They should start charging for it. Something like: donate a dollar to my I got jacked fund, and I'll give you the skinny on this scammer.

I see where you guys are coming from. But you have to be thankful of all the good intel the more "adventurous" gents provide. They should start charging for it. Something like: donate a dollar to my I got jacked fund, and I'll give you the skinny on this scammer. Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

Nah, I don't know that I would take ANYBODIES word for a BP provider since it is such a cluster fuck. Name changes, stolen or modified photos, pimps, no pimps, drugs,no drugs. There are no doubt a lot of fine ladies, but I prefer more real world info than BP provides. Seldom do I believe ANY advertising..

I troll BP looking for the gems...few and far between.....this is one of my fondest finds...Now if I could just get back in touch with her...http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=392065
I will continue to check out both eccie and bp, and hopefully it won't bite me in the ass.

Is your statement from experience or hearsay?

How do you figure some girls don't care who it is?

Just wondering how these generalizations came about for you. I have been advertising on BP regularly for may years now, so I am by default wrongfully included with these generalizations. There are dangers and frustrations to weed out with any endeavor in life. That wont stop some from expanding their potential, especially from a business standpoint.

I wont give away all of my alternative screening methods but trust me, I'm not going to see every one that calls. I don't even think that is physically possible. So yes there are diamonds in the rough on BP and plenty of great men to meet...... as everywhere else in this ever dangerous/illusive life.

But don't take my word for it. Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

+1

Early this week I was feeling frisky and I looked thru backpage. I contacted a few ladies. Two of the ones I wanted to put some hometown on turned out later I saw them post here on eccie. Guess my spidey sense is still pretty good. I had one who's pics looked pretty good text me with two girls everything $100. My spidey sense told me to move on from that one. What's the saying, If it sounds to good to be true, IT IS.

I got three simple answers for you.

1. Variety
2. Price
3. Fresh faces Originally Posted by homer13

4. Some ladies (especially travelers) don't know about eccie (or think it's too much trouble)
5. Some people like a little element of danger in their fun.
But, yes. BP is definitely a gamble.
eccie is a community where people have reputations (that matter)
bp has no consequences, so it draws a MUCH higher percentage of scammers and cheaters.
I highly prefer eccie, but there are some "hidden gems" that I have only met through bp and would have otherwise missed out on.