Dominating or Dominated?

LOL....yes......and it took me 35 years to work up the nerve! I don't have another 35! Originally Posted by hgritstoo
Let go of all your inhibitions and go for it, remember this is all in fun, wanted by both, so no one is going to call the boss, wife or LE.
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burkalini's Avatar
I personally like my women head down and ass up so I guess I am on the Dom side
HotOmahaRod's Avatar
I love being softly dominated by beautiful women....he he he
Marcus Aurelius's Avatar
strawberrycar934's Avatar
Umm, communication. I have known ladies outside of the hobby that enjoy that. I think itis more common than most people expect.

What is missing from this thread is that women tend to want all kinds of sex. They want the wine and roses sex where the man dresses in suit and tie, walks in with flowers and carefully and passionately makes love to her.

Women also want the kind of sex where the man throws her over her lab calls her a naughty name, pulls down her pants, rips her shirt (not off, literally rips it in two) slaps her ass - until it is red then pulls down his pants and without a word does her doggie style while moving the couch across the room.

This is also the same lady that you can take to a cocktail function who engages in a discussion of Plato's Simile of the Sun.

As for me personally, I am not a dom. I can't completely own it - like a dom should. I enjoy role playing so when I think of this as a role or a character that I take on - I can own it and enjoy the heck out of it.

The trick - find a gal - take about it before and afterwards and it just works. I tend to see things as IRL and in fantasy. In real life, you discuss things and make sure everything. In the fantasy it is go time and you keep to character (as in play).

And to tie into another thread - I have started to explore cuckolding with couples which to me is a just a fantasy role that I take on. I manage the fantasy and the real life.
Marcus Aurelius's Avatar
wow - your first post sent me to outer space.
Marcus Aurelius's Avatar
wow - your first post sent me to outer space. Originally Posted by dadee4you
Who's first post?
MOCHAakaMOCHA's Avatar
I'm greedy I like a bit of both: being told what to do & "manhandled" and sometimes I like playing boss.