My Daughter's Friend is a Provider...and What a Provider!

Let me play devil's advocate: if my daughter doesn't know that June (not her provider name) is a provider, if June has been successful keeping that from her, then why would I think she would find out? Just asking. Originally Posted by Chicago K9

From the tone of your post even after all of the warnings and advice it sounds like something you want to do with or without anyone's blessing.

This indicates that either you are totally making this up for effect or common sense isn't your strongest trait.

On what planet would it seem remotely wise to hobby with your young daughter's best friend?
How could you possibly think your daughter wouldn't find out some day?
Either this girl would feel guilty and confess to your daughter down the road or she would throw it in your daughter's face out of spite during some future spat between them.
This didn't occur to you?

From the tone of your post even after all of the warnings and advice it sounds like something you want to do with or without anyone's blessing.

This indicates that either you are totally making this up for effect or common sense isn't your strongest trait.

On what planet would it seem remotely wise to hobby with your young daughter's best friend?
How could you possibly think your daughter wouldn't find out some day?
Either she would feel guilty and confess to your daughter down the road or she would throw it in your daughter's face out of spite during some future spat between them.
This didn't occur to you? Originally Posted by Codybeast

I really think this is a deflection from his leaking ML info. controversy.Who knows? Maybe he is really as dense as he is making himself out to be with this thread

sixx

Chicago K9, can you provide us the provider's profile? At least let us judge if she's worth it on the hotness scale...

I would never just show up. Obviously I would have to warn her. But the ladies bring up an angle I hadn't considered (which is exactly why I started this thread). Yes, she had a crush on me, but that was nearly ten years ago. Never occurred to me that it would be awkward for her. Using my own perspective, if someone I had a crush on when I was a teen suddenly showed up and wanted to get busy, I don't think I'd hesitate, but that doesn't mean others feel the same way.
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Regarding my relationship with my daughter, it's complicated. There was a time a few years ago when I actually talked to her about dating one of her friends who was dropping thinly veiled hints that she was interested. My daughter told me then that her friend and I were both of age and what we did was our business, and she didn't seem at all put off by the prospect, other than to ask me what the hell we'd talk about when we weren't horizontal. It didn't happen, but the reaction I got then is a big reason why I'd even consider this thing now.
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As for the provider's profile, maybe I should cut and paste it into an email? Oh, wait...
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The more I read, the more I am convinced this was a bad idea. And hey, just for the record: dense would have been if I went with my first impulse and just did it. I've made my share of poor choices where the zipper is concerned; that's why I brought this into a public forum. I knew there would be angles I hadn't considered, and there were. I also knew there would be personal attacks, and there were: imagine my shock. But I thank those of you who took the time to post. I'll take my trip and find another provider. And always wonder what it would have been like...

I don't know if you should be talking about getting a life. You have been on this board pretty hardcore at all times of the day. I haven't posted as much in the last few months. Take your own advice while you hide under this "new" handle.

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

Praise Allah. Someone finally said it.

I really think this is a deflection from his leaking ML info. controversy.Who knows? Maybe he is really as dense as he is making himself out to be with this thread

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

That would be my guess.

Chicago K9, can you provide us the provider's profile? At least let us judge if she's worth it on the hotness scale... Originally Posted by Fingerling

Yea. Great idea. Why don't you let us check her out and get back to you on it.


This whole scenario sounds like a farce to me. I don't buy it.

Are you really that stupid? Originally Posted by sixxbach

My sentiment exactly.

Originally Posted by Still Looking

A Laugh-In reference!


Be Still my heart!

Devil's advocate: since it would be taboo, it might be the ride of your life. Sometimes our best experiences in life happen when we look our fears in the face. But it depends on your relationship with your daughter and others in your life. I wouldn't let someone else's fears drive your decision, just weight the pros and cons from your own perspective.

Just remember, the holy grail is the one we don't have. Once we get it, it may be holy for awhile, but eventually, it's just a grail.

I wouldn't do it!! If one of my friends dad showed up...I would be traumatized. Please think with your other head and see someone else and forget you ever saw her.

What if your daughter does know and June tells her?? Think what that would do to your daughter.

Two words: American Beauty. Nuff sed...

Was wondering what you would do if the worst case scenario happened. Your daughter does know that her friend is a Provider, it's possible, girls talk. You show up to the incall a few minutes early, and you cross paths with your daughter leaving the apartment/house, knowing her friend is expecting a client.

Or worse yet, there's a "surprise" waiting for you, it's a doubles partner, and it IS your daughter! Could you handle that? It could really do some damage, but if you feel you can risk it, each of you have your own lives to live. For myself, I wouldn't...It hits too close to home...

Please excuse this because I rarely swear:

To be frank, if found out, you would not only be fucking with your relationship with your daughter, you would also be fucking with your daughter's relationship with her friend. She could loose this friend because of your poor choice . Of all of the Providers available, you choose someone you knew was her friend. She could view that as a VERY SELFISH act even possibly to deliberately hurt her...Could you live with yourself?

Don't do this. Taboo or no taboo. Relationship or no relationship. What you are doing is opening up a Pandoras box of ass whooping. The long term unintended consequences maybe too much for you to bear. Walk away. Don't ever mix the hobby life with the regular life.

Was wondering what you would do if the worst case scenario happened. Your daughter does know that her friend is a Provider, it's possible, girls talk. You show up to the incall a few minutes early, and you cross paths with your daughter leaving the apartment/house, knowing her friend is expecting a client.

Or worse yet, there's a "surprise" waiting for you, it's a doubles partner, and it IS your daughter! Could you handle that? It could really do some damage, but if you feel you can risk it, each of you have your own lives to live. For myself, I wouldn't...It hits too close to home... Originally Posted by Mia Christine

And how would you compose that REVIEW?

And are you sure the urge you have for your daughter's friend doesnt have a deeper context?

This isn't the Movies. The consequences are real and last sometimes forever.