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Very powerfull post. Sorry about your loss.

Very well said Garland_Bone. I'm very sorry for your loss man, really.

About a year and a half ago I had a horrible fight with a Loved One, said the worst possible things and she did too. Later that day I had server chest pains and drove myself to the ER. I just knew I was having a heart attack. As they were hooking me up to the machines all I could think was "I am going to die and never get a chance to apologize for what I said". It turned out to be a panic attack but the difference to me was minimal.

Be careful what you say and do.

"Lovers come and go but friends are hard to make and harder still to keep, work on it, it is worth it" - Lucky Jack Aubery

My eyes are teared up now, well said GB, I lost my SO to cancer two years ago, it's been the hardest experience of my life. Like motorload I was able to hold her hand and tell her how much I loved her until she passed on. It was over a year before I could get rid of her clothes and I finally sold her car a few months ago, in other words GB don't get in a hurry, just take one day at a time.

Again my deepest condolences.

"I'll stand at your right side and guard your shield, I'll protect your women, and I -swear- not to drink all your beer."

"Found on a Roman tomb in northern Italy"

Garland, we've never meet, but you're the kind of person that makes all of the other a**holes bearable. Fight the good fight, and know that there are people who respect you and will guard your back.

Ogre39

Yep, GBone, about 90% of what goes on in life is bullsh*t, white noise and a circle jerk. You're talking about the remaining 10% (our unfortunate choice) of life that matters and should be the 90%.

But, we're all such freaking geniuses that we know better, take care of things that really are out of our control and forget about what matters.

GBone,

My deepest sympathy for your loss. Thanks for reminding us what is most important.

Garland, wise words. Anything we can do to help, let us know.