How early in life did you realize you had your fetish...
Mine began when I was about 10 or 11. A group of 5 or 6 of us used to walk home (about 1 mile) from school. On the way, my younger sister would always end up wetting her pants before getting home because she wouldn't 'go' before leaving school. And in those days girls had to wear dresses which meant what she was doing was not obvious.
She wouldn't say anything about it until we got home. Something about that infatuated me and, for a while, I began to try visualizing what it would be like to personally witness the act. After that I just liked seeing females in their underwear and looking under skirts and dresses.
That's a fetish???? I thought wanting to look up girls' skirts and dresses was normal.
- Munk
- 07-06-2010, 01:38 PM
I was in 7th or 8th grade when I first started to notice the stubble under the girls underarms and have been fascinated with girls armpits ever since. I was 15 when I lost my virginity to another virgin and we learned and experimented quite a bit that summer. She let me lick, suck, and play with her armpits during sex and it's now something I love to fantasize about even today 20 years later.
I'm told when I was a young lad, somewhere around the age of three or four, I liked to touch the legs of women who were wearing stockings . . .
Lo these many years later, not much has changed . . .
I was spanked as a young boy...often. I remember a coupe of times... once when I was in Kindergarten I kept bring home pieces of stuff in my jeans pockets. My Mom was not happy having to dig this stuff out before doing the wash. My Dad saw the pile of puzzle pieces and bits of this game and that and told me I was getting a spanking for “stealing this stuff by bringing it home”. My bottom was spanked bright red and I cried. He then told me that the next time I had stuff in my jeans I would get it again. Well my Mom was still doing the laundry and she found more stuff in my pockets. My Dad was not happy and he spanked me again right on top of my already sore bottom. I also played strip poker with my siblings when we were about 11, 10 and 7. The person who got the bare bottom first, got a spanking from the other two players…I loved this game! One last memory is the only time I got the belt, for talking about our home remodeling project at school. For some reason my Dad wanted the remodel kept UTR and when I spoke about it in school and brought in a carpet sample, he was very upset and I got the belt for a very long time. By then I was old enough to understand that I was turned on by this activity….
For the past 20 plus years I have tried to get my SO to spank me, and she will but she is not happy about it and is afraid I might get hurt or something… so I hobby.
Now I ask for spankings, and then we have fun time and I ask for the cane at the end of the session to mimick the "stuff" spankings....
yeah know my story get weird. at 4 when I knew I liked the idea of bondage, I had an unusual tell when something turned me on. Had that "tell" until I was like 20. I would sneeze! Anyway, when i was 4, I would watch Heathcliff and Inspector Gadget. The opening credits for both involve bondage in some fashion. This was a magic year in my life, because I also accidentally saw a flash of full frontal from a movie called Looker. I was fascinated with that triangle shaped area for the rest of my life. Ahhh the memories.
When I was about 9 I use to dress up in my mothers office attire and pretend I was having an affair with my boss. office attire, i love it.
I was a realloner as a kid and I still am for the most part. I used to torture myself and deprive myself of things- it could be anything really. I loved pain from about age 4 or 5 and I would get in fights, push myself in activities, get into trouble, or do it myself to feel pain. I still love it. Recieving as much as giving. I like to share.
KKA
Walked into the bathroom and saw moms douchebag hanging there when I was 5...had to have a couple of enemas a week since. I don't know if she ever knew I was sneaking around playing with it as I got older, but the next door neighbor showed me what it was really for when I was 12 and she was 14. When I see an amber laxtex bag now, i get an instant hard on. Weird huh. I guess I was 12 when I developed that love of DATY too. Or is that really a fetish? I had a provider tell me one time, "Show me a guy that really is obsessed with DATY and I'll show you a guy that will suck dick too with the right encouragement". That has never occurred to me to try, guess she was wrong.
- Bliss
- 08-02-2010, 10:07 PM
When I was about 9 I use to dress up in my mothers office attire and pretend I was having an affair with my boss. office attire, i love it.
Originally Posted by LuckyNatalia
Omg that is so HOT!!!
Although I love to play with fetishes, there are really none that really does it for me, I mean, I love bondage, and hotwax...and I love to watch SO with another woman...and I totally love my toys...but I'm not really hardcore into fetishes.
I knew I was overly sexual though when I was in the 2nd grade...not sure how old I was...7 or 8?
I remember discovering that there was 'another hole there' when my best friend at the time inserted a tinker toy stick in it to show me that it was there...I have no idea how old I was, but that moment got me playing with myself. My sisters always thought I was a lezbian because I always slept with my hand down my panties.
Now, in the second grade, that is when I realized I was really obsessed with it. Me and my best friend at the time (differant then the other friend) was playing 'hide and seek' with her sibelings, and we were hideing together in a small closet. I wanted to show her that there was something down between her legs that felt good when you rubbed it. We ended up fingering each other (outside of the vagina). Of course we were too young to climax, but we could get ourselves stimulated. After that, all I wanted to do is go back to the closet, or lay in her bed with the blankets drawn up, and do it some more!
This moment opened me up to enjoying other ladies and like I said, realizing that I was obsessed with sex!
Never put too much thought into but the question made me look at all the calf roping I did growing up on a ranch in a completely different light . . .
At least I don't throw up my hands and look for a flag . . . unless it's a really good tie!
Flyer
Good Afternoon;
It wasn't until I spend considerable time with a young lady who had a well developed submissive streak that I realised how much I enjoyed being dominant.
Whilst I had always been assertive, being introduced to the milder ends of the BDSM spectrum certainly enhanced the total experience.
But I have to make clear that no matter how much I enjoy administering a good spanking or encasing a young lady's upper body in Saran wrap, these are nothing but appetisers, the idea of an encounter that does not include penetrative sex is anathema to me.
So, whether this counts as a 'fetish' or just extended foreplay, I don't really know; but, after all, I don't really care, as long as I am having fun.
Thank you for reading
Cyclops
I am just beginning to explore my fetishes with the help of this lovely lady. We will be testing my boundaries a bit more in a couple of days...
Tis fun to explore...
I honestly couldn't say what my trigger was...
I was a realloner as a kid and I still am for the most part. I used to torture myself and deprive myself of things- it could be anything really. I loved pain from about age 4 or 5 and I would get in fights, push myself in activities, get into trouble, or do it myself to feel pain. I still love it. Recieving as much as giving. I like to share.
KKA
Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn
I was 20, on the pizza and ramen noodles diet- going to college and working full time... Used to mess around in chatrooms when I got bored at night (this was late 90s/early2000s so ALOT has changed)... and a hot guy from overseas talked sexy to me and wanted to send me a fur coat and nylon stockings... I'd never had anything so sensuous... and I'd always loved the glamor and mystery of the "femme fatales" in movies and sexy sassy women in literature...
This older guy had a serious fetish and more or less seduced me into sharing it with him...