Incall Security/Precautionary Measures

I too provide incall out of a private apartment.

Besides screening, I have a very trusted neighbor in the building who is my safe-call. If not available, I tell another friend what is happening and contact when finished. Only once has my neighbor had to come in as the guy was very drunk and getting abusive. (I also informed the ladies who I got a reference from what happened so they was aware.)

Regarding LE, well - I am low volume. I only see one a day and only a few a week.

I tell people as well as the other neighbors I am a bookkeeper and clients drop off their info.

dogs and accounting don't bother me....hehe.....so glad to see the ladies looking out for number 1. i want to feel just as safe. i hate the maybes and suspect pimped hotels. definitely don't think twice in a nice neighborhood or an upscale hotel.

Get a pitbull like me. I travel with mine he waits in the bathroom while im on a call ready and alert. He is a train personal security dog. I had somebody come at me once, I ran to the bathroom open the door and he ran out naked lol Then called me asking for his stuff.. I shouldnt have gave them to him but I was nice enough to set it out the door. Back home I have 3more dogs so when I see somebody at my incall I feel as safe as can be. I screen all new clients to protect myself from le but dog can be a gals best friend. Now if I can only teach them to do dishes and laundry ill be set. lol

Get a pitbull like me. I travel with mine he waits in the bathroom while im on a call ready and alert. He is a train personal security dog. I had somebody come at me once, I ran to the bathroom open the door and he ran out naked lol Then called me asking for his stuff.. I shouldnt have gave them to him but I was nice enough to set it out the door. Back home I have 3more dogs so when I see somebody at my incall I feel as safe as can be. I screen all new clients to protect myself from le but dog can be a gals best friend. Now if I can only teach them to do dishes and laundry ill be set. lol Originally Posted by miss_sexyjenna

I have a large pit bull at home. I guess I should start bringing her to my incall too. Ordinarily, she'd just beat someone to death with her wagging tail, but she's got a mean streak when protecting her Mommy. She's 80 pounds of nothing but muscle and teeth...LOL

Hey Shorty- So kind of you as a hobbiest to sit there and tell a lady that she should not see clients at her place. If you are not going to pay for her incall or hotel then you should just shut up and mind your own business.

KarynKumming- I use my place as an incall. Get ready for some judgmental women and men hopping on this thread to shake their rulers at you. They won't pay your bills, bail you out of jail or pay your medical bills but boy they sure love to judge and we are not even in church. LOL!

I screen very hard. I have a very large dog that is sweet as sugar but he is not going to let anyone harm his mama. I am a gun owner and I do keep one close by. If you know a lady in this biz that you can trust then I suggest you call her when the client shows and when he leaves.

Keep all personal items that you have your real information away from your entertaining area. Hide photos of your family. I know it sounds paranoid but why would you want anyone to know what your family and loved ones look like. They are not going to introduce you to their family and friends. Originally Posted by mikkifine

I lucked into a sweet deal that I couldn't refuse which allows my incall location to be other than my home. I be bop back and forth throughout the week and I cover a much larger metropolitan area now. It's like my "Girl Cave." I even go there from time to time when I don't have appointments just for the peace and quiet...LOL

No judgement from me Mikki, I appreciate your post. If you're happy working from your home, that's all the matters. I don't have that option or I probably would have been too. Up until my "Girl Cave" came along, I only provided outcall services.

I used to share a girl cave too with a friend of mine. Loved that place. Your right too, peace and quiet. Wish we still had it, plus it gave me more availbilty. Now it is very limited.

I have a large pit bull at home. I guess I should start bringing her to my incall too. Ordinarily, she'd just beat someone to death with her wagging tail, but she's got a mean streak when protecting her Mommy. She's 80 pounds of nothing but muscle and teeth...LOL Originally Posted by KarynKumming

ouch that tail hurts lol. Its so funny the way they wag their whole but when they are happy.

ouch that tail hurts lol. Its so funny the way they wag their whole but when they are happy. Originally Posted by miss_sexyjenna

Yes it is. She'll wag her tail and butt so hard and fast, sometimes she'll lose her balance and fall down on these slick hardwood floors. I have a Chihuahua too so you can imagine the cheap entertainment they provide me...LOL

I used to share a girl cave too with a friend of mine. Loved that place. Your right too, peace and quiet. Wish we still had it, plus it gave me more availbilty. Now it is very limited. Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

Fortunately, I don't have to share my "Girl Cave" with anyone. It's a nice condo in a gated community with all the comforts of home and more. I love it and enjoy going there to just hibernate...lol

Dogs are intuitive creatures - they can quickly and accurately can figure out those that are good, and those that are not so good. In addition to being your security, they can also be your "final screening." Of course, being a dog person, I have no issues with ladies with dogs - as long as they (the dogs) are house broken and if they shed, the incall is clean, in other words, no or minimal fur (not good when going home - sort of like going home with a lady's hair on your clothes).

no or minimal fur (not good when going home - sort of like going home with a lady's hair on your clothes). Originally Posted by plainjoe

When I had a cat, I use to use one of those sticky tape roller thingies that remove pet hair. I never thought about using it for my hair - I should since I seem to shed a lot.

Fortunately, I don't have to share my "Girl Cave" with anyone. It's a nice condo in a gated community with all the comforts of home and more. I love it and enjoy going there to just hibernate and get my taint on ...lol Originally Posted by KarynKumming

I just finished your thought.

Yes the tail reminds of Godzilla the way it just knocks things off the tables with one swipe. LOL! Pop on the knee caps with tail too.

ouch that tail hurts lol. Its so funny the way they wag their whole but when they are happy. Originally Posted by miss_sexyjenna

I just finished your thought. Originally Posted by pyramider

Yes, and you did a fine job of it too

I see that a number of ladies think they "protect themselves" by calling a friend or someone else at the start and after a visit is done.
What I don't get is how it helps you.
Same with drivers for agency girls.

They think you are fucking for the time that is paid for, and in the meantime your client has your hands tied on your back, duct tape over your mouth and is carving his nick name with a knife in your belly, right before he calmly slashes your windpipe. Maybe he even wants to fuck your dead body.

What I mean is: I think that the only way to be safe for the ladies is screening. P411 membership or other similar sites. White List on TER, those kind of things.