Ok. I got a question regarding those that are into Strap-On Play....

No Rick. You seem to be the one who is confused. It's a toy, it's not real and it isn't attached to a human body. It's not a cock. Wearing it does not magically turn me into a man! I can't request a new birth certificate because of it. Not a real cock it's just a piece silicone!

So what if you are using a cucumber or carrot? If it's not a strap on toy will that negate the gayness?

A cucumber , a carrot , a banana , or even a gerb*l would change the equation . But if it walks , talks , and looks like a cock , GAY !

Not since I was a child. Once I got a paper route and started making money I found I could always pay some little gal to do it and more for me. Originally Posted by Whispers

That makes sense, it is after all, the world's oldest profession! I doubt you had to pay anyone, I bet you were pretty buff after throwing all those stone tablets every day you beefcake!

What is the difference between a thin carrot and a finger? Have you ever had a prostate massage? I guess you're gay now. Ladies of the board, it's a dark day. Rocker Rick is gay now. I propose a day of mourning.

What is the difference between a thin carrot and a finger? Originally Posted by Kitty D'Luxe

Well you can't eat the finger afterward !

Fucking gross dude.

You see, anal play for straight men is something that in the real world, most guys are NOT able to ask their wives for. So guess where they come? HERE. Usually, they don't include it in the reviews which means you sir, are probably friends with a good number of these guys.

Having someone play with an erogenous zone doesn't make you gay. It makes you sexually satisfied if that's what you're into. Originally Posted by Kitty D'Luxe

+1 Meow!

Your original question has as many answers as there are men who enjoy engaging in this activity. For many people, sexuality is fluid, and refuse to be labeled or contain it to a tiny box just to conform to an arbitrary societal norm. But I digress..Your question was specifically about strait men and Strap On Play.

Lets be clear, there is a measured difference between someone who is Gay, and someone who enjoys any form of Prostate or Perineum Play/Stimulation. Someone who identifies them selves as Gay or Homosexual, is primarily attracted to men...in all or most of their varied forms.

On the sexual side, A strait man who is into Strap On, Dildo, Prostate Massage (via gloved hand or finger), or Anal Play in all of it's many forms, tend to be someone who just wants to fully explore one of the many erogenous zones we all enjoy! It's all different forms of Prostate stimulation. There are those that consider this expression of sexuality, taboo to some extent, which can make it difficult for a strait man to express his needs to his partner. So as Kitty so eloquently stated, they come to us. On the flip, there are also those strait men who are encouraged by there physician, for medical reasons, to seek out this kind of stimulation. Ultimately, the Strap On, Dildo, Prostate Massage (via gloved hand or finger), become just a preferred mode of delivery.

In my work, I have found that most men store their stress, frustration, anger, what ever you would like to call it, in their Prostate and Perineum. This is why I tend to devote so much time in my sessions to the Perineum, and when requested the Prostate. I've listed a few of the documented medical benefits below;

1."This massage therapy could help determine the existence of any cancerous cells growth or infection in the male prostate gland. Therefore, if a male could be suffering from this condition, it could be easily traced in the earliest possible time and proper treatment can be applied to prevent it from getting severe.

2.This massage therapy also aids in draining the seminal fluids, which have been collected and creates pressure in a lot of cases, inflammation.

3.Prostate massage therapy aids to loosen the tension and stress in the muscles, as well as in the nerve endings in the prostate area. Men could truly feel relaxed when the muscles of the gland are massaged, but not the gland itself.

4.Prostate massage increases the circulation to the prostate gland, providing nourishment and oxygen, in order to heal it.

5.This relaxing massage also cleanses the prostate.

6.Prostate massage therapy makes masturbation not necessary and usually, it would even remove the desire for it. Prostate therapy can protect men from the occurrence of threatening prostate gland cancer. Men who regularly apply prostate massage therapy are less likely prone to the development of prostate gland cancer.

7.This therapy can aid men who suffer from a serious case of prostate enlargement. This massage technique can help men fight and prevent the development of certain prostate disorders.

8.Prostate massage therapy can help men overcome impotence by stimulating the flow of seminal fluid and increases circulation.

9.The swollen prostate can be alleviated with the help of prostate massage. It could be really uncomfortable when you suffer from a swollen prostate gland, most especially when sitting down and pressure would build around the prostate.

10.Usually, enlargement of the prostate gland is the cause of difficulty in urine flow. Now, with prostate massage therapy, there will be reduction of pressure from the released fluids. This would help get back with the proper and normal urine flow."

When the Prostate and Perineum are stimulated in tandem, using specific techniques, I have been privileged to witness some of the most intense, explosive orgasms my clients have ever felt. Guttural. I can feel the semen flow from it's source all of the way through and out. Some even have multiple orgasms, feeling a bit like "dry heaves" because they have been fully drained of all fluid....Then of course, I giggle! It's fantastic!

I understand the use of a Strap On gives a feeling of "Fullness" not necessarily felt by other modes of stimulation. Which can also feel delicious when feeling the pressure and force of another body.

Of course, I also have been privileged to watch very strait alpha males, melt, feeling, wanting, the feeling of domination Prostate Play can bring. But that's another conversation for another day.

To put it simply, it hits the spot...and baby, it feels so good!

Live and let Live

That makes sense, it is after all, the world's oldest profession! I doubt you had to pay anyone, I bet you were pretty buff after throwing all those stone tablets every day you beefcake! Originally Posted by Kitty D'Luxe

I Love's some Kitty!

My apologies Whispers but this entire thread displays a bit of ignorance as a lover. Gay is about one's attraction to the same sex period.

Almost every part of the human body can be an erogenous zone if handled right. Stimulation comes in many forms and the prostate is the most well known for men.

The act of sex no matter what that act is not gay if it is about erogenous stimulation between a man and a woman with emphasis on stimulation as opposed to gay fantasy.

I have enjoyed pegging with GF's since my young 20's as it provides a powerful climax like nothing else due to the physical stimulation it provides. It also is a psychological turn on for many women as it is very empowering. No one who has ever known me would Ever think of me as any form of closet gay.

I don't understand Gays or how any man could ever be attracted to another man but then again I don't have to understand so I don't concern myself with it. To each his own.

Pegging is simply about being sexually uninhibited and secure en0ugh with one's own manhood to not give a shit about the opinions of those who are sexually uptight.

question..... How is taking a plastic dick up the ass NOT gay? Originally Posted by Whispers

No where in his thread does he say shit about prostate play , that was Kitty going off topic ! Taking a plastic dick up your ass is gay !

You DING DING what the fuck do you think pegging is?

Gay !

You see Kitty , girls have asses , and they have fingers , what they don't have are dicks ! You seem unclear that it is the dick that makes it GAY! Originally Posted by rockerrick

Thou doth protest way too much. It is an Object a WOMAN is using to stimulate a man often while giving him a blow job as she kneels between his legs (Try it first). It is not a dick.

When they start making these objects in the shapes of cucumbers or any other cylindrical shapes which would work just as well I guess that would no longer be gay?

You and Whispers are pretty intelligent guys. How can you display such blatant ignorance over a common sense topic?

If it's a prostate massager or a gspot wand , they don't look like a dick . Now if it's an 8" veiny dick shaped object , that is because you want dick up your ass ! You try it I will pass ! I can tell you , shoving a imitation cock up my ass , would be the surest way to turn me off sexually .

Ass play is ass play homo!