No Rick. You seem to be the one who is confused. It's a toy, it's not real and it isn't attached to a human body. It's not a cock. Wearing it does not magically turn me into a man! I can't request a new birth certificate because of it. Not a real cock it's just a piece silicone!
So what if you are using a cucumber or carrot? If it's not a strap on toy will that negate the gayness?