Face pictures

I don't ever give someone face pictures.
I let them know that it is for my privacy and security.
They're USUALLY understanding, but then again, I've had the, "Oh, you must be ugly then!" reply a few times. Or, "Then I'm not seeing you."
You just have to shake it off and do what works best for you. Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

Allie you have a very pretty face and stunning eyes.

For me pics are nice to give an idea of what to expect but I also love a little mystery when meeting a provider for the first time or again if we click.

Miss you ladies as I am stuck in the boonies this summer. Grizzly

I do like the direct approach. "I don't ever send face pictures period."

As a client, I am ok with no face pictures but, if so, then i want body pictures to judge. Either face or body but I don't like when both are basically hidden. Usually face with bikini works for me to judge.

Very few. So few that you'd be broke. Let's not forget what we're doing here....and who's the paying customer. Originally Posted by Kshunter

That's exactly my point. Ladies who don't show their faces do so for a reason. We have lives and things to risk/lose just like hobbyists do. I go to college (not an online one or community one), have a family, and a job outside of this life, this is not the only thing that I do. You wouldn't give your pics to a provider why do you think I would trust a complete stranger with mine? And I know exactly what we're doing here but just because you're the paying customer doesn't mean you get whatever you want. You pay for what we allow you to have, let's not forget that. With some ladies you can get plenty but I do not depend on you or anybody else on this board for my livlihood so there will be no talking down to me. And you seem to forget many ladies also get tons of contacts a day so for every hobbyist I turn down b/c they don't respect my rules there are 5 others behind him that will. I don't bend my rules. Period. Good day.

I think what it comes down to is comfort level. Everyone has their different reasons for this and that. Clients may want face pictures to make sure the provider is pretty enough, or to provide as little info as they can during screening, or low rates and a never-ending menu. Providers may want to hide their face, or obtain info for safety reasons, or up-sell or provide limited services. In the end, regardless of the many reasons and no matter how logical the reasons are, it comes down to how the person feels. If a client or provider is uncomfortable providing this, that, or the other… then the only thing to do is determine what to do from there.

Kshunter thank you for your perspective. Recently I have asked myself if a provider could be successful and elite, without having her face out there. If I don't try, I'll never know. A part of me views this as a challenge, and I like challenges. I understand the expectation that comes with high rates is experience, in combination with elite looks. I'm excited to see what the road ahead may bring.

With the way you present yourself I doubt you won't be successful. Best of luck.

I would just send them this image and let that end the question right there.

I would just send them this image and let that end the question right there.

Originally Posted by MisterSir

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