1. I'm not married.You are a harassment lawsuit waiting to happen.
2. I receive child support.
3. The ex made porn vids of herself with other men so I think I get a pass if it comes out that I have an assistant with benefits lol.
4. A friend hired his wife to help him and I know what that fold-out couch is for in his office!.
5. I am not looking for some creepy arrangement where I abuse some poor woman and extort sex. Rather, I would train an existing provider up in a great industry, pay for her licensing and provide a 40-50k per year income with a great shot at advancement.
6. I am a fairly good ally to any assistant that I have worked with in the past and I think that most of them would have "blown" me had I asked lol.
7. Legally and ethically I am fairly sure that I am ok. I would express my desire up front and not make it a condition of continued employment or advancement. Originally Posted by texascoffee
I am a single dad (full time) and manage a team (full time). When my kiddos are with their mom (some weekends), I spend every minute at my office. I do this to allow a better work-life balance when they are home.Joe Jamail was asked in his seventies why he didn't quit practicing law after many millions won, and he told the interviewer, "I'd quit, but there is just too much loose money out there."
I do not have time to seriously date. I can have a fling whenever I want but a fling is not satisfying to me.
I dream about having a loyal assistant at work that has a fetish for occasionally humping the boss. I would still need a competent, detail-oriented partner that could grow my business and help manage my affairs. I just would rather share my business instead of my kids with her.
Is this such a weird fetish (as weird as marriage seems to be anyway lol)? Originally Posted by texascoffee