Is it OK to ask for a half hour?

pyramider's Avatar
The fucktards that continually do the half hours are just looking for a cum bucket. They would be better off just rubbing one off to internet porn and saving their money.
Kayleehotchick's Avatar
I don't mind hh session as long as I know a head of time (before he comes over).
cheatercheater's Avatar
In answer to the question posed by the OP, it's ok to ask a provider if she offers what you want. Do it respectfully and they usually respond respectfully even if it is a no.

Some of the most respected ladies here offer 1/2 hr and some are UTR when it comes to less than an hour and will ask you not to review them for that 1/2 hour session.

And fuck whatever the rest of these horn dogs and others say about your intentions. Every stinking one of them would pay half price and be a cheap bastard if they could. Every lady would love double the donation if they could get it and not worry about cheapening the other ladies.
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
It is rude and tacky to ask for a 1/2hour if she does not list a 1/2 hour show on her advertisement. Apparently the 1/2 hr ladies are not cutting it for you so you want to cheapen the more expensive ladies. Yes you are being cheap for asking. It is very obvious. If you are not then just get the hour and chit chat if you can't get a second bell. Most ladies don't have a problem with a guy cumming more than once.

Sad how you come to a forum full of men who have no respect for women so you can justify yourself.

Women who offer 1 hour shows are not scammers. Some guys will say anything to bring this business into the gutter. Originally Posted by Goddess Emma Love
Not sure that I agree with much of what you've written this time.

I don't openly advertise 30 minute appointments but I'll do them and actually have learned to really like them, too.

Advertising for 30 minute appointments on backpage isn't allowed and so some ladies might not have it out there that they offer it.

As a past "I only do an hour and over" appointments snob, I understand where women are coming from who don't like the shorter appointments. I only like to do those during the day and during the week, when I keep a more regular schedule.

However, sometimes they can be such fun. Really!
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=320704&highlight=

Here is a topic that I started a long time back about 30 minute appointments. You might like reading it!

Elisabeth
I personally don't care for them...Its like I might as well walk the streets and do car dates.
Randall Creed's Avatar
Nothing wrong with hh's at all. If a guy can be done in 20 min and he's a one pop guy, why in the hell does he need to screw around, dragging ass for an hour, fumbling through conversation when both parties know the fun is over? Of course SOME women want an hour's pay for 20 minutes of work. If this is your mindset, then you can't complain about the hour guy who stays 90 minutes.

I've had hour sessions where I've been done early (inside 30 min) and the next thing you know, the provider's half dressed before my orgasmic high can go down. WTH! So much for MSOG, huh! Or at least an attempt at it. If this happens to you ENOUGH TIMES, you can't help but ponder why you even do an hour vs half hour.
daty/o's Avatar
There are many reasons why people request half hour sessions, and none of them strike me as tacky or rude. Most providers are not in this business to develop relationships (or have more o's), so why would a client want to spend any more time than necessary in a session. It isn't disrespectful, it's just common sense. We are the ones paying; we should decide what we need. Personally, I prefer an hour or 90 min session so I can enjoy my passion (see handle). But the truth is, like most providers, I'm self employed and have to work around fluctuating income. Life is just too fucking short; I would rather have a short session, than no session. And I have the utmost respect and admiration for the ladies I see that make even those sessions so memorable. All I can say is, If you don't want to do hhr's, don't, but don't belittle those of us that occasionally rely on them.
addict's Avatar
It is rude and tacky to ask for a 1/2hour if she does not list a 1/2 hour show on her advertisement. Apparently the 1/2 hr ladies are not cutting it for you so you want to cheapen the more expensive ladies. Yes you are being cheap for asking. It is very obvious. If you are not then just get the hour and chit chat if you can't get a second bell. Most ladies don't have a problem with a guy cumming more than once.

Sad how you come to a forum full of men who have no respect for women so you can justify yourself.

Women who offer 1 hour shows are not scammers. Some guys will say anything to bring this business into the gutter. Originally Posted by Goddess Emma Love
Pump the brakes, sweetheart. It was a legitimate question asked respectfully. What more do you want?
Guest031114's Avatar
I have asked for this before and I apologize to anyone that thought I was rude, certainly was not my intentions. For me it's time constraints. I hope the provider takes it as a compliment especially if she is traveling.

I explain it that I would love to see you but I only have 30 minutes of time - does that work for you? I hope she sees it as I intended. "You are hot as Hell, I am in your area and would rather spend 30 minutes with you than miss out on you all together."
Laura Lynn's Avatar
I would start by saying that for a first visit, an hour is preferred. I like to get to know you, help you relax some. I love lots of foreplay and kissing and it helps me to learn the things you like.

I offer hhr visits. Just seems those are better experiences with friends I already know.
It wouldn't offend me if you don't stay the full hour and you want to leave early. Thank you for not being a cheapskate.
SweetCougar's Avatar
For the ladies who don't offer hh sessions, this is the deduction that I came to early on when I began to do this.
Say I book only hours, and guys call who won't schedule for that so move to someone to do hh times.
Here is the logic that I finally came to.......EXAMPLE numbers only ....

I book 5 half hour sessions during the day, at $100 for hh, so I am actually only working 2.5 hours that day, making $500.00.
I book only hour sessions at 140.00, so i just book 3 one hour sessions during that day...,.I make $420.00 and worked half hour more....
It is more profit for the half hour in my view. Especially for the new client that you are not sure of the chemistry.
First: find a provider that you like and have a good rapport with.
Second: then talk to her about doing half hour appts.

I see two providers exclusively once or twice a month and having conversations about this very thing and they are fine with HH with me since we spoke about it ahead of time and I see them regularly. And usually they will just take a shower before I arrive as I don't need them to be dolled up.
First: find a provider that you like and have a good rapport with.
Second: then talk to her about doing half hour appts.

I see two providers exclusively once or twice a month and having conversations about this very thing and they are fine with HH with me since we spoke about it ahead of time and I see them regularly. And usually they will just take a shower before I arrive as I don't need them to be dolled up. Originally Posted by tatman49
That's a good way to do it, tatman!