Please provide some prospective

I will humbly admit pleasant surprise is right in almost everything she said

I will humbly admit pleasant surprise is right in almost everything she said Originally Posted by b@ileythepistol

agreed.

Mmmmm. You got the blue nail polish pic back up... not that your eyes don't look fantastic...

agreed. Originally Posted by DestinyInKC

... I think for me the biggest turn on is the absence of not seeing or hearing from a person, and then having this secret time together, and then going separate ways again. For me, that's a turn on. Anything other than that seems too personal, and takes away from the fantasy aspect. Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

BINGO. Describes every successful hobby "relationship" I've ever had.

I'll add that ignoring a client may be an act of kindness. If a client is clingy, needy, tries too hard to "please' the provider, clearly looking for a girlfriend, she may cut it off before any drama ensues. Consider yourself lucky that you did not run into the other extreme; the con-artist that is looking for a guy to use, taking everything he's got and leave him with heartache as a bonus.

These are extremes though. A professional provider knows how to manage client expectations.

What do you do if you have seen a super premium provider for the first time and had an unbelievable experience but she does not return calls or texts for over a week?

If you have the patience to wait, wait. Otherwise invest in someone who will provide what you need. Some girls cannot comprehend that you enjoy their company enough to visit with them time & time again and are weirded out. THERE IS ALWAYS THE POSSIBILITY THAT SHE'S JUST BUSY. When I'm not working, my business phone is off & I'm sure to note that in any open advertisements.


If the hobbiest does not perform well, would you not see him again?
How would you telling him?
The next time you see him would you work with his skills so he gets better? Or ask questions to find out what he is interested in?

As a man, you have off days. It sucks that being nervous can mess with your ability to perform as well, so not providing porno grade A performance isn't always a downfall. Plus that's where I come in! Lol. I would definitely see a man who just wasn't ale to give his best. Through conversation and experimenting there's a large possibility of finding something that give your client great pleasure, even if its just you leaning back and watching me "entertain you"


I also think that the majority of you reading this are not being providers primarily for the money, I honestly know you are doing it because you "love" doing it which puts you at the top.
Thanks.

PRECISELY! I enjoy my job. This is MY BUSINESS, & i run it accordingly. Do I enjoy my earnings? I'd be lying of I said I didn't. I ALSO enjoy pleasing & entertaining men. For some females this is a great fit for their personality. I love teasing men. I love wearing low cut tops and watching men try there darnedest NOT to check me out, many times in front of their SO LOL. Being able to bring a man the ultimate pleasure is my ultimate pleasure. Watching a man stumble over words just to introduce himself is sexy, I love it. I love being in control of my life & my sexuality. I guess that's why they say the best things grow in CA

I will humbly admit pleasant surprise is right in almost everything she said Originally Posted by b@ileythepistol

+1

What do you do if you have seen a super premium provider for the first time and had an unbelievable experience but she does not return calls or texts for over a week?

If you have the patience to wait, wait. Otherwise invest in someone who will provide what you need. Some girls cannot comprehend that you enjoy their company enough to visit with them time & time again and are weirded out. THERE IS ALWAYS THE POSSIBILITY THAT SHE'S JUST BUSY. When I'm not working, my business phone is off & I'm sure to note that in any open advertisements.


If the hobbiest does not perform well, would you not see him again?
How would you telling him?
The next time you see him would you work with his skills so he gets better? Or ask questions to find out what he is interested in?

As a man, you have off days. It sucks that being nervous can mess with your ability to perform as well, so not providing porno grade A performance isn't always a downfall. Plus that's where I come in! Lol. I would definitely see a man who just wasn't ale to give his best. Through conversation and experimenting there's a large possibility of finding something that give your client great pleasure, even if its just you leaning back and watching me "entertain you"


I also think that the majority of you reading this are not being providers primarily for the money, I honestly know you are doing it because you "love" doing it which puts you at the top.
Thanks.

PRECISELY! I enjoy my job. This is MY BUSINESS, & i run it accordingly. Do I enjoy my earnings? I'd be lying of I said I didn't. I ALSO enjoy pleasing & entertaining men. For some females this is a great fit for their personality. I love teasing men. I love wearing low cut tops and watching men try there darnedest NOT to check me out, many times in front of their SO LOL. Being able to bring a man the ultimate pleasure is my ultimate pleasure. Watching a man stumble over words just to introduce himself is sexy, I love it. I love being in control of my life & my sexuality. I guess that's why they say the best things grow in CA Originally Posted by Lovelyallison

Great advice, thanks

Maybe you should check her profile and see if her email or phone number has changed. I have a new number and I can't reach my regulars, so maybe this same situation is going on with her too.

...I would definitely see a man who just wasn't ale to give his best. Through conversation and experimenting there's a large possibility of finding something that give your client great pleasure, even if its just you leaning back and watching me "entertain you" Originally Posted by Lovelyallison

Well said, Allison! I'm hardly ever at my 100% best, but I give the best damn 69% around....

I agree

@Topgun, just to make light of the thread... Did you mean perspective or prospective? Lol! I'm just asking to be a smart ass.

Maybe she's just not that into you... or your hard earned money. I mean if this was a girl you went on a date with in real life instead of this lifestyle, you would have to consider things a little differently than you are now.

1) Stop acting like a bitch... no, I'm not trying to insult you I'm just saying that blowing up a woman's phone is the fastest way to turn her off. Weird I know... most of the time women are attention whores and love to get as much as they can. However, I've learned that backing off and waiting is a great idea.

2) Perhaps your relationship goals are incompatible... You sound to me like you want a regular girl you can spoil with your time and your money and have fun with her. Sounds to me like she might not be interested in that arrangement. I say, scale that back as well and see how things go.

3) She might have shit to do. I know, it is a funny turn-about isn't it? When they need you, you're expected to answer ASAP no matter what you're doing. But, when you need them, they're like dust in the wind... here and then gone. She might be busy... she might have family stuff going on (school did just start for some people). Whatever it is... see #1.

Excellent advice all around. It is a learning curve. Waiting longer does make it better and I am doing just that slowing things way down.
Who know it might smoother her. I know now and respect her space and time.
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LOL! You are killing me. PERSPECTIVE. I am not afraid to admit my own mistakes and surely am not above laughing at them.
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Lol! I had to google it so I was laughing at myself too!