How long do you wait on p411 appointments?

Did you try contacting her again? Sometimes, with me, its an honest mistake to miss the email or keep track of who I've replied to. I often find myself reading the message, then checking out who he's seen and when, then reading his profile, then contacting 1 or 2 ladies to screen him and then waiting on them ladies to get back to me, and by that time I have to go back through my messages and reply to the gentleman. And sometimes I forget if I replied or not depending on what all I did that day. Lol! So it could very easily be an honest mistake. Try one more time and if still no reply then contact Gina. Hope this helps. Originally Posted by Gemma34

Speaking of which. I sent you a message earlier this week and no response, lol. I never want to be the one to bug a provider. I've been having shit luck on P411 lately. I don't hobby often because I am picky but I have 4 okays over the last year and a half, however the most recent was April so I'm having a hard time setting up appts.

Just how it goes I guess. I understand why providers have their rules so I'm not upset.

It is only natural that when a man is eager to see a particular lady, that he can be somewhat impatient with the natural flow and ritual ladies tend to abound in when deciding if they'd like to see a potential client.

Typically with P411, there is an email sent to their registered email account, unless they have somehow disabled this feature of the system, when they get email to their P411 or an appointment request.

Just because a lady has your P411 info or has read your email does not mean that she is willing to see you for an appointment. And, some ladies can be quite timid when it comes to giving an official "no" vote to a new client. However, all that aside, screening on P411 is usually pretty simple. They can view your OK's and check with ladies if need be (typically not necessary unless there is something out of the ordinary such as old OKs) and then notify you if your appointment fits in their schedule.

Having said that, after an email has been read, I typically wait 15 -30 minutes before moving on to someone else. I don't like to have my time wasted any more than it needs to be, so I always have a plan B or C in mind.

Speaking of which. I sent you a message earlier this week and no response, lol. I never want to be the one to bug a provider. I've been having shit luck on P411 lately. I don't hobby often because I am picky but I have 4 okays over the last year and a half, however the most recent was April so I'm having a hard time setting up appts.

Just how it goes I guess. I understand why providers have their rules so I'm not upset. Originally Posted by CunninLynguist

Well, I suck.... I apologize. I am not advertised to be visiting KC. Sometimes I forget to go back and respond to messages inquiring if im going to be visiting an area. As I said, we all get busy at times. If I was in KC I would definitely see you!

It's all good. I figured that was the case.

If the provider has posted new pics on her account, and looks a year older you have waited too long. Move on.

How long do you wait for a provider to respond to an appt request before contacting the site per their protocol? There's a few ladies who seem to be dragging their asses lately on responding back, even if the answer was that they were busy. I've always resisted contacting the site, but it's not like I can't see that the ladies have logged in multiple times over multiple days without a response. Originally Posted by super_delfin00

according to p411 request form page...

"Pre-Screening Request
A Pre-Screening Request allows you to send the Provider your Client Id, the type of appointment you are looking for (Incall or Outcall) and a personal message. The Provider will be able to verify your Preferred411 account but no formal request for an appointment is initiated.

P411 Appointment Request
With you an Appointment Request, you send all the information listed above but also specify a date and time to book an appointment with the Provider.

Once an Appointment Request has been sent you are expected to confirm or cancel with the responding Provider. If you do not hear back from the Provider after sending an appointment request please notify support."

chatted w/ Michelle at p411 and the reply was [possibly boilerplate response].

"Please wait up to 48 hours after after sending the first request, then send a follow up PM or phone call if you do not hear back within 48 hours of second request please contact us."

and here's what p411 does if one contacts p411 after a provider's no response...

"we let them know that it is polite to respond to all requests, a very generic basic email that says that."

most women i've ever contacted via eccie or p411 or email have responded back within 1-2 days.
if i dont hear back from them, i might resend my note. if i dont hear back from them, i move on. now i know i can contact p411 if i'm communicating w/ the woman via p411.


like HeavenlyEden wrote, if i request on the weekend, i'll wait til late monday.

like several guys have written, i start the scheduling process 1-2 weeks out [esp. since i'm from dallas]. that gives me and the women plenty of time to do the email/pvtMsg tango.

when scheduling in dallas, i start the process about 1 week out.

bottom line, give yourself plenty of time to accomplish the scheduling.
and just know that until you leave her place or she leaves yours, there's no guarantee that it's 100% sure gonna happen [it aint over until the fat lady sings].

How long do you wait for a provider to respond to an appt request before contacting the site per their protocol? There's a few ladies who seem to be dragging their asses lately on responding back, even if the answer was that they were busy. I've always resisted contacting the site, but it's not like I can't see that the ladies have logged in multiple times over multiple days without a response. Originally Posted by super_delfin00

If you don't hear from her within 48hrs send it again. However I highly recommend gentlemen always cover their bases (IN THE FIRST PLACE) as in PM here or w/e site you're aware she is on (P411, ECCIE, TER etc) and also email her and if she's text friendly send on one or 2 (nor more than 2 or it looks creepy). After another day or 2 and still nothing then move on.