Guys do you have any idea how hard it is to find a nice bra in a 32 A? You really can't. There are so many things I buy that still don't fit the way I want them to because I have small breast. Almost all of the sexy bra and pantie sets start at a 32 B. Like I said I don't want them big. I just want to be able to shop and look sexy in my outfits like normal women. I want to be able to fill them out in the boobs too not just the ass. I only want a small B. I think a C may be to much for my frame. But like a 34 or 36 B would be nice on my body. Originally Posted by Trinity KaneOk TK,,,, But if you do this,,,, promise me that you'll let me take you shopping for new bras,,, This time the shopping trip will be on me,,, wink
Ok TK,,,, But if you do this,,,, promise me that you'll let me take you shopping for new bras,,, This time the shopping trip will be on me,,, winkDATY you can definitely take me shopping after the fact. Hell you can help buy my boobs if you want. lol (kidding)
And we can also shop for more Pop Rocks,,, LOL Originally Posted by datylikes
Hello TK,Ok Screw Normal. I want to be able to shop for bra's that fit and are sexy. I wanna be able to do that in any freaking store there is. I hate finding something I fall in love with and it only comes in a freaking B cup. Or finding a dress that doesn't fit right cause my boobs are to small. I'm gonna go for it guys. I know I will be happier with myself if I do. Time to start saving and doctor shopping.
I think a reflection of your own words might be useful here. You say "I just want to be able to shop and look sexy in my outfits like normal women." Without lecturing- "normal women" have breasts in all sized and shapes. The media, and perhaps the central focus of our community skews "normal" a bit as well. If you would be happier with proportions that let you shop and dress to your taste, that is an indication of your best direction. But I would be cautious about trying to purchase "normalcy".
In my opinion, the female form is one of the great miracles in all of creation. I have my preferences for the kinds of women whose form attracts me- but even an old, fat, tired woman is one of natures masterworks- and as normal as any other part of the world.
My one caution from experience of friends who went forward with breast augmentation. Do not skimp. If you are going to have someone sculpt your body, not only should you continue to be thoughtful about the outcome you want- but get the best help there is. And not just the technical work of the surgery- an artists eye in the design is critical so that you will be happy with it in 5-10 and 15 years as well. Originally Posted by Mzungu
DATY you can definitely take me shopping after the fact. Hell you can help buy my boobs if you want. lol (kidding)
But I am accepting Donations. WILL WORK FOR BOOBS!! ha ha ha
Ok Screw Normal. I want to be able to shop for bra's that fit and are sexy. I wanna be able to do that in any freaking store there is. I hate finding something I fall in love with and it only comes in a freaking B cup. Or finding a dress that doesn't fit right cause my boobs are to small. I'm gonna go for it guys. I know I will be happier with myself if I do. Time to start saving and doctor shopping.
Thanks for all your input guys. But I gotta do this for me. You really know how to make a girl feel good though. Originally Posted by Trinity Kane
LOL,,, talk about presumptuous,,,,You can give an opinion from a place of empathy, was my point. If she will feel better and more confident and enjoy shopping more for things she can't wear now, go for it.
"She asked" "for our" opinions,
which we freely gave. I think she is genuinely wanting honest input
I do however agree that whatever makes her feel good about herself will be the best thing for her to do.
But TK,,,,, You are SMOKIN HOT just the way you are Originally Posted by datylikes
TK, you might be asking for men opinions which will either be two things:I just want mine to look like they did before I had my girls. I had perky, pretty, full breast. They don't sit up the way they used to and even got smaller after having my youngest. They don't lay as flat as they could I suppose. Probably since mine are small anyway. I have my reasons and I'm gonna go for it. I'm doing this for me. I can't see any other reason to do it besides making me happy.
A. NO NEVER CHANGE A THING, YOU'RE 100% A+ GIRLFRIEND! ME LOVE YOU
or
B. If you're gonna get big, go DD
Me personally, I want mine fixed. The sag when I bend over, lay flat against my chest when I take my bra off, and hide under my arm pits when I lay on my back. I've had grown men tell me "WTF is wrong with you chest? I thought you said you were 24? You look 50 by your boobs!"
I'm a C (maybe) right now according to my bra size. I want to be either a full perky C or D. DDs might work if done properly.
I'm doing this for me...once I find someone willing to fork over $8000 or actually tip me so I can save up by my birthday in May. I will make ME happier.
If you want to do this, do it for you. Guys will either love it or hate it. Same goes with everything us girls do. Originally Posted by MaryBeth