A lull in business is potentially deadly to civilian men!

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I was actually going to bring up this same topic 'cept I was gonna ask if anyone finds themselves feeling like a sexual predator cause when there are long stretches of time without play I start getting antsy and horny and actually consider sleeping with someone my own age which would mean I' have to go hangout with...ugg college guys....I've been spoiled by the hobby as I don't like to hangout with people my own age...for shame...

but there is this one civie guy I have totally been lusting after....I'm so sexually frustrated when It comes to him. I just wanna fucking pounce and have my way with him. but alas I can't seem to peek his interest. I keep asking myself what does a girl have to do to get a guy to sleep with her??? I just wanna be like please? I wanna sleep with you.

the other day the tech guy who came to my house to fix my internet was...Yummy tall, 22, Hispanic, with gorgeous eyes, I SWEAR the universe was just fucking with me...sadly he has a girlfriend (I asked cause I'm blunt like that) I mean come on I'm single was alone at the house and tall, dark, and gorgeous just walks up into my house! Fate is a cruel mistress...truly

I think I got off track what was I talking about? clearly I need a New guy to be fwb with help satiate my lust. maybe I should prowl around UT...
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I am a rare bird, indeed. You might be suprised to know that most of my friends are not just in it to be "serviced". That is not the mentality they seem to have and I appreciate that. Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi
Of course we know they pay for sex and companionship by the hour with the expectation of something deep and meaningful. Really?

"lowered expectations" I respectfully beg to differ, Sir. lol!! Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi
Now that's PR. Unless you are a young attractive 30 something who actually gets turned on by sleeping with old often overweight unhappily married men then yes lowered expectations would apply. If these are the same men you would choose to sleep with free of charge as civies then I see your point.
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I was actually going to bring up this same topic 'cept I was gonna ask if anyone finds themselves feeling like a sexual predator cause when there are long stretches of time without play I start getting antsy and horny and actually consider sleeping with someone my own age which would mean I' have to go hangout with...ugg college guys....I've been spoiled by the hobby as I don't like to hangout with people my own age...for shame...

but there is this one civie guy I have totally been lusting after....I'm so sexually frustrated when It comes to him. I just wanna fucking pounce and have my way with him. but alas I can't seem to peek his interest. I keep asking myself what does a girl have to do to get a guy to sleep with her??? I just wanna be like please? I wanna sleep with you.

the other day the tech guy who came to my house to fix my internet was...Yummy tall, 22, Hispanic, with gorgeous eyes, I SWEAR the universe was just fucking with me...sadly he has a girlfriend (I asked cause I'm blunt like that) I mean come on I'm single was alone at the house and tall, dark, and gorgeous just walks up into my house! Fate is a cruel mistress...truly

I think I got off track what was I talking about? clearly I need a New guy to be fwb with help satiate my lust. maybe I should prowl around UT...
Originally Posted by Secret_Amore

just ask the guy you are interested in out!!! We(men) are idiots for the most part.. We are not good at picking up on women's signals. You have to tell us you are interested!! We are so used to being the Predator and not the Prey.. we are the ones chasing not being chased

Trust me if you ask him out chances are good he will say YES!! but do not act pathetic or needy that is a turn off just like it is for Women.. no one wants a dud or kiss ass...
I was actually going to bring up this same topic 'cept I was gonna ask if anyone finds themselves feeling like a sexual predator cause when there are long stretches of time without play I start getting antsy and horny and actually consider sleeping with someone my own age which would mean I' have to go hangout with...ugg college guys....I've been spoiled by the hobby as I don't like to hangout with people my own age...for shame...

but there is this one civie guy I have totally been lusting after....I'm so sexually frustrated when It comes to him. I just wanna fucking pounce and have my way with him. but alas I can't seem to peek his interest. I keep asking myself what does a girl have to do to get a guy to sleep with her??? I just wanna be like please? I wanna sleep with you.

the other day the tech guy who came to my house to fix my internet was...Yummy tall, 22, Hispanic, with gorgeous eyes, I SWEAR the universe was just fucking with me...sadly he has a girlfriend (I asked cause I'm blunt like that) I mean come on I'm single was alone at the house and tall, dark, and gorgeous just walks up into my house! Fate is a cruel mistress...truly

I think I got off track what was I talking about? clearly I need a New guy to be fwb with help satiate my lust. maybe I should prowl around UT...
Originally Posted by Secret_Amore
a) If you really prefer sleeping with older men then there is no shortage of places such as Cool River, The Driskall Bar etc.. where you can pick one up for easy free sex as a civie. You don't have to resort to college guys as you put it.
b) If a young horny guy's response to "Do you have a GF" in the situation you described is "Yes I do" then that is a sign of disinterest rather than being clueless. Being any more direct won't make a difference.
just ask the guy you are interested in out!!! We(men) are idiots for the most part.. We are not good at picking up on women's signals. You have to tell us you are interested!! We are so used to being the Predator and not the Prey.. we are the ones chasing not being chased

Trust me if you ask him out chances are good he will say YES!! but do not act pathetic or needy that is a turn off just like it is for Women.. no one wants a dud or kiss ass... Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY
Good to know!
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  • 01-26-2014, 10:58 AM
RB - "We are so used to being the Predator and not the Prey.. we are the ones chasing not being chased
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As my old Buddy George Bickerson once said,"A mouse trap doesn't run after a mouse, but it catches it just tjhe same."

Now SA is in on the hunt? J/K Sweets
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just ask the guy you are interested in out!!! We(men) are idiots for the most part.. We are not good at picking up on women's signals. You have to tell us you are interested!! We are so used to being the Predator and not the Prey.. we are the ones chasing not being chased

Trust me if you ask him out chances are good he will say YES!! but do not act pathetic or needy that is a turn off just like it is for Women.. no one wants a dud or kiss ass... Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY
I've never been the type to give subtle hints and such utter nonsense. I've grown up around guys, I realize how dense men can be....

I've already made my desires known. I asked him right out if he'd like to be fwb. I got some mumblings about how that doesn't really workout for him and maybe in a year when he's more mature. i dunno hungover/drunk college guys don't really make much sense after partying all night


a) If you really prefer sleeping with older men then there is no shortage of places such as Cool River, The Driskall Bar etc.. where you can pick one up for easy free sex as a civie. You don't have to resort to college guys as you put it.
b) If a young horny guy's response to "Do you have a GF" in the situation you described is "Yes I do" then that is a sign of disinterest rather than being clueless. Being any more direct won't make a difference. Originally Posted by Codybeast

eh I just find it easier...more a lack of teen angst. I dunno young people are so fucking weird. at college age they're like Yay I'm grown no more HS BS but then they still act like they're in high school..and still plagued with teen angst still gossip like school girls and I'm talking about the guys I'm not even talking about the women

he told me he doesn't have a girlfriend

guys think they like the idea of being pursued but in reality in my experience they find it very off putting
I definitely keep a fuck buddy on the side... It's just different. But it's hard to actually date. I'm still trying to figure that one out. "What do you do," "Blatant lie" "oh okay... where's that at" (fml..... )...
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yep, deny, deny, deny.. if I ever decide to date again, and she asks how many women I have been with, I am not answering that with the truth!!
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I definitely keep a fuck buddy on the side... It's just different. But it's hard to actually date. I'm still trying to figure that one out. "What do you do," "Blatant lie" "oh okay... where's that at" (fml..... )... Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn
just say you work for the state
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Yeah, us state workers, we're real good at fuckin' e'eryone outta thar moeneys.
Have I told you lately, I heart you, Sancho?!
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