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miztig69, good that you are planning for your encounter.
i second what a few have said - communicate w/ the woman. if she knows what she's doing, she'll have plenty of advice and reassurance.
good luck!!!


a few nights ago, a woman used a lipstick diameter sized vibe on me while working over lil delites.

when it was first going in, it felt great. i could feel the vibe itself and the vibrations.
but after an inch or two in, i could barely feel the vibe and almost all the sensations were way muted.
she pulled it back to just be inside and it felt much better, dare i say deliteful ?

so, i second what zoey wrote - if my anus had been "numbed" or anesthesized, i prolly wouldnt have been able to feel a thing. and not been able to tell if it felt deliteful or not. kind of defeats the purpose.

the few times that a woman has used a dildo on me, we made sure that it and my anus were liberally lubed. unfortunately, for the next two days, my colon and anus didnt at all like the effects of the pre-session enema and all that action.

better to know than to jump straight in blindly.
to each their own.

I absolutely love strap on play. I have a 7 inches and a 8 inches you should let me try them on you

From what I've read anecdotally, approx 60% of the body's nerve endings below the waist are located around the anus. Not necessarily inside the anus. That's why surface play feels so great, but you may not feel the same sorts of sensations when inserted more than a couple of inches.

Which is why rimming feels so great!