Didn't know that at all. But maybe that particular provider is the one that does exactly what they want. Maybe they feel or felt secure with that one person ijs. How is a hobbyist to know a certain provider will get them blacklisted in the future? Originally Posted by Austins1hobbyyou won't know if a girl wil blacklisted you in the future unless you've done something you know is wrong then you should just assume you got on the blacklist.
All the providers are speaking of screening, so my next question would be if the hobbyist is already known and reviews and post on a regular would that count for your screening process? Ex. I have 22 reviews and do not post a review about every lady I see some I forget some I want to forget it ever happen and some are at the providers request but regardless does that come into play or apart of your screening process? Originally Posted by Austins1hobbyThis is a great question that I've been asked many times... if you have CURRENT reviews (within last three months) of gals who I consider reputable.. meaning I know them or I feel like they wouldn't lie about any reviews they get, then I may take that into consideration. But for the most part (99%) I contact the ladies and ask them questions about the gent. Because in my mind, it honestly doesn't matter that you gave the girl a review. That doesn't mean that she enjoyed your company or that you were a good client. All that means is that you saw the girl. Also, anything can change in this hobby. What if you were cool a few months ago, but some major drastic event in your life flipped a switch in you and now you're a different person mentally? Or maybe a girl you saw last week saw something on your penis and is giving us a heads up. This is why and how I screen.
I agree with this too.. That's why I have my hours on my signature.. I keep my computer on all day, so if I leave my house, I'm most likely still logged into ECCIE. If I'm screwing around on here during my posted hours, I'm free.. if it's getting to be closer to 8 pm and I'm screwing around, I may not be available... But it doesn't hurt to ask!
I am kind of the opposite too. If I am screwing around on the board it usually means I am not free! Like right now.![]()
I don't understand when some guys get upset, because you are logged on to the board, but not available right away!! I know my devices keep me logged in when I think I have exited out and whatnot. Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi
In an ideal world, I would be scheduling weeks ahead, particularly to see touring ladies. I think I miss a few great experiences by not doing that. But, I just can’t plan my schedule too many days in advance. What it usually ends up being is tentatively scheduled in my mind and then contacting the lady the day before or two days before, which is then hit and miss. In the end, however, I would say about half of the great experiences are set day of or the evening before. Originally Posted by memdal+1
How long screening takes depends on the lady. How much information does she need to feel comfortable. You need to understand that the ladies that you give as references may or may not respond in a timely manner. Heck, they may not even respond at all for a variety of reasons none of which have anything to do with you.
So, in my experience screening could take an hour to as long as several days. That is why it is best to be prescreened or use P411. Originally Posted by JJones
That first quote pretty much sums up my motivation for wanting same day appointments. If I have to schedule 2 or 3 days out then forget it. My SO or myself will take care of the "urge" and money stays in my pocket so I'm not that ambitious about setting up appointments.
Lets be honest also ladies and gentlemen men are all about instant gratification we want that instant explosion and if we have to sit and think about things we normally talk ourselves out of it,
I now understand screening has to be done on someone you have not seen but can anyone tell me how long the average screening takes. Also does all the ladies reply back quickly like you would to a screening request? Originally Posted by Austins1hobby