You're not a BBW...you're just obese...

That is actually a perfect example of what I am talking about..... And by NO MEANS does that make you a sucker, because it is sometimes difficult how one possibly crosses the line and one doesn't.

First off, the difference from Calling someone fat & Ugly, and calling someone a Fuckface in the context of each post is something to be noted.

Wakeups Post was in direct response to your post you noted above. So in HIS OPINION you are "fat and ugly". Crass perhaps, and if he would have said "I find Overweight women unattractive" it would not have been a blip. But because he used different adjectives it seems worse...... So stating an opinion (especially in a direct response questioned in a previous post) is one key difference.

"Wakeup, I think you're an asshole." Is an accepted comment to make and in fact has been stated by many (myself included) often. But saying "Hey you fucking Asshole!" Is not. Subtle difference, but a difference nontheless....

There are other ways to get around namecalling that I won't get into now as to not further hijack the thread..... But hope the above helps shed some light on how some of these rules work..... Some people are better at playing "the game" to avoid infractions while still acting out, and are very well versed at doing just that.

JaD Originally Posted by Jusanotherdude

I don't really see how refering to someone on here as "fat and ugly" wouldn't be a violation of

#3 - Disrespect to others, IN GENERAL, will be considered an item of low tolerance, especially when posting in our coed forums. Follow the Golden Rule and treat others as you wish to be treated yourself.

or maybe even

#4 - Blatant insults or hostility toward another member will be met with staff intervention.

Of course it's a mods or admins call.

Wakeup likes to start these controversial threads. What's his reasoning? Trying to get others upset, pointed, or even banned? Running off some providers or other members? Or is it simply a look at me...how many views my thread gets thing? Only he and his circle of friends knows.

The difference is whether the door is opened for that response. When an "opinion" is sought, you don't get to scream foul when you don't like the opinion given.

The greatest tool in a back and forth thread is a persons own ill thought comments.....ijs.

You all keep feeding your own pain. And I'm not talking about food. If you stop posting the thread can die but noooooo let's see what he's gonna say next. Originally Posted by trey

And again I'm with you babe Stop giving this thread power. We are hookers, lets talk about something else

The difference is whether the door is opened for that response. When an "opinion" is sought, you don't get to scream foul when you don't like the opinion given. Originally Posted by dearhunter

OFS..... This should help clarify...... And again, YES the point, and original thought of the thread was about obesity...... Fat is about as offensive as being called skinny to others.... Inherently "fat" is not a derogitory statement in that regards..... "Ugly" is a direct response to her comment and his saying that he thinks fat=ugly in his opinion on the matter is also well within his bounds and rights as a poster.

JaD

And again I'm with you babe Stop giving this thread power. We are hookers, lets talk about something else Originally Posted by bustyamy

I am sorry, I know bustamy was talking, but kept staring at her avatar.

OFS..... This should help clarify...... And again, YES the point, and original thought of the thread was about obesity...... Fat is about as offensive as being called skinny to others.... Inherently "fat" is not a derogitory statement in that regards..... "Ugly" is a direct response to her comment and his saying that he thinks fat=ugly in his opinion on the matter is also well within his bounds and rights as a poster.

JaD Originally Posted by Jusanotherdude

I will agree that the original post of this thread is about obesity and thus defines this thread as being about obesity. I am not too sure about the original thought of this thread....or maybe I am.

It is what it is and I am almost certain there will be another let's say "entertaining thread" in the near future that will get some board members blood pressure in the red zone once again.

Yep

Y'all are acting like this one is over or something...

I will agree that the original post of this thread is about obesity and thus defines this thread as being about obesity. I am not too sure about the original thought of this thread....or maybe I am.
Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

I'm pretty sure you are, OFS.

Why on Earth would I care if providers...who I find to be large and therefore unattractive....post their ads? So I guess my answer is "indifferent"....... I don't like Fiat's.... but I don't get upset when I see an ad for them on TV......
JaD Originally Posted by Jusanotherdude

Fixed that for you...to be consistent with my question.

So, does this mean that you have never ridiculed a provider....who you found to be large and therefore unattractive....for being so....in a forum on ECCIE?

Once again, I apologize if this question may be too personal....if so, please ignore.

Y'all are acting like this one is over or something... Originally Posted by Wakeuр

It ain't.

Fixed that for you...to be consistent with my question.

So, does this mean that you have never ridiculed a provider....who you found to be large and therefore unattractive....for being so....in a forum on ECCIE?

Once again, I apologize if this question may be too personal....if so, please ignore. Originally Posted by Sarunga

First off..... That is no fix, and in fact makes a open and honest post seem snide & mean in nature. Not sure I appreciate being labeled in such a manner to be honest with you. But i will reitterate that my personal preferences in women has absolutely no bering on my unbiased approach to moderating these forums. The women we have here are what drives this board and for many this is their primary source of income, and I could not have more respect for that fact. My job here is to aid people when needed, facilitate the flow of information while keeping it within the guidelines set down by the owners. You mistake my own personal preferences in a woman with a dislike for those women which is simply not true. One of my favorite posters has been prominant in this very thread in Fancy in Heels.... I have enjoyed her post since I joined ASPD..... She is smart, witty and has a great sense of humor who has a wonderful ability to make light of nearly any subject. She is not my type as a partner, but I would not hesitate to grab a drink with her. You are distorting my comments, and making unjust declarations. Just because I am not attracted to a certain type of women does not mean that I think they are unattractive per say..... You're confusing my sexual attraction to my appreciation of beauty. It is not as black and white as you would have it painted.

I see the road that you are trying to guide me down and it is very much not appreciated. But no. I do not make it a point to ridicule anyone on the public forums here on eccie. Even before I was a mod this was my feeling, as it is just not my style, and since being appointed one it is even less becoming.

JaD

I do not make it a point to ridicule anyone on the public forums here on eccie. Even before I was a mod this was my feeling, as it is just not my style, and since being appointed one it is even less becoming.

JaD Originally Posted by Jusanotherdude

Watch it buddy boy I seem to remember a lot of ridicule coming my way from you JaD in the past . LOL

Y'all are acting like this one is over or something... Originally Posted by Wakeuр

It's not over but it's on the wane. It's time for you to cook up something else....another resturant review maybe.

Watch it buddy boy I seem to remember a lot of ridicule coming my way from you JaD in the past . LOL Originally Posted by carkido45

This is true...... But there is a big difference between good natured ribbing and banter and the ridicule he is referring to...... Now stay away from my Z!!

JaD

P.S. My favorite comeback of yours is still was the "Jusanotherdouche" drop...... Very nice! Lmao!