Consideration for the betrayed wife

Damnit, no one asked Foolish1 if she did BBCR. Originally Posted by pyramider

You're slipping, Three Sides.

Sex is a natural, normal, and biological urge..... Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Not the way I do it ...

Not the way I do it ... Originally Posted by pyramider

And this..........surprises none of us........

Wonder when she turns 18. Might make a good sugar baby.

You mentioned a 20year old daughter, which I do not have...I have a 17 year old daughter, and you WILL not mock my kids. I don't care if you ban me, hunt me down, cuss me, or kill me, but if you DARE to mention any of my kids again, you will regret it. Don't mess with pissed-off MAMA Bear who is already dealing with a cheating fool of a husband. You think you know everything, smart-ass, but if you keep messing with things about which you have no clue, it will end up biting you. Forget it, and keep your lame mouth shut about shit you have no clue about. You said you aren't married, and you're no provider, so what the hell do you know? PLEASE ban me...I SO long to report some of you to the police somewhere...since you have no hearts, you won't mind being locked away somewhere. Keep on being the way you are. I tried to warn you, to help you, but there is no help for you. Fight back with those wickedly intelligent and grammatically-correct tongues...your rapier wit does nothing but sharpen mine. However, you mention my child again, and I will find a way to bring the authorities down on all of you, including my cheating husband, because you have burned away what little heart I had left. Originally Posted by Foolish!

Too bad she left. We could've taught her how to suck dick so she could keep a man.

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And this..........surprises none of us........ Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Probably not since my 1.3" of dangling death is legendary.

Betrayed Wife/Foolish

These are my friends you are cussing up a storm with. Let me explain a bit of something to you... your husband having sex with another individual should not be enough to break up your marriage. If you think that is a great reason for you to leave him and allow yourself this pain.... well then, you are foolish.

The people on this board, they actually do have their eyes wide open. They understand exactly what is going on here and what they are doing. They are mocking you because you are trying to bring something to their attention that they have already known for some time. They don't understand why you are here and carrying on. That is why you are not taken seriously. If serious is what you want, you have come to the wrong board.

Everyone else

Get the hell off of your high horse. Why are you here wallowing in this?? Just let it be.

For the haters out there that doesn't understand why a husband cheats and lies about it, you sure have flung around a lot of assumptions and accusations when more then likely, you don't have any clue what the hell you are talking about.

A wife can actually provide everything to her husband, and leave him satisfied... and he can still want to cheat! Just because a married man is spending time with whores does not mean the wife has failed. Goodness, I thought y'all would be a bit smarter then that.

Again, my belief is that we are all animals, we all have our urges.... if we act like adults and act in a decent and safe manner, we should not be punished or judged by it. Unfortunately, society has taught us it is wrong to be physical with anyone other then who we are in a relationship with. I believe society is wrong. Until we can fix society, we will all have to continue with the lying and the cheating.

How can you convince your spouse they are taught wrong? Society got it wrong? More then likely, it is impossible to do... and denying yourself of your sexual freedom causes damage to yourself, and your relationships, so it is not healthy to deny yourself either... what else can you do?

My opinion, and as I read through this thread, I am thinking I'm probably one of the healthiest minds here...

Now if you don't mind, I have a topless ice bucket challenge I need to record, and post in the Oklahoma Sandbox. PEACE! Originally Posted by Mary Ann

great post!

Too bad she left. We could've taught her how to suck dick so she could keep a man. Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

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I am so glad you posted this. My husband is a sex addict in recovery. I've wondered the same thing myself. We had a wonderful relationship with a great sex life. He has sexual issues stemming from early childhood. Why can't women care and help other women?

Just wondered if any providers considered NOT having sex with married gentlemen? My best friend found out her hubby cheated with an escort, and it totally ruined her life. She is a beautiful, loving woman whose husband got addicted to porn and took it to the next level, and she doesn't deserve the pain and devastation this has brought on her and her children. It was totally wrong for said hubby to betray her this way, but I wondered if providers ever think about the damage they do to others with their sexual dalliances with married men. It is really sad that women care so little about the hearts of others as to help break them. Originally Posted by Loonygirl

I am so glad you posted this. My husband is a sex addict in recovery. I've wondered the same thing myself. We had a wonderful relationship with a great sex life. He has sexual issues stemming from early childhood. Why can't women care and help other women?

She's back. How nice.

My best friend found out her hubby cheated with an escort, and it totally ruined her life.

I wondered if providers ever think about the damage they do to others with their sexual dalliances with married men. Originally Posted by Loonygirl

The husband is the culprit here, not the provider. Don't you agree?

Depends on what ya consider legendary.

Probably not since my 1.3" of dangling death is legendary. Originally Posted by pyramider

I am so glad you posted this. My husband is a sex addict in recovery. I've wondered the same thing myself. We had a wonderful relationship with a great sex life. He has sexual issues stemming from early childhood. Why can't women care and help other women? Originally Posted by roundel2009

Honey, just start a new thread, it would make more sense because your issue is different with a confirmed addict.
Hey, since when do providers carry a psychotherapy/moral athourity badge to give a care about what a husband/single/ugly/busy/normal fucktard/ who the fuck ever it is does with there life.....? I see you've been around for a while, have you been reading anything helpful here or just checking out the sexy providers?