I think everyone needs to RELAX lol. We are all different, flawed, and not free from judging and being judged. At one point or another everyone here as said something that may have offended another....whether intentional or not, it's something you can't really control. You can't make another person take offense...they decide that for themselves by being overly sensitive or touchy. No one is free to sit on the soap box really.
Nina, I too have used the "quality over quanity" statement and I can admit in a way it suggests something. For me, it coincides with that fact that I am selective and not doing 4 guys a day, 5 days a week. I am lucky to even get 2 a week total in my region lol.
The bottom line is some men will NOT see a provider who is high volume, and when you are charging twice of what the market dictates in your area, they want to know what makes you so special. For most, this is why that is mentioned in the first place. Not being one who markets herself as the "Best bang for the Buck" is actually a good selling point lol.
Soooo if you're not the town Porn Star who can take 7 INCHES(ha ha) in every opening of your body, you have to highlight something else....such as being rather exclusive and not available to just anyone.
I am one who is educated but I would not say I am overly smart. I might be book smart meaning I can miss 3 weeks of school and still get Bs, but lack common sense at times. Educated is objective because all you need are degrees or years in school to prove it, whereas intelligence is subjective because it is measured differently by others.
I just think that we all tend to highlight the things about us that are positive rather than the negative...that's just common sense and proper marketing. I mean if you had a scar you were ashamed of, I doubt you would put a blown up photo of it on your homepage. You would likely focus on the parts of your body that you find appealing...some escort marketing is no different.
While some do in fact think they are all that and constantly tout about how great they look, how many men just love to lavish them with money, and that all the rest are beneath them, I don't get that attitude from most of the HDH crowd on Eccie. I still don't buy into the labels or what makes one better than another though. Why some people try so hard to feel appreciated by having a label, really boggles my mind.
I can think of many labels that actually have some admiration by others in the real world, and I choose to focus on those. My life as an escort is not permanent, but the real one is.