Is the local hobby scene as bad as this board makes it seem?

Dreamgurrl's Avatar
I am surprised that you are still here. Pretty hypocritical when just this morning you were quite pleased on Twitter that "ICKY is down"

For someone who refers to this site as "ICKY", you sure do post here a lot. Guess that phone really isn't ringing Originally Posted by berryberry
Aww thanks for following me on twitter Berry! Or are you just a stalker?? I’m here to answer Pms for business. Not sure why you are here all of the tine. You all keep bringing up my name, so again thank you. Why do I pay for premium on other sites when I can just come here and “interact” for free!
berryberry's Avatar
Aww thanks for following me on twitter Berry! Or are you just a stalker?? I’m here to answer Pms for business. Not sure why you are here all of the tine. You all keep bringing up my name, so again thank you. Why do I pay for premium on other sites when I can just come here and “interact” for free! Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl
Oh, trust me darling. I don't follow you nor have any intention in doing so. A fellow hobbyist told me about your post there so I thought it appropriate to ask since you disparage this site, why do you bother posting here so much.

Using your logic, you must be really desperate for business for you to stoop to seeing guys from ICKY
chizzy's Avatar
She forgets the main reason guys use providers is that they go away. A few Bennys is a small price to pay to not put up with all the potential bullshit involved in banging some bar fly. Originally Posted by Jacuzzme


there is a reason i call them providers, not whores not prostitutes

they provide a service, as a client, i want or need that service.... I pay,they provide. when done we go our separate ways, no different than using the electrician, plumber or roofer
same thing...... sometimes but rarely, you can make a friendship out of it, again no different than being friends with your local plumber etc etc.... but make no mistake, your friend the plumber will still require payment for services and so will the provider ( except in rare situations)

some guys guys cross the line and think the fanasty provided by these girls is reality, thats when problems arise usually.
my best advise to new guys is, whenever you walk out the door from an appt, remember no matter how nice she was to you, it is a business and she is now getting ready to be just as nice to the next guy.

every guy here has probably trashed or had a bad experience with a certain lady. but that same lady probably has alot of guys who adore her. same can be said for providers with clients

its part of the business

anyway, i feel like im writing a tolstoy novel

be safe
Dreamgurrl's Avatar
Oh, trust me darling. I don't follow you nor have any intention in doing so. A fellow hobbyist told me about your post there so I thought it appropriate to ask since you disparage this site, why do you bother posting here so much.

Using your logic, you must be really desperate for business for you to stoop to seeing guys from ICKY Originally Posted by berryberry
Of course! The classic, it wasn’t me someone told me. Very bambino bully intimidation of You.

In case I haven’t made it clear, I’m not intimidated by bullies. But you keep on trying sir. It’s cute

There is no stopping an amazing client with a full screen and deposit paid in advance! Like I’ve said many times now, this site is not entirely representative of the clients in this “scene.” Lots of great clients here that don’t participate in forums.
berryberry's Avatar
Of course! The classic, it wasn’t me someone told me. Very bambino bully intimidation of You.

In case I haven’t made it clear, I’m not intimidated by bullies. But you keep on trying sir. It’s cute Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl
Believe what you want darling. I am only interested in an honest exchange of information here. No intimidation. Just sharing your words. You know, like when you refer to ECCIE as a "slobby" board

I guess you are upset though your true feelings about this site were exposed so you have to deflect, deflect, deflect.
Dreamgurrl's Avatar
Believe what you want darling. I am only interested in an honest exchange of information here. No intimidation. Just sharing your words. You know, like when you refer to ECCIE as a "slobby" board

I guess you are upset though your true feelings about this site were exposed so you have to deflect, deflect, deflect. Originally Posted by berryberry
It is a slobby board. Why would that make me upset? I say what I mean.

And yes I as well as many others refer to it as Icky.
bkfantasy's Avatar
Of course! The classic, it wasn’t me someone told me. Very bambino bully intimidation of You.

In case I haven’t made it clear, I’m not intimidated by bullies. But you keep on trying sir. It’s cute

There is no stopping an amazing client with a full screen and deposit paid in advance! Like I’ve said many times now, this site is not entirely representative of the clients in this “scene.” Lots of great clients here that don’t participate in forums. Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl
90% of the time, if a guy participates in a full screen and pays in advance, they are gonna get fucked, but not in the way they expect.

Good for you if you can get those customers based on your reputation as a reliable provider.

Guys who have been around more than a short while know that even reputable girls can go bad. The more the industry gets pushed underground and the less information both men and women have, the more dangerous it is for everyone... and I mean that for both sides of the buyer/seller relationship. This is what the guys here have been complaining about with regard to the local hobby. I think good providers are being pushed utr which means the local scene sucks for those who aren't 100% living the lifestyle.
berryberry's Avatar
It is a slobby board. Why would that make me upset? I say what I mean.

And yes I as well as many others refer to it as Icky. Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl
Wonderful business model you have there darling. Use slang terms to deride any potential customers who post here and to disparage this site.

I guess you are still upset that ECCIE is still operating while you failed running Indys

Glad the truth is coming out
Dreamgurrl's Avatar
90% of the time, if a guy participates in a full screen and pays in advance, they are gonna get fucked, but not in the way they expect.

Good for you if you can get those customers based on your reputation as a reliable provider.

Guys who have been around more than a short while know that even reputable girls can go bad. The more the industry gets pushed underground and the less information both men and women have, the more dangerous it is for everyone... and I mean that for both sides of the buyer/seller relationship. This is what the guys here have been complaining about with regard to the local hobby. I think good providers are being pushed utr which means the local scene sucks for those who aren't 100% living the lifestyle. Originally Posted by bkfantasy
Great point!
Dreamgurrl's Avatar
Wonderful business model you have there darling. Use slang terms to deride any potential customers who post here and to disparage this site.

I guess you are still upset that ECCIE is still operating while you failed running Indys

Glad the truth is coming out Originally Posted by berryberry
Huh? What are you taking about??? lol
I’m gonna mind the business that pays me. If you can’t figure that one out then I’m not sure what to tell you
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Huh? What are you taking about??? lol
I’m gonna mind the business that pays me. If you can’t figure that one out then I’m not sure what to tell you Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl
What am I talking about. Come on darling, don't play coy. Everyone knows slobbyist is a vulgar slang term you use to deride hobbyists

It is a slobby board. Why would that make me upset? I say what I mean.

And yes I as well as many others refer to it as Icky. Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl
Pretty clear how you feel about this site and the guys who post here.
Dreamgurrl's Avatar
What am I talking about. Come on darling, don't play coy. Everyone knows slobbyist is a vulgar slang term you use to deride hobbyists



Pretty clear how you feel about this site and the guys who post here. Originally Posted by berryberry
Your point?

As I’ve stated many times. There are tons of clients who use this site but do not participate in the forums.
berryberry's Avatar
Your point? Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl
Just sharing the truth darling. That's the purpose of the board. Perhaps more should be shared
Dreamgurrl's Avatar
Just sharing the truth darling. That's the purpose of the board. Perhaps more should be shared Originally Posted by berryberry
Oh I concur! That’s why I’m here
berryberry's Avatar
Oh I concur! That’s why I’m here Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl
Cool - if true darling, you should just drop the act you use here and share the same feelings here about this site and the guys who post here that you share on Twitter.

Be true to yourself