It's ok, I once I started working in my warehouse I realize my hands are tied regardless, because there are places and things that I can't mention anyhow. Not to mention it would go unheeded and would not be as short a story as I thought. A complete waste of time. Thanks for the answer though.
Another tidbit for you who rail about the rules:
If you bring facets of your life up on this SHMB, you open the door and give permission for it to be discussed... forever. One of the rules pertains to medical info. You cannot say "John has herpes. I saw the bumps around his mouth." It gets stricken from the record and you will receive points. If John says, "Hey, I have bumps around my mouth, I think I may have herpes" then he has opened the door not only for conversation on the subject, but for others to post now and a year from now that "How's that herpes going for ya, John?" or "Did you go to the Doctor and get some medicine for your herps?" without any repercussion whatsoever.
#16 - Posting about/Speculating about another person's medical condition is strictly forbidden. If a member encounters a medical issue and would like to get feedback from others or share it with the community, this would be allowed, but under no circumstances is a member to discuss or state anything about another member in this regard, unless it is in response to a question posed by that member.
Just sprinkling lil tidbits here and there hoping that someone fucking gleans something that will help in the future. There's caveats to every rule, here and in life, that makes all the difference in the world.
CB, whoever the mod was that handled your name change did you a great disservice if you told them the same reason that you told us for you changing it. They should have known that a simple handle change would not be enough to shield you from not only a connection being made between the two, but for others to point it out publicly. Totally disabling this account and starting over with another is the only way to completely be free from whatever you were trying to escape.
I implore you: You would serve yourself well by abandoning whatever mission you think you're going to win here. Not only are you not blameless here (yes, you had a hand in your banning and this tag-along animosity from certain posters) but I see no way that you can win this, and I'm always looking for the trap door. It's just no gonna happen sweetie. I really really do feel for you, I cried when you told me what was happening to you; I know firsthand at least 4 women here who that has happened to and I wouldn't wish that on my worse enemy (it happened to one of my best friends)...but only you can make it worse than it already is. Please, just stop. It's not because I don't feel where you're coming from, it's because I do. Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus
Thanks a HV.. Your correct might not when "Here" but some where else I can...
It's not all about a "Progeny" as dearhunter will call it..
I'm moving forward on my end

Ladies and "trolls" have a wonderful day...