Is the local hobby scene as bad as this board makes it seem?

Not quite the answer I expected... there's a lot to unpack there...

Men who pay for sex are the best men.

Really? But your post to bam was a put-down. You said he couldn't get laid for free, which is another way of saying he has to pay for sex. Now you say men who pay for sex are the best. Which is it?


They realize they can’t get what they want and are willing to pay for it without shame.

There are lots of men, including hobbyists, who can get sex without paying for it. They just have to invest time & effort instead of cash. Young guys have more time than money. For older guys, the reverse is true. Being willing to pay for it doesn't mean someone is willing to overpay. And not feeling shame doesn't mean a hobbyist is reckless with his personal info.


Men who complain that they can’t even pay for it are pretty funny.

Funny or pathetic? We've all laughed at the put-down "he couldn't get laid in a whorehouse with a fistful of benjis!" But how pathetic is being a provider? I am hard-pressed to think of anything more revolting than being in a position where you have to have sex with any guy who walks through the door (with the right amount of cash in an envelope), regardless of how fat, bald, dirty, stupid, toothless and smelly he is. Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

Cool - if true darling, you should just drop the act you use here and share the same feelings here about this site and the guys who post here that you share on Twitter.

Be true to yourself Originally Posted by berryberry

What act sir? Please do tell

What act sir? Please do tell Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

Oh, I think everyone here is well aware of it

Not quite the answer I expected... there's a lot to unpack there... Originally Posted by lustylad

No. What I said was, how pathetic is it that you can’t get laid for free and then also complain that you can’t even pay for it? That’s a personal problem .

Oh, I think everyone here is well aware of it Originally Posted by berryberry

Everyone.... meaning who? The 6-8 people that participate here? Again, I’ll defer to my inbox for the facts.

Everyone.... meaning who? The 6-8 people that participate here? Again, I’ll defer to my inbox for the facts. Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

Wow, 6-8 now. Even your Indy's White Knight Tolstoy had it at a dozen people. Of course, that ignored there were a ton more guys who post here. But whatever.

And what inbox darling? The one where you tried to get people on Twitter to give you dirt on some Mods here?

Can't imagine what you would do with that? Well maybe the guy in Erie could shed some light on it

I feel like this thread started about a year ago.

Wow, 6-8 now. Even your Indy's White Knight Tolstoy had it at a dozen people. Of course, that ignored there were a ton more guys who post here. But whatever.

And what inbox darling? The one where you tried to get people on Twitter to give you dirt on some Mods here?

Can't imagine what you would do with that? Well maybe the guy in Erie could shed some light on it Originally Posted by berryberry

Are you sharing an account with bambino now? Keep it up berry!
How long have you been stalking me on twitter?
When eccie mods slide into twitter DMs I will for certain voice my opinion about it !
I reported it to Eccie and also local Mods. So stalking my twitter and then try to tattle on me? Good luck stalker. My Twitter is public so what exactly do you think I’m trying to hide? LOL

I feel like this thread started about a year ago. Originally Posted by C Spackler

Right? But they just can’t let it go! It’s fucking hilarious 😆

If telling the truth about a bad actor on a hooker board is being a bully, then I’m a bully.

If telling the truth about a bad actor on a hooker board is being a bully, then I’m a bully. Originally Posted by bambino

You have no truth sir. You have nothing but embellished lies that you mostly made up yourself. And yes you are 100% a bully in every sense.

I feel like this thread started about a year ago. Originally Posted by C Spackler

That's because the local hobby scene is so bad there are few good reviews, just this thread for everyone to commiserate in.

I feel like this thread started about a year ago. Originally Posted by C Spackler

It's a good thread. It reflects the state of the hobby in Pittsburgh, which is not good. Watching certain people lose the act and expose themselves though has been a good thing. More information is always better

Are you sharing an account with bambino now? Keep it up berry!
How long have you been stalking me on twitter?
When eccie mods slide into twitter DMs I will for certain voice my opinion about it !
I reported it to Eccie and also local Mods. So stalking my twitter and then try to tattle on me? Good luck stalker. My Twitter is public so what exactly do you think I’m trying to hide? LOL Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

Nope darling, I never met Bambino but he seems like a hell of a guy. I may not always agree with him, but he is a straight shooter and always tells it like it is. He willingly shares straight hofo with fellow members. Sure, he can be a bit abrasive on occasion - but wouldn't you expect that from "Indys all time warning points leader"

Sharing honest information here is important, don't you agree.

And don't flatter yourself darling, I don't stalk you on twitter. I only looked at it when a fellow hobbyist pointed out your hypocritical statement. And then since you and I started this discussion, well you prompted me to explore it a bit more.

As far as trying to hide something, like I said before - you should just drop the act you use here and share the same feelings here about this site and the guys who post here that you share on Twitter.

Be true to yourself

It's a good thread. It reflects the state of the hobby in Pittsburgh, which is not good. Watching certain people lose the act and expose themselves though has been a good thing. More information is always better Originally Posted by berryberry

What it does say is that there is a huge disconnect with what clients see VS what Providers see. Which is my entire point. And I’ll say it again... The answer is NO! The local “scene” is not as bad as this site makes it seem.

When I stop getting an influx of DMs referencing this thread, with fiull screening and deposit, maybe I’ll go to my “corner”

Not likely anytime soon