OK now for the Readers Digest view of this thread. VI was outed by some dumb ass. She is in deep shit because the dumb ass outed her. She has been posting full face pictures which is a NO NO on any site like this. In her defense she is young and impulsive. She has made mistakes that other women have avoided.
Is it possible that with all of the hard asses that have dropped in to make snarky comments that some one can be of help or at least have some words of kindness?
I believe that all of us have made mistakes along the line and VI needs to adjust her way of handling her way of doing things. I wish her luck and if she wants some private advice that's worth what I would charge (nothing)
Originally Posted by tucson
Every step you take is a chance to change direction. She's had her warnings, so did the hobbyists who chose to see her. There were years of warnings, multiple bannings of Vi, under various names, and she chose to continue her behaviour.
Let's not be sophomoric about this. Sure everyone has made mistakes, but not all mistakes are equal. And making the same mistake over and over changes things as well.
Frankly I'm suspicious of the guys posting supporting/nice comments to Vi at this point. There are some people who will see someone who is obviously suffering from the effects of their poor decisions and set themselves up as a friendly face. Sometimes these people are just vultures, with disgusting appetites, just waiting for the self respect of their target to slip a bit lower...
It's reprehensible to take advantage of someone whose normal supports, family, church, school, work, roommates, etc have all pulled out from underneath them as a consequence of their bad choices. She needs to find a safety net which doesn't include people who see her as a sex object. That is unlikely to happen here, so the sooner she turns her back on eccie the better.
On this site, when spoken to someone in a tailspin, the odds are quite high that fair words hide foul intentions.