You should take your own advice.
Given YOUR HISTORY, you Sir, have zero ground to stand on, much less the personal integrity to make such a sweeping statement to the Ladies who were brave enough to stand up and post in this thread for those who feel too weak or frightened to post for themselves. You standing on your self righteous soap box, intentionally shaming them for speaking up, reflects solely on your character, not theirs.
That's really the crux of why you felt you needed to shame the Ladies who posted/spoke up in this thread, isn't it? If you are so concerned about "your business" being discussed between members of the community on or off the board, then take care of your own business. Conduct yourself in a manor to ensure a Provider won't feel the need to seek council on how to "handle" you, or a situation you created. You're worried your own behavior, deeds, "negotiation tactics", will be of public knowledge.... It's already out there Darlin and floating on the surface, I'm sure. "SEARCH" is always a girls best friend.
IMHO: Not that you've asked for it, but you should stick to the boys...DD and Vicky are way out of your league.
Originally Posted by Mia Christine
I was unaware that I had negative experiences or reputation?!
I suppose, like Trees, that I would like to know who has an issue, as to make it right.
But I don't want you to tell me what it is; that would prove my point: Unless I have violated a rule or earned an ALERT, you should not know anything about me. I have NOT seen you before (though you did vet me for a potential meeting AND found me acceptable).
I'm not sure what "search" reveals about me, but I'm sure that none of my activities or posts are worthy of gossip or defamation.
My point remains simple: serious complaints against a man ought to be taken to the MODS/higher-ups, not Whispers or even other providers.