Then you were a slave and not a sugar baby.
Never have I known a sugar daddy have a baby at his beck and call.
That is 100% bullshit and either you were with an asshole that thought he could buy a slave or you watch way to much MTV.
If you were on both sides you were on the slave and whore side.
Your experience must have been a nightmare to be at someones beck and call if he called you at midnight. I watched a tv show like that once and people I know called bullshit too.
Stop watching TV
Originally Posted by Gotyour6
to both of you the term is "beckon call" - beckon - to make a gesture with the hand, arm, or head to encourage someone to come nearer or follow - call (well you figure it out) --- not trying to be a smart ass just trying to spread grammatical knowledge, so we all sound smarter
This is Diamonds and Tuxedos, a forum for expensive tastes and lavish lifestyles. Glancing at your posts and reviews, it's evident this forum may not be for you. Just an observation.
By the way, an SD who gives his SB 5k a month certainly expects her to be available when he can get away. No I was not a slave. I was treated extremely well. Thank you for your "bright" input though! I'll have to catch that TV show you speak of! Lol
I'm convinced you're only motivation for posting here is to bait others.
Shoo.
Originally Posted by Ana Valentina
Not that Gotyour6 needs defending ... BUT I find it odd that you joined in Feb 2015 (4 months ago) and you feel knowledgeable enough to criticize someone who has been here 4+ years (he joined in Dec 2010). And if you follow the thread sugar daddies and sugar babies you will see he is quite the knowledgeable poster about that subject which as it turns out is the subject here. He does have a decidedly, singularly focused definition of a Sugar Baby. From his perspective there is a difference between a young lady that chooses to date a man she likes and is attracted to for cultural enrichment, physical and emotional pleasure and yes some amount of financial stability. Money typically not being the primary concern. A hooker is someone that will sleep with men for money and as such there is a subtle difference in that the money benefits are the primary factor in the arrangement. G6 I would dare say would characterize you as a hooker on retainer rather than a sugar baby - rightly or wrongly so I don't know. Some days I wake up thinking G6 is right and other days someone makes a remark that changes that opinion.
One theme that rings basically true for me personally is that providers have a money first mind set and because of the hardness of the profession - a somewhat cold, protected or defensive personality. Believe me I feel for you ladies, I understand it can be tough and it is hard to trust anyone but yourself. And it is precisely that self protective mindset that regardless of arrangement would relegate you to always being a hooker or a hooker with one client or on retainer. Whereas a sugar baby would more likely be a young college student, grad student or young professional in need of contacts and mentoring to grow and reach her goals. And she would be less likely to have the hard defensive shell that a prostitute tends to have. Again, not sure I agree but I do see the perspective as a valid point of view for some.
Perhaps the details of the $5K sugar baby arrangement you say you had would clarify whether it was a Hooker on retainer situation or a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement. I have a feeling once you start explaining it a few more of the Sugar Daddy posters might start agreeing with G6, so you might want to hide behind the "I don't have to explain myself to you" excuse.
As far as your sword crossing with G6 here in this thread diamonds and tuxedoes, trying to belittle him rather than discuss the topic as well as your braggadocios comment that you were once a $5K a month pretty woman beckon call girl - you haven't improved, in my estimation, your standing as a paramour; but rather diminished it. And if you are not here to improve your financial position by raising the value of your paramour stock, then why waste your time here in the first place. Marketing 101 - never ever call someone's baby ugly - it will always cost you money.