Is the local hobby scene as bad as this board makes it seem?

lustylad's Avatar
I have a lot of useful information I'd love to share here but historically, any woman I've seen on this board with an opinion gets singled out for the purposes of harm and intimidation, so it's just not worth it. Originally Posted by Elle Banks
Fire away, girl! I've got your back. Not a WK since I don't know you. But lots of guys may be interested in your "useful information" so feel free to share.
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Is no one allowed to laugh anymore? At anything? What I find amusing you may not and vice versa. That is ok. Originally Posted by berryberry
You're right, berry. For example, I find you highly amusing. Too bad you don't know how to laugh at yourself.
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You're right, berry. For example, I find you highly amusing. Too bad you don't know how to laugh at yourself. Originally Posted by lustylad
What a coincidence. I find you highly amusing as well. And I never take things too seriously Lusty, just as much as I know how to laugh at you. Laughter is good for you. Everyone needs to laugh more.

And see, I knew you couldn't let me have the last word
How about this time?
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Yeah, laughter is a great thing. I grew up in a gangster family. It was like Good Fellas. Those guys were the greatest ball busters in Pittsburgh. They were better than the trash talkers in sports now. Truly funny stuff. So, 90% of what I post is tongue in cheek. I guess I’m not sensitive to people who have thin skin. I take it as well as I give it. Sometimes I forget the emoji thing to soften it up. I guess I’m a bully. But people that have met me know better. I could be a bully, but never was. What I do abhor are liars and dishonest people. I will expose them. That’s a good thing for people to know who they are.
lustylad's Avatar
What a coincidence. I find you highly amusing as well. And I never take things too seriously Lusty, just as much as I know how to laugh at you. Laughter is good for you. Everyone needs to laugh more.

And see, I knew you couldn't let me have the last word
How about this time? Originally Posted by berryberry
Even your contrived, unoriginal sense of "humor" amuses me lol!

If you paid attention, you would have noticed I was responding to your condescending post to Elle Banks. I actually let you have the last word in our previous exchange. I was hoping it might tamp down your pathological insecurity.

On second thought, that's another source of amusement to me so go ahead and let it rip.
Elle Banks's Avatar
What would you call a person who extorts people? Or makes phony tweets on Twitter about someone? I can think of a lot of appropriate names. Some would say that’s a bully. I call it something else. Originally Posted by bambino
Okay, you feel wronged. How many times must you call this person out? To what end? What is it accomplishing?

The fact that my post was quoted and rebutted several times over just drives my point home. Engaging negatively with each other or other providers accomplishes nothing except for making people feel bad, bullied, etc.

Ever consider it time to live and let go? It makes this place intolerable for others and a haven for people who have no idea what is going on that just simply want to demean providers. If someone is contributing useful information, can we refrain from harassing them for things in the past or must you keep this vendetta ever present?

It's a poor reflection on our community as a whole which I would imagine we'd want to take pride in, not disparage.
bambino's Avatar
You two are fucking up my sacred hooker board experience. I come here for civility. Just like my high tea at the Harvard, Yale, Princeton Club. Which I’m a member. Can you knock it off? I’m more interested in Mentally, Physically and Emotionally stability. Or, being extorted and beaten in the head head with a hammer. That’s what I’m screaming.
bambino's Avatar
Okay, you feel wronged. How many times must you call this person out? To what end? What is it accomplishing?

The fact that my post was quoted and rebutted several times over just drives my point home. Engaging negatively with each other or other providers accomplishes nothing except for making people feel bad, bullied, etc.

Ever consider it time to live and let go? It makes this place intolerable for others and a haven for people who have no idea what is going on that just simply want to demean providers. If someone is contributing useful information, can we refrain from harassing them for things in the past or must you keep this vendetta ever present?

It's a poor reflection on our community as a whole which I would imagine we'd want to take pride in, not disparage. Originally Posted by Elle Banks
Maybe your buddy DG should let go of her bad ways. Yeah? Look, you and I had a disagreement a year ago. We settled it amicably via PM. Carry on if you wish.
Jacuzzme's Avatar
Define “working girl”
What a ridiculous request.
berryberry's Avatar
Okay, you feel wronged. How many times must you call this person out? To what end? What is it accomplishing?

The fact that my post was quoted and rebutted several times over just drives my point home. Engaging negatively with each other or other providers accomplishes nothing except for making people feel bad, bullied, etc.

Ever consider it time to live and let go? It makes this place intolerable for others and a haven for people who have no idea what is going on that just simply want to demean providers. If someone is contributing useful information, can we refrain from harassing them for things in the past or must you keep this vendetta ever present?

It's a poor reflection on our community as a whole which I would imagine we'd want to take pride in, not disparage. Originally Posted by Elle Banks
Time to live and let go you say?
Time to forget things in their past you say?

Then tell me, why do you screen? I have no idea what you require from a screening perspective but it doesn't matter. Why do you not practice what you preach and just live and let go, forget things in the past and not screen? Because it is all the same concept. I assume when you screen, you will not see someone if they have something in their background you do not like or feel comfortable with. Well here is a shocker, guys can be that way too.

But unlike providers, guys don't ask you for your driver's license, linked in account, the address of your first born, etc. We share info with other hobbyists through boards like this. So if it has been reported that someone has had past issues extorting guys, scamming guys, being hypocritical or whatever, don't you think that is something we want to share with our fellow hobbyists? Is that not important for a guy to know when deciding if he wants to see someone? Or should only guys live and let go and forget things in a girl's past?
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I have missed you fuckers, I guess I need to poke in more often. Although its sad to see during my hiatus things havent improved with the lady selection, alas the demise of TOS. The majority certainly didint migrate here it seems.

Jinny I till have the half done Pistolero bobblehead in my workshop 🤣

Hows Tatas been? And Riggins? Where the fuck is Riggins?
Dreamgurrl's Avatar
Keep shouting your “information” from the rooftops Bam. It’s called cyber bullying, cyber stalking, and malicious slander but you can call it whatever you want. Your audience of the same 6 people here are grateful, I’m sure.

This all really just drives home my original point, (which I respectfully provided in the very beginning of this thread only to be immediately met with personal attacks and slander), that the users of this forum do not represent “most” clients.

Most of them don’t want to participate in this type negative, caustic, toxicity anymore than providers do. Oh well.

As always, wishing you all good health and peace of mind. It’s a beautiful day, enjoy the blue skies if you can
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Keep shouting your “information” from the rooftops Bam. It’s called cyber bullying, cyber stalking, and malicious slander but you can call it whatever you want. Your audience of the same 6 people here are grateful, I’m sure.

This all really just drives home my original point, (which I respectfully provided in the very beginning of this thread only to be immediately met with personal attacks and slander), that the users of this forum do not represent “most” clients.

Most of them don’t want to participate in this type negative, caustic, toxicity anymore than providers do. Oh well.

As always, wishing you all good health and peace of mind. It’s a beautiful day, enjoy the blue skies if you can Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl
It’s you that bullies people in real life. Like the hobbyist from Erie. I guess his life will never be the same. I’ve never caused anyone harm in the hobby or RL. Not a soul.
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It’s you that bullies people in real life. Like the hobbyist from Erie. I guess his life will never be the same. Originally Posted by bambino
I don’t know why you are the way you are, but it’s sad and I feel bad for you. It must be an awful way to live life with so much hate in your heart that you have to project it on to others. Again, I truly am wishing you some peace.
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I don’t know why you are the way you are, but it’s sad and I feel bad for you. It must be an awful way to live life with so much hate in your heart that you have to project it on to others. Again, I truly am wishing you some peace. Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl
Oh, I have a great life. Great family, friends and business associates. I don’t have any hate in my heart for anyone. Including you. But your behavior disgusts me. I’ll bring this up again since you broadcasted it on Indys. Why did a hobbyist bring an Amazon to an appointment with you? She really bitch slapped you. You posted the pics on Indys. The bruises and bald spots on your head. That was pretty brutal. Why did that happen? Was it a random act? Or was it payback? My guess is the latter. I’ll drop the mic now.