Cathrine - Vi - Valerie... I got outted :( now what do I do?

OK so here is my last post and it's the truth Originally Posted by !VI!

This was back on page 11. We're now on page 28 and it's been followed by at least 33 more I could count.

i;m covering bases to cover my ass, since i'm out of the hobby anyway Originally Posted by !VI!

Her BP ad is still up, although (as of now) it hasn't been reposted since last Thursday. Maybe there's no way to take it down, I'm not sure about that.

i have nothing to lose at this point... it's why i'm just here cleaning the air Originally Posted by !VI!

!VI! you should really rethink that. Pretty much everyone always has something to lose, whether they think so or not.

In the OP she asked for advice. The general consensus is that she received some very good advice, but appears to have taken none of it. Everyone, we should just give up at this point (myself included).

. The general consensus is that she received some very good advice, but appears to have taken none of it. Everyone, we should just give up at this point (myself included). Originally Posted by billw1032

It's her shtick. A put-on. A distraction from distractions. I wonder how she is going to top it.

So sorry this happened to you love. I was once outed to my family by another provider and ruined my family life and life went to shambles.

Hopefully your situations allows you to raise the middle finger and carry on head up.

this is way off topic and should be closed she is a troll starting her shit once again and a real danger to everyone here at eccie Originally Posted by skirtchaser79411

She's a "danger"? Like this?

woman i don't know you are care to know you, SHUT THE FUCK UP Originally Posted by !VI!

Take it down a notch. You brewed this up now its time to address the responses in a civil manner.

She just posted two more videos if any of you care to see if you've become an internet porn star or not. Originally Posted by albundy

Im interested to see if I recognize anyone in the videos, We might be witnessing the next Kim K keep them coming !V!, maybe do a video a day until the stash is all gone.

I can't believe that I come back daily to check the drama. Is it just me, or is the messy rooms really fucking with my OCD? I've never seen VI, so I don't have anything to say other than to bad, she's kind of cute. But DAMN, Dorthy_Monroe is giving me a major hard on!

Perhaps the only good thing to come out of this thread is that Dorothy_Monroe is now on my to do list. Nothing hotter than an hot Latina all hot and bothered. It's also good to hear the voice of reason from providers like THN, Jules, Maggie May and others. VI claims $120,000?. To use her math that's 461.54 sessions. Maybe the .54 was the midget. Rumors of her filming sessions have been around for a long time. It stands to reason that she could easily have hundreds of tapes. She has quite a few reviews, greasy hair and all. Her posts clearly indicate a consistent tone of drama with extremely irrational behavior. The question is how much risk is the ECCIE community willing to accept?

...The question is how much risk is the ECCIE community willing to accept? Originally Posted by FunMonday

The answer to that is simple: until she posts a video of an ECCIE member.

The OP definitely keeps the Dallas mods busy.....I knew she was a CB...but damn she's taken FUBAR to a whole new level.....

Okay, after reading the VI thread, I think I am somewhat up to speed on the matter-though I haven't seen the videos.

I know this will be considered white knighting a little here but, so be it.

We are all young once and not the most capable of making the rational, logical, responsible choice under any given circumstance. Judging by Vi's showcase, she seems young - no older than 26. When I was 26, they handed me a 6 figure law job and I spent way too much time in strip clubs, buying bottle service, and otherwise making terrible life choices. (Don't get me wrong, I love strip clubs - but spending grand on lap dances and drinks for the ladies isn't exactly a responsible life choice).

But, as luck may have it, I dodged any bullets of real consequence, learned lessons, and life is peachy.

Now, VI get's outed by a client and she turned to the community for support. Some were helpful - others were not - in the end, this poor girl made bad decisions that completely obliterated both her real world support and her community support - she's young... she made a mistake... shocking. So, having no support - she outs clients - because, in her mind, if she's about to commit internet suppku (and hopefully not real life suppku) she might as well take some down with her.

Why was she recording her sessions? I dunno - I can't blame her. The shit these girls have to face on a daily basis with some of you "hobbiest" is shit I hope I never face. Guys getting rough with them, guys robbing them, guys raping them... I can understand her wanting some kind of backup.

Of course, yes, I don't want a tape released of me balls deep in a provider if I choose to run for office one day, but that's a risk I take - just like she takes a risk letting a new guy into her incall, praying she does not end up the victim of the Ted Bundys of the world.

Anyway, I think you guys should let this just die down. No sense in feeding the flames. I imagine it is hard enough getting out of this life and picking up the pieces of your shattered real life without your family or friends to support you... I see no reason you guys need to compound the difficulties because she did something stupid.

Hell, I still have photos of Stormy from our times - I mean she went legit and her naked ass is probably on 1000 guys computers and/or phones... That has to be terrifying as an ex-provider knowing one day your husband might wake up to pics in his email of his wife's face covered in cum.

If VI wants out - you guys should be helping her get her shit together... not trying to drive her to suicide.

If VI wants out - you guys should be helping her get her shit together... not trying to drive her to suicide. Originally Posted by projectbliss

I hope you take some of your own advice there pal....ijs

Vi, is it true you are ignoring PMs from clients asking if you have videos of them? If so, why? Originally Posted by TinMan

She's pleading her fifth, that's why....

She's pleading her fifth, that's why.... Originally Posted by andymarksman

Oh boy, it's getting juicy now, ignoring ALL the clients she's filmed.

Project is well on-point.

It's sad to see someone self-destruct b/c some asshats decided to out her. While I don't condone making those vids publically available (and potentially giving Uncle LEO more evidence, outting people who shouldn't be outted), I have enough empathy to understand how she would want to take those responsible down with her.

Generally, people faced with what they perceive to be the end don't think too rationally, and this is a perfect example of that. I hate to see such a sad situation play out (for her, her outted clients, her family).

Hopefully, she'll move on with the help she needs and do great things (someone suggested pro porn. Not sure that's a good life choice at this point, but I'd buy a ticket - she's a smoking hot redhead) and be happy.