Providers: Ever go the other way?

Agree with DFK Hunter and Tara. Really a jazz to get a PM from a provider who's interested in one of my posts or heard from another provider about my Herculean sexual feats (okay full disclosure, that last one has never happened). Goes back to chemistry and attitudes. If she shares my sense of humor, and I recognize not many do, we're likely to get along much better. She doesn't even have to ask for me to set an appointment. Maybe she just gets the conversation started; then, when Gonzo has funds.... I think more providers should do this.

I've pm'ed a couple of guys after our visit to let them know that I had a wonderful time with them. Ive also pm'ed a guy after reading one of their threads because I thought we would mesh good but he never got around to seeing me so I haven't pm'ed anyone since. :-( Originally Posted by Trophie Girl

Trophie: That's what you get from PMing hobbyists who aren't getting enough oxygen to the brain cells

Sorry Trophie! I'm on my way!! lol I agree with TM and Gonzo... Definite Ego comes into play, but I would be insulted if I got a pm that just said " Hey Mr. All Kinds Of Cuteness" I'm bored and horny... Check out my rates and showcase.. Ok, I would.. But still.. lol Be creative, a lil thoughtful And every now and than... extend a lil bonus of sorts.. time or donation that isn't advertised. Just make sure to tell the hobbyists to post what the normal rate is.. Could cause probs. later... I'm here all night folks. Tips are welcomed, but breasts would be best!

I'm a little late to this thread, and my thoughts are probably a little redundant, but here goes:

The idea that a woman, especially a pretty one, and especially a pretty one who could have her choice of many, many other men, would seek me out and indicate that SHE wanted to spend an hour of her time with ME is a very powerful intoxicant.


It's happened before, and while I really don't expect it to ever happen again, I do muse occasionally about what it would be like to feel like that again.

Everyone wants to be wanted. So to have a beautiful woman choose you to spend some time with can't help but make you feel at least a little special...

Hell there are thousands of us horny bastards on here to choose from so she can't be sending messages to everyone right?

Everyone wants to be wanted. So to have a beautiful woman choose you to spend some time with can't help but make you feel at least a little special...

Hell there are thousands of us horny bastards on here to choose from so she can't be sending messages to everyone right? Originally Posted by stateofmindtx

LOL! But you are right, it's all about the fantasy, like when a provider tells me how big and juicy I am. I know she's lying through her teeth.

Lots of guys get pissed off at any kind of spam.

Responding to a particular request or question is probably alright.

It doesn't bother me, but if it's not a lady I know, or if happens too often, it's got an air of sleaze to it.

she hit on me and I send pic's via email and she says I know you, how?
turns out she lays out next to a pool on the golf course I play and live on for another week. Told her I was moving to OK to take care of my 86yo mother and she asked for my address, thinking she was coming over but she did not, saying I would tell some one?? who the hell am I going to tell???? I think she is living with one of the high dollar players at my club but I would not know him if I saw him

ps her reviews were better than fucking Cleopatra, it is late and I have had a few scotches+
so Cathie if you are on this board, I gave you a chance but will back in Dallas every couple of weeks, my golf is still free Originally Posted by cptjohnstone

Good Afternoon CPT

She contacted me via ASPD & we finally got together after much communication. One of my great sorrows is that my reviews of our two nights together vanished in the great ASPD crash.

I second your emotion; if Cathie is around here, drop me a PM and let's see what happens next.

Bye all;
Cyclops

Provider asking a guy for BCD in my opinion is a major turn on for the hobbyies, even if the guy knows that he is paying for it. In this modern world you would think it must be happening more often, but guess it's not, or may be I am not one of the the lucky guys!! Originally Posted by Private Encounter

Actually, I'd only have found it to be a turn on if I was offered some incentive, like a substantial discount or something other than paying the usual rate for a session at her convenience. I mean, I already had the same incentive to see her at my convenience if she was available.

I send thank you pm's

I send hey I like your post

Sometimes I send rants, poor Looie, which they never take hard or bad, Looie I hope your day got better!!! I still like you buddy.

I have asked only one hobbyist would he like to see me, if I was ever in town, he was cool with it, I just never pushed the issue.

Its some guys here, I would love to have a session with, Im just too scared to ask if they would see me. You know that whole rejection thing. I'll rather hide behind my weekly ads.

It would turn me on for sure.. I would prob schedule something w/the provider if I it looked like we would be a match.

Major turn on . . . no stalking, but a flirt from time to time is nice.

I got the call from "Cathy" also, and it is a major ego boost, as she does not advertise, she just makes you feel "special" by making you the chosen one. It worked on me, i only know of two gents who did not follow through on a Cathy invite.

As for ladies who do advertise, and theoretically we could see at will, well if one sends me an IM, PM, text, whatever, well that is nice and generally lets me know that I have passed "screening" and she thinks we may click, (another "good thing").....

......... and then there is the "booty call"...... well, need I say any more? That is the absolute best, I have had a couple, but there is one that was I was told was "almost made" .... and THAT one haunts me to this day.

C'mon, we are all human, and last I knew the human "psyche" likes to be stroked, even if it is an invite for p4p isn't it nice to know or think SOMEBODY likes your style?

-PT-

Has been prior threads on/ around this.

Ego notwithstanding and not a consideration( or so I claim), I love flirting and consider an occasional provider PM part of the getting to know each otherprocess and flirting is " A" ok.

Just do it via PM here not hobby or any other phone.

There are several guys that I have pmed on here either with I love their avatars, are I have liked something that they have posted are have written. I love meeting new friends so will always say hello. Originally Posted by Tara Evans

It is good for the ego to have a hot provider PM you. Just make it personal and not the generic "Hi Sweetie" that everyone else uses. Reference something I posted that made you notice me or think that we would have a good time together. It doesn't have to be a Freudian analysis of my posting style, but make me feel a little bit special.

I have booked several appointments based on PM or emails, and they have generally been very good. Originally Posted by DorkLover

Amen. I dont know anyone here except the one lady I have seen so i guess im safe from this topic...... LOL. I do think it would be a major turn on to be approached.