I am on the submissive side so I like to be tied down and teased. I love it when the woman gets off as much as she likes while I am denied for hours on end.
I loved to be teased visually and physically by woman. This is why I am addicted to going to see strippers and having them dance for me while rejecting my advances in very subtle ways. It makes me want them so much more. I can get off quicker that way then if a stripper just starts giving me a HJ/BJ. I guess my fantasy is having a beautiful woman totally tease me like letting me smell their pussy but not taste, having her kiss me on the neck, but rejecting me when I try to kiss her; ETC. Then when I leave I go get a provider I know won't reject me. Go figure I am all screwed up!!!!!
I would have to say my favorite fetish is a sexy submissive woman on her knees, grabbing her heels, gagging and drooling on me. That and orgasm denial until she begs. I know. I know. I am twisted, but I like it.