Will this board adapt to allow forums for Homosexual Hobby Related activities?

Whispers words: "Personally, I have no desire to read anything from or about him...... Nor do I have any desire to see any of the other types of information I mentioned in the OP."

What you are saying different is stated above. Even though you have no desire to read or hear anything from or about him, as you say, you continue to speak directly too him and KrisyKakes in a forum that you dont want them to be a part of.

I agree with you that I dont want to see homosexuality blatantly discussed in the coed forums, but then again, its something that I dont have to read if I dont want too. Everyone makes their own choices sexually, and they dont have to agree with mine. Personally I would never see a TS or Post op Ts, but thats just my choice.
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They're no different from any other hobbyist or provider...the only reason people don't want to see it talked about is because it exposes their own insecurities...

So guess what...they get to suck it up and deal...
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I am in total agreement with you on this point, Whispers.

. . . Others may disagree, but you must draw the line somewhere before everything descends into chaos.



No it wouldn't.

That is actually what I am concerned about.

I would prefer a much more close minded approach and charter that makes this a private club dedicated to the exploration of the hobby in relation to genetically female providers.

The rest can find another board. Originally Posted by Whispers
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Whispers words: "Personally, I have no desire to read anything from or about him...... Nor do I have any desire to see any of the other types of information I mentioned in the OP."

What you are saying different is stated above. Even though you have no desire to read or hear anything from or about him, as you say, you continue to speak directly too him and KrisyKakes in a forum that you dont want them to be a part of.

I agree with you that I dont want to see homosexuality blatantly discussed in the coed forums, but then again, its something that I dont have to read if I dont want too. Everyone makes their own choices sexually, and they dont have to agree with mine. Personally I would never see a TS or Post op Ts, but thats just my choice. Originally Posted by OldTexas65

I will respond to and debate any subject that I have an opinion on..... I would rather it not be there to begin with. I did not go LOOKING for TSs to get into a pissing match with anymore than I want to see certain other things.

The girl I live with is aware of this site and my participation on it. She walks in and ses the ads and never really thinks about anything but asked me what the fuck I was doing looking at ads for Transexuals.... WTF? I tend to space out regarding the ads on the site and pay them little attention but there across the bottom of the screen was a huge TS ad....

I'm wondering when the ads for guy on guy sites start appearing if it will be as easy to space out.
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... I am in total agreement with you on this point, Whispers ... Originally Posted by Fast Gunn
I feel so superior now.
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What about are for fat chicks? Or ugly chicks? Or black girls? Or Hispanic girls? If your reason for this thread is your girlfriend asking "what are you doing looking at ads for <insert description here>?" then there's no reason at all to continue with this...
Honestly, Icky will have to make a LOT of changes to attract gay male escorts, and those changes involve much more than just allowing them their own ad section.

Gay men already have ad websites that actually get traffic, have more advanced options and statistics on the ads, have serious clients, and allow discussions without the vitriol that I've seen here. I have a few friends that are very involved in that community, and the behavior often shown here would never be tolerated on one of those boards.

Trust, you guys don't have anything to worry about.
Honestly, Icky will have to make a LOT of changes to attract gay male escorts, and those changes involve much more than just allowing them their own ad section.

Gay men already have ad websites that actually get traffic, have more advanced options and statistics on the ads, have serious clients, and allow discussions without the vitriol that I've seen here. I have a few friends that are very involved in that community, and the behavior often shown here would never be tolerated on one of those boards.

Trust, you guys don't have anything to worry about. Originally Posted by Charlotte Breeze
Yep, I think it's a moot point because the gay escort community would most likely want their own safe place under the control of like minded people.
Yep, I think it's a moot point because the gay escort community would most likely want their own safe place under the control of like minded people. Originally Posted by LilMynx69
Agreed.

As much as straight men on these websites get wound up about virtually touching peens with one of "those people", they are hardly the ones choosing to keep the worlds separate.
Theres a fine line being discussed here, a male being with a TS ISNT gay...There is NOTHING manly about a TS, we are feminine in every way, except what is between our legs. Originally Posted by TSKrystiKakes
Biological sciences disagree vehemently with you. A TS (post-op or pre-op) is still genetically a male. Our current technology cannot change this. Therefore a TS is engaging in homosexual behavior with other genetic members of his/her sex.

In the interest of transparency, all TS providers should declare themselves so. Let the client determine if that is an important distinction. If a provider is male, they should have a special forum they can advertise in so that the vast majority of us who are actually physically turned off by this do not have to errantly open a mood-killing Ad or threAd. Transparency in business is good for the consumer and service providers. It will prevent awkward situations from occurring in most cases and may even prevent some physical violence. Help the dude that passes himself off as a chick to me and then frees willy. He's bound to get a ruptured testicle.
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What about are for fat chicks? Or ugly chicks? Or black girls? Or Hispanic girls? If your reason for this thread is your girlfriend asking "what are you doing looking at ads for <insert description here>?" then there's no reason at all to continue with this... Originally Posted by Wakeuр

That is not the reason for the questions.

That was one of about 3 separate issues that came together in my mind to bring this question up.
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No amount of conversation will change peoples deep seated opinions.

I suggest a 'rose-colored-glasses' approach. What you don't see can't hurt you.

Simply have toggle buttons for sex and sexual preference. Ads, and reviews are blocked automatically. Discussion, alerts, and whatnot are always active.

Everyone gets what they want, an experience tailored better to their needs. And, if someone discovers they have an interest, they can always change their preferences, and see what it's like on the 'other side'.

I for one, would like to know if a provider is post-op or pre-op, her race, age, body type, and personal style, so I can make an informed decision. I like variety, and being informed helps me make the choice that makes me happiest for that encounter. Aren't we all just looking for a great experience here?

Misrepresentation is never a good thing.
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  • 12-02-2013, 06:15 PM
Misrepresentation is never a good thing. Originally Posted by wadeinthecity
I agree. That is the piece of this whole discussion that is most important to me, whether is activities, age, photos, TS status, or anything else. I don't expect anyone else to have the same likes and dislikes as I do, not every provider is right for me, nor am I right for every one of them. Be accurate in your representation, I'll be accurate in mine, and we will likely both enjoy our time together.
Wow guys, you have a lady (TSKakes) on here trying to explain to you about the orientation of her clients, and one poster is rude enough to call her a man, and another wants to tell her about chromosomes that make her a man. I am just really surprised by the close mindedness on a site that would be considered by much (maybe most) of the country as occupied by deviant people. The reason we are a community is that we are different than most others
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Wow guys, you have a lady (TSKakes) on here trying to explain to you about the orientation of her clients, and one poster is rude enough to call her a man, and another wants to tell her about chromosomes that make her a man. I am just really surprised by the close mindedness on a site that would be considered by much (maybe most) of the country as occupied by deviant people. The reason we are a community is that we are different than most others Originally Posted by midrider
its called hypocrisy. a moderator even posted on the last page how he doesn't approve of certain lifestyles as if he is above it because and this is his words "it damages society", yet he moderates an escort site and pays for sex.

I had to re-read the post a couple times cause it sounded like he was trolling at first but then I saw what part of the country he lives in and it made perfect sense