Some providers do have spouses some don't
Some providers are in good situations some aren't
Everyone just have compassion for each other
I know for me personally the only reason I started providing is because I was in a terrible situation living and relationship-wise..
The only thing that is getting me through this time is the hobbyists I've met that I've actually become friends with that are checking on me
It is true we do make a lot of money per hour but it boils down to how many hours do you actually workbecause if there's not enough hours as said previously then you're basically in the same boat as everybody else which is a fast sinking one
Originally Posted by Sienna91
See, this is where I'm coming from.
A relationship is a choice. There's the square-type, unattractive guys in abundance who's willing to be prince charming but in general don't get chose (may or may not be your case). Most men are very familiar with this occurrence and have natural reservations about said situations (no sympathy).
A messed up living situation. With respect to not knowing your situation, I apologize if I over step - but again, frugality is an option for most. Living with parents is an option. Squatting with a trusted roommate while you grind at whatever low level job as you go to school or whatever to get by is an option.
You chose a profession that comes with a lot of pre-conceived notions and complications that are both advantageous and disadvantageous. You chose the profession where men pay you for your time being a "companion". Because your "companion" skills are so great you have clients that check up on you in rough times - kudos to the work you put in. I can't deny you of that.
That however does not mean or warrant general attention being called to think about a sex workers in this time of difficulty. It's just disturbing AF to me. Someone's parents might die and leave a young adult in charge of younger siblings who need special medical attention and they could be in need of $1200 to hold off car loan payments for a couple of months while he/she continues to grind in grad school and hold the family afloat. To be in a situation where someone with proximity to assist in that matter couldn't because right off the bat they gave it away, I don't know. None of my business it's their money.