I started the hobby about 21 months ago and I have had 21 sessions, so you can see that on average I get 1 op a month. I'm not gonna be "butt hurt" if I get a ncns. I've had 1 since I started, my first and last venture into BP and it happened on my second hobby attempt. I've been cancelled on and had to cancel. Sometimes shit just happens. But it's now been 2 months since my last hobby op and you can bet the farm that if I get ncnsed on my next I'm gonna be a pissed off MF. Doubt that will happen because I stick with well reviewed ladies who treat this professionally - but there are few guaranties in the hobby.Exactly. And I think I said pretty much the same thing on the first page of this thread. If I only had one opportunity a month, my view might be a little different. That's the beauty of it. Each hobbyist can go about it their own preferred way. My view was more of an overall life attitude however, not just pertaining to this situation. Life is definitely too short. Be pissed off but get right back on the horse, as it were lol
But I think the thing that many miss here is that we all deal with different realities. I have a wife and my ops normally revolve around her schedule (out of town or otherwise reliably tied down with something), not my wishes. Your hobby circumstances are not necessarily mine. And that shapes our approach to the hobby and how we feel about missing an op. To think that your views (largely shaped by your circumstances) fit everyone here is erroneous. But I see that time after time. Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged
- UnderConstruction
- 10-26-2014, 10:16 PM
- UnderConstruction
- 10-26-2014, 10:17 PM
- watchoutthegameisrigged
- 10-26-2014, 11:09 PM
UC, my problem is that I may not be able to "get right back on the horse." That's what I'm saying here. Among other things.
- bladtinzu
- 10-27-2014, 06:52 PM
This is where I would respectfully disagree to a point. For many of us gentlemen, hobby time can be difficult to schedule. When I have an opportunity, I like to seek out a provider who does NOT have a history of NCNS, because it may be some time before I can try again.It is understood some of you guys have very limited time to hobby (or limited supplies of Viagra which ever it maybe) but honestly endless calls and texts to the hooker who stood you up is just like pissing into the wind. It wastes more of your valuable time does it not? And even if you book with another hooker in that time and send the NCNS hooker a text saying you booked hooker number two she won't fucking care. Most of these NCNS whores book em 10 deep and could care a less about the loss of one customer. Now their pimp might throw a bitch slap on her for potential earnings loss but we should care a less about that since she got herself into that situation. Unless if your captain save a whore..
I know that NCNS happens... that's life and it's happened to me... but there are providers who are much more conscientious about notification, and then there are providers who don't seem to give a damn. I know which ones I would be interested in! Originally Posted by Slingerland
- Guest061415-1
- 10-27-2014, 07:28 PM
It is understood some of you guys have very limited time to hobby (or limited supplies of Viagra which ever it maybe) but honestly endless calls and texts to the hooker who stood you up is just like pissing into the wind. Originally Posted by bladtinzuBlad, I'm in complete agreement. I don't blow up the phone... I call/text when I'm on the way. If there is no answer, I try again once I'm in the general area. Then I'll wait between 20~30 minutes and that's it.
I've had a couple of times where the provider was in the shower while I was driving over. For her caution she turned off the phone while in the shower. In those cases, the second call/text works fine.
But no, I don't blow up a phone/beg/snivel/cry, etc.
- bladtinzu
- 10-31-2014, 10:38 AM
