She won't see me anymore and I don't know why

I was reading over this thread again (yeah, I know ... got really bored), and noticed a few things I didn't see before.

Left me sayin ... hhhhmmmm

She actually was adamant about me not tipping. I still would sneak and leave more. She would most times say I already paid on the next visit. We did L3 for 2 years. I don't think money was the issue. Originally Posted by theonlyone2be

Let's get something straight. MONEY IS ALWAYS THE ISSUE.
Also, it's not something we like to discuss before, during or after a session.
There'd been times I'm forced to say it when asked "what was your fee again". NOT SMART tho for many reasons.
Speaking for myself, if I'm asked or find that question coming up frequently from the same client, it doesn't sit well.
I've been shorted and discovered it after the client left, but in some sense was grateful he didn't ask.
Will I see him again .... NO!

....if you are getting great service from a vendor of any kind and all parties benefited and then that vendor stopped taking your order with no reason given, you would move to another vendor but at least wonder why for a minute. Originally Posted by theonlyone2be

We aren't selling a product. What we sell involves a certain amount of intimacy. Therefore, the relationship is completely different.

...maybe she finally realized you remind her of her 9th grade geography teacher that she hated. Maybe she ate a bad oyster after she saw you and thought you made her sick. Speculating more than a few minutes will drive you crazy.. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

Ha! So funny you say this TTH.
I once told a dude he reminded me of my uncle. It "sort of" worked. At least he eventually got off my back and gave up.

However, putting the shoe on the other foot, I have abruptly ended way more (10 ish) arrangements without notice or explanation. So I guess I deserved what I got. Originally Posted by 2on1Lover

ROFLMAO
Wow, compared to the number of clients we see and then putting on "your shoe" .... I'm just sayin we have to filter through and decide who to see or not in much bigger numbers.

Sure, having an ATF is great, but if something happens (and it always does), then you have plenty of backup, ... Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

Hmmmmm ... am I an AFT or a backup?

ONE MORE THING ...
To the OP - you said you've been hobbying for years.
Why only recently you joined ECCIE? Sept 2020?
Or ... did you change handles? Running from something?

The more I read this thread, the more disturbed I become.

1. Why do I keep reading this drama?
2. When did this monger community turn from horndawgs sniffing for fresh meat to sensitive caring new-age girlie men looking for true love?
3. When did the woman that keeps banging into the top of my TDL turn into "Dear Abby"
4. When will someone bitch-slap the OP?
5. Will they sell tickets?
6. Why will I be first in line to buy one and ashamed at the same time?

Lastly Why do I keep reading this?

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Originally Posted by Torre Tames

What kind of weird stuff? Lol

Its happened to all of us in the hobby for a period of time and there are multiple reasons. she could see only so many clients a week found a new she liked well and let some one go off her schedule and that was you and perhaps one day you will get a text or email from her. I expect one any day from one of my ATF's that just disappeared but recently returned so like all have said just move on these ladies are for your pleasure not to get attached to unless its mutual!!! I still miss Tori Capelli but have fucked a lot of ladies since seeing her last 4 yrs ago and we email at times but when i mention appointment she doesn't reply but maybe some day she will and I will happily see her. She is very low volume and wants to see different guys so she will stay in touch but as for a session SHE HAS MOVED ON!!! It happens for various reasons so move on bud!

Everything about this hobby is temporary. Change is a certainty.


I am not a fan of clingy. One previous SB will call me at all hours of night, 9 pm, 11pm, 2am, 4am, 6am, especially when she's drunk. Then she will text me not to pick up her phone calls. Then she refer herself by her formal name, etc. So.... be careful.


I have seen a providers a few times, bc it's always fun and we enjoy ourselves. Then for months, I try to get an appt with her, she won't respond, not even to "hi". Months later, I reach out, and got an appt w/ her but she ghost me when I got to her place. The following week, I reach back out, and end up seeing her for an appt, and she just opened up (both sex and pillow talk) and it was an amazing time together.


I had connections with providers and SB but women do move on, but usually involve SO.

Had the same thing happen...she said I was the only one she provided BBFS...yeah, right. Before Covid, she stopped answering my text...English not so good, so mostly text. This was unexpected, but I know she had some personal issues and was driving a long ways to work.

What was name?

I have experienced this with Chinese women before. Suddenly blocking Wechat and email. Then 2 months later reconnecting like nothing happened. Upon asking it was something stupidly insignificant. The next time I was blocked for nor reason I blocked also and didn't reconnect. Fickle strange creatures.

She will call after the honeymoon or the break
Yes as soon as they get a bf they feel it’s cheating.
She likely missed your money so she tried to see you.
But guilt prevented it.
Save number so you know who’s calling in 3 months Originally Posted by AmericanHardwood

This...

We've seen before.

i suggest reading the story about the zen master, the zen student, the old woman, & the creek. Originally Posted by pmdelites

Is this the one?
https://medium.com/@soninilucas/two-...y-c15294c394c1
Although it has an old woman, not a hot young provider.

One previous SB will call me at all hours of night, 9 pm, 11pm, 2am, 4am, 6am, especially when she's drunk. Originally Posted by london2012

Exactly why I've never gone the SB route.
"We don't pay them for the sex. We pay them to go away,"--Attributed to Charlie Sheen

What was name? Originally Posted by Shortfalcon

You really resurrected a thread from 2020 to ask that?

Rare is it that a see a provider more than once unless I had a really great time, as the say, you never get a second chance to make a first impression. It is laughable when a provider says, "I am sorry, but the next time, it will be better". The second visit from the same client will not be coming if the first time with you is not good. All the providers whom I have seen just once and not seen again, save for one, are not because I wanted to see them again for a future session.

A couple of years ago, I saw a provider that I really liked as a provider, she had excellent TCB skills and some of the best BCD skills. I guarantee you that in the hotel room that was her incall for me, that the neighbors on either side knew we were having sex!

Like a dummy, I reviewed her on here and because my trolls and haters are so quick, the next week when I tried to see her again, she would not return my communications, which I found odd considering how quickly she responded to my initial communication with her earlier. Eventually, I got a hold of her and after a bit of prodding, she told me that she had received some texts and emails from anonymous source(s) that would not answer her back, that I had AIDS, was a danger the community, I rape women, ect. that not only would she not see me again, but she was so distraught that she quit the business altogether and has not been back. She may have changed her number and nickname, but she cannot change her pics.

So, from then on, I do not review a provider unless I know she can ignore the barrage of negative communications that will soon follow after my posting.

Rare is it that a see a provider more than once unless I had a really great time, as the say, you never get a second chance to make a first impression. It is laughable when a provider says, "I am sorry, but the next time, it will be better". The second visit from the same client will not be coming if the first time with you is not good. All the providers whom I have seen just once and not seen again, save for one, are not because I wanted to see them again for a future session.

A couple of years ago, I saw a provider that I really liked as a provider, she had excellent TCB skills and some of the best BCD skills. I guarantee you that in the hotel room that was her incall for me, that the neighbors on either side knew we were having sex!

Like a dummy, I reviewed her on here and because my trolls and haters are so quick, the next week when I tried to see her again, she would not return my communications, which I found odd considering how quickly she responded to my initial communication with her earlier. Eventually, I got a hold of her and after a bit of prodding, she told me that she had received some texts and emails from anonymous source(s) that would not answer her back, that I had AIDS, was a danger the community, I rape women, ect. that not only would she not see me again, but she was so distraught that she quit the business altogether and has not been back. She may have changed her number and nickname, but she cannot change her pics.

So, from then on, I do not review a provider unless I know she can ignore the barrage of negative communications that will soon follow after my posting. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

And you have a grand total of ZERO ‘No’ reviews to your good name.

What does all your drivel have to do with OP’s question?