Hagglers - what is it they really want?

Hey.... I have a returnable coke bottle... And 3 shiney nickles... Who wants to trade? Originally Posted by lookn4boobies

This is a trade hot line now?
Some new method?

l4b is a known haggler. Do not fall for the two returnable bottles game with him.

For the ladies, what is your response to hagglers? Are there any ladies out there that are willing to negotiate? Do ladies in the 200's and 100's also get this type of call?

This really has only happened to me once and just about a month or so ago. This guy is known about posting to receive "The best BBBJ" in Houston. So, as most of the Providers are 100/BNG. So am I. As I know I'm worth it. But I do offer "gift's" differently to those that I see on a regular basis. So this guy tries negoitating my gift, all because he can't make it too my incall, which I have certain hours for...otherwise I will do a car date for bng (which is listed on my website). Then tells me that he will be driving from Spring and has to take toll roads so if I could give him a break. At first I think he mentioned 60. But I told him I won't for less then 80. Then he wanted me to get another incall so he didn't have to do the car date. DUDE....READ MY F'N WEBSITE....It says that I do not do outcalls for BNG only. That if you can't make my regular hours at my incall that I would meet you in a parking lot. So that for one is very frustrating, when I spell out everything on my website for him to get all pissy about it.

Second....There's been times that I might give a little extra discount for those that I see on a regular basis OR if a regular is unable to stay for the entire time that was scheduled so I might give him a little break on that. But then they think that's the gift for all the other times they see me too. But I never say anything because I enjoy there company and for them coming back to see me as often as they do.

Is there something I should be doing differently there, so I'm not hurting any feelings or losing out on a regular?

One final observation, I love people of all colors of the rainbows and I have had dates with a variety of gentlemen, but it has occurred to me that those of Indian heritage have a greater tendency to negotiate. Is this something cultural? Is there a history behind this? *Disclaimer* I don't intend to generalize, I have several Indian/Middle Eastern friends with whom I have had no donation problems; but when I come across a haggler, more often than not he is Indian.

Yes, I believe it is their cultural. As I use to be a Car Salesperson here in the Houston area many years ago. I was always warned about the Indian/Middle Eastern people. Basically if they don't get what price they want and will ask for...they will walk out or start an argument.

"I" will ask if the girl is running any specials right now that I may not know about OR if the girl has a $150 HHR rate and a $240 HR rate if we could compromise for 45 minutes at $200.

I had one provider tell me one time and I quote, "I don't mind guys asking to see me for a lower rate, I don't like them telling me what they think my services are worth."

You know, as a medical practitioner, I have people ask frequently if I could wave their co-pay. I 'can't' because it is a violation of the law and I tell them such.

Pussy on the other hand...

I used to work in healthcare also, and yes that is a very common question about the deductible. The difference here is that healthcare is a necessity, whereas entertainment is a luxury - you're not gonna die if you see a cheaper provider, or if you don't get service because you can't afford it. In healthcare, you just might.

Yes... I have it here since that morning... and it gets warmer and warmer in my hand every time I think about how you stood me up for that hot new girl . But don't worry, I forgive you... But I still have to give this here to you as I promised, and then we will be even Originally Posted by Johanna

Johanna,

I hope that's not a spanking paddle, you're talking about ... or even worse, a boat paddle? That would scare me away.
On another note, I am very sorry you feel as having been stood up by me. I do not do this to people. Since you put it on a public board, I would like to tell you that my session with the "hot new girl" you mention was completely unrelated to ours. Totally different time which I could manage without problems. Ours proved to be too early for me due to work-related circumstances as I have mentioned it to you before our meeting time. I certainly wish you would've inquired about it in private ...
However, please feel free to further inquire about it via PM since this is an off-topic issue.

Stay safe,

Moto

as my reputation on this board matters to me. Originally Posted by Moto

You are joking right? That's just.......

Haggling works both ways.. post your rates, do not upsell. If someone declines an "upsell" activity (say, greek for example) do not suddenly lose interest in the session. I have had that happen once and I did not post a review on her nor will I see her again. List what you do and what you do not do. If you offer a service for a slight price increase, post it.

No Blind siding.

You are joking right? That's just....... Originally Posted by citizen44

I know... Of course I am not. I've got three hot providers dying to see me because of that line.
My reputation on this board matters to me as far as providers are concerned. I don't hump fucktards so who cares what they think? You a provider here?

I used to work in healthcare also, and yes that is a very common question about the deductible. The difference here is that healthcare is a necessity, whereas entertainment is a luxury - you're not gonna die if you see a cheaper provider, or if you don't get service because you can't afford it. In healthcare, you just might. Originally Posted by Johanna

I dis-agree with that statement.. she might give you something that you might regret later.. or cheap means its a lure to get you there then her pimp robs you.

I don't haggle.

I just look for the price I want and service I want and do it or not. In person, if I'm at a bar, club, strip club and I get into this conversation, I simply let them know what I will pay and what I want. If they say no, that's fine. If they ask for more, I say no thanks.

I get texts at various times asking to meet up and I do the same thing. I ask what they are looking for, say this is the amount I'm doing and it's either a yes or no.

I would never do it after a session started. Which to me is what makes any up selling so bad. You've both agreed. Whatever happens in the session is what happens. Anyone can say no to anything in a session.

I've never considered the hobby as a place to haggle. I've always looked at it like a retail store. The prices are displayed or sometimes not. Once you know the price you have the option of purchasing or moving on to find a deal that suits you. Sometimes you can find things on sale (specials), sometimes not. It's a matter of timing and buying power.

Of course, we all have that provider or two that we've gotten good with or gotten close to that will offer you the frequent visitor discount. But, the key word is offer. You wait for her to make the offer. I've never gone to HEB and asked them to drop the price of the T-bone steak I want. But I have had the meat dept manager come by and offer a discounted price. Rare, but it happens.

So, to answer the OP's question I'm assuming the hagglers are looking for control. They're looking to see if it will work. The old saying is that a "closed mouth doesn't get fed". So, these guys are just taking the chance that it might work. It's the law of averages...if they take so many swings at getting the donation rate lowered, eventually they're going to hit something.

I do my homework on a provider I want to see. I read the reviews, evaluate the services, the satisfaction of the reviewer, and then look at the rates. If the rates are not consistent, then yeah, I'm going to inquire about rates.

Johanna,

I hope that's not a spanking paddle, you're talking about ... or even worse, a boat paddle? That would scare me away.
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However, please feel free to further inquire about it via PM since this is an off-topic issue.

Stay safe,

Moto Originally Posted by Moto

No, all it was was a bb spanking...

Moto, I was only joking, not bashing your rep! Tried to PM you, didn't work.

Kisses,

Johanna

I dis-agree with that statement.. she might give you something that you might regret later.. or cheap means its a lure to get you there then her pimp robs you. Originally Posted by Mr. GPop

You have a very valid point there sir, which contradicts the belief that lower price has no effect on quality of service - a belief that many gents around here so often spread.

Even then, you can still see the higher-priced lady once you save up your pennies, no need to haggle! And if you don't, you're not gonna die