I nominate this for the most euphemistic post of 2018. If the shoe were on the other foot and I were a man whore, I wouldn't particularly enjoy having sex with a lot of women I wasn't attracted to. If one of them decided she wanted to impress me by banging nonstop for 40 minutes or indulged in fantasies that gross me out or thought I should stick around past the allotted time because she's so adorable, I wouldn't be a happy camper. I do however think I'd be doing socially worthwhile work, being God's Gift to Ugly Women.
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Don't feel like you need to blow her mind sexually. While noble, and very sweet, she is there for you. Do not hold back at the beginning because you want to last for her, this often ends in not being able to finish at all. Which nobody wants. You can take care of her after if you enjoy that, but no pressure here either.
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Try to read her cues. She is a real women with real likes and dislikes. Not everyone wants to be talked dirty to, or smash-cuddled post coitus. Some might love it though!
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She will not be offended if you need to leave right after. Whether you need to get back to work, or just aren't into idle chit-chat and cuddling, do your thing. She will enjoy the extra down-time. If you have a genuine rapport or chemistry, or if you are just enjoying the company and a break from real life, then stay the whole time! She will be happy either way. Originally Posted by Lia88
That said, if I did some of this stuff for my accountant or doctor or lawyer, he/she would probably be over the moon -- pay tips, pay up front, bring along a bottle of wine -- who wouldn't like that.
Thanks Lia, that's a thought provoking list. Your work is tougher than people appreciate and you deserve a lot of respect from your clients. And in my man-whore analogy, I do honestly believe the part about your work being socially worthwhile. Without you and like minded women, there would be more men suffering from depression and low self esteem. With fewer sexual outlets for the testosterone charged man, you'd also see more abuse of women and more rapes.