Very true, but she could have gotten it from CFS because HPV and HSV are likely active in the areas NOT covered by a condom...during oral OR vaginal sex.That is very true I don't know the full story behind how she got it that's all she told me when she was giving me advice. I do realize I do not have all the answers I have a lot to learn. If I have offended anyone I apologize for that somethings I say can be taken the wrong way.
It's a risk... Originally Posted by LilMynx69
- Succulent Sade
- 12-12-2013, 10:12 AM
- Succulent Sade
- 12-12-2013, 10:15 AM
We don't always get what we pay for, and expensive is not always better either. Your rate is reasonable (not too expensive) to me, btw.I have saw the 40&50$ rates mostly on backpage in my area.
If you mean 40 or 50, not 140 or 150, that does seem really low for full service (got links? mostly kidding). That could be on the low end (but not crazy low) for a bng. Anyway, my point is it might depend on the service(s) offered. Originally Posted by emptywallet
- Guest062114-5
- 12-12-2013, 10:17 AM
- Guest110516
- 12-12-2013, 10:19 AM
I would think low cost means high volume which is not good for both sides . Originally Posted by KiaKissThat is an assumption many make, but we have no real way of knowing a high-priced provider is low volume (or any other combination of cost and volume). I've had really good times with low-priced providers and not-so-good times with high-priced providers. I assume all providers are high volume and try not to think about the details too much. When my wallet is full, I don't think about cost. When it is empty, I look for deals -- but I wouldn't tell a provider her rate is too high. It's her business; she can charge what she wants.
- dookie
- 12-12-2013, 10:31 AM
I have paid very little, I have paid a whole lot. Let me bring this to a restaurant perspective, because that is precisely how I view it.
Sometimes I am very, very hungry. I will eat almost anything, and stopping at McDonalds, Subway, or even 7/11 is fine by me. I am immediately fed, I am no longer hungry, and I didn't spend a lot of money, and it was a quick experience.
Other times I want a quality meal. I want a starter, I want a meal, I want quality service, and I want to feel like for the money I spent, I received overall value. This is most often how I dine out - and also how I like to hobby. So money is a part of the overall equation as to whether I received an ideal experience. But so is everything else.
Very occasionally for a special occasion, money is not an object when I dine out. I want to feel that the world is revolving around me for a few hours. That everything is delivered flawlessly, and that those serving it do it at a level that are way above my expectations.
Like dining out, what is provided is a service. And this service that can also either be done at home, or as self-service. And likewise, there are people that may want less than others. Some folks may believe that McDonalds is "fancy dining", that "Chilis" is expensive, or that upscale restaurants are a total waste of money. In EVERY one of the restaurant scenarios above, the proprietors deal with these kinds of folks everyday. It is simply a part of doing business. From the perspective of the buyer, some people will think you are inexpensive, some expensive and some "priced right".
I recently saw a top shelf provider who was offering a limited special. Did I think that was all she was worth? Heavens no! She was awesome. But did she make herself affordable enough for me to see her at that very moment? Yes. I did not have the hobby $$$ to afford her at the higher price, but her special allowed it to happen.
Subway, Chilis, The Mansion. Each type of provider is there. Serving the interests and needs of the hobbiest at that given moment in time . . .
Sometimes I am very, very hungry. I will eat almost anything, and stopping at McDonalds, Subway, or even 7/11 is fine by me. I am immediately fed, I am no longer hungry, and I didn't spend a lot of money, and it was a quick experience.
Other times I want a quality meal. I want a starter, I want a meal, I want quality service, and I want to feel like for the money I spent, I received overall value. This is most often how I dine out - and also how I like to hobby. So money is a part of the overall equation as to whether I received an ideal experience. But so is everything else.
Very occasionally for a special occasion, money is not an object when I dine out. I want to feel that the world is revolving around me for a few hours. That everything is delivered flawlessly, and that those serving it do it at a level that are way above my expectations.
Like dining out, what is provided is a service. And this service that can also either be done at home, or as self-service. And likewise, there are people that may want less than others. Some folks may believe that McDonalds is "fancy dining", that "Chilis" is expensive, or that upscale restaurants are a total waste of money. In EVERY one of the restaurant scenarios above, the proprietors deal with these kinds of folks everyday. It is simply a part of doing business. From the perspective of the buyer, some people will think you are inexpensive, some expensive and some "priced right".
I recently saw a top shelf provider who was offering a limited special. Did I think that was all she was worth? Heavens no! She was awesome. But did she make herself affordable enough for me to see her at that very moment? Yes. I did not have the hobby $$$ to afford her at the higher price, but her special allowed it to happen.
Subway, Chilis, The Mansion. Each type of provider is there. Serving the interests and needs of the hobbiest at that given moment in time . . .
- Succulent Sade
- 12-12-2013, 10:44 AM
That's a nice way of putting it in restaurant style situation.
- gimme_that
- 12-12-2013, 02:02 PM
Based on your area......with ladies who are verified with reviews in new orleans they charge on average 250 to 300 and hour. These are ladies moreso with reviews who provide BBBJ or cim and are GFE.....mostly with petite bodies.
For a good amount of time I was only seeing petite ladies, but in my civilian life would only date BBWS. But I feel every position and act a petite lady can do a BBW should be able to do too........I had a rude awakening with those capabilities and those preferences when I joined the hobby word.
On backpage the rates vary between 170 to 250 on average in New Orleans. Most of these ladies tend to be not reviewed, non GFE (no kissing, cuddling, no BBBJ, no MSOG). To me when I see a lady only does CBJ, I assume daty, digits, and kissing are off her menu too. I'm not putting a plastic bag over your vagina to lick you.......so don't do that to me lol.
Based on your photo here.....Im assuming your a BBW lady based on your busts primary photo here. There are BBW ladies in your area who are reviewed with full GFE menus. Mostly for BBWs this is the norm servicewise as their is a market for guys that prefer that. BBWS tend to have very full GFE menus on average. I haven't seen many who were strickly cbj with no kissing. If I do they are mostly on backpage. If that service restriction works for you its your choice, there are just many other BBWS in that area that offer more.
And let's be honest here.........I tend to like providers of all sizes. But the reason I don't see BBWs primarily regularly is their are certain types of service that tend to be sacrifice and not done by BBW ladies in the majority.......
1. BBW women usually don't like doing positions of sex on top like asian cowgirl. (Bad backs, weak knees, etc) only variation is usually doggie and multiple variations of positions off her back in mish. She's not exactly standing on her feet with her hands in the air twerking on and over the guy under her. Nope she's sitting on him with little to no lift and just grinding. Not the same......
Now again I know for the most part most BBWs can't do on top activities just based on my own visits and research. So when I'm seeking ladies for multi hours I calculate what I'm sacrificing based on her body type, services, and rate. Its not always a lower rate that helps.....I still want gfe service and the preferences I want. Sometimes I prefer ladies who don't smoke. Maybe Id prefer an overnight with a lady who wouldn't necessarily require a dinner date. I've never met a BBW provider who would take an overnight appointment without dining out. So little things like that I factor in. Even to the effect of BBW women snoring loud usually. Maybe I'm in the minority there lol
For a good amount of time I was only seeing petite ladies, but in my civilian life would only date BBWS. But I feel every position and act a petite lady can do a BBW should be able to do too........I had a rude awakening with those capabilities and those preferences when I joined the hobby word.
On backpage the rates vary between 170 to 250 on average in New Orleans. Most of these ladies tend to be not reviewed, non GFE (no kissing, cuddling, no BBBJ, no MSOG). To me when I see a lady only does CBJ, I assume daty, digits, and kissing are off her menu too. I'm not putting a plastic bag over your vagina to lick you.......so don't do that to me lol.
Based on your photo here.....Im assuming your a BBW lady based on your busts primary photo here. There are BBW ladies in your area who are reviewed with full GFE menus. Mostly for BBWs this is the norm servicewise as their is a market for guys that prefer that. BBWS tend to have very full GFE menus on average. I haven't seen many who were strickly cbj with no kissing. If I do they are mostly on backpage. If that service restriction works for you its your choice, there are just many other BBWS in that area that offer more.
And let's be honest here.........I tend to like providers of all sizes. But the reason I don't see BBWs primarily regularly is their are certain types of service that tend to be sacrifice and not done by BBW ladies in the majority.......
1. BBW women usually don't like doing positions of sex on top like asian cowgirl. (Bad backs, weak knees, etc) only variation is usually doggie and multiple variations of positions off her back in mish. She's not exactly standing on her feet with her hands in the air twerking on and over the guy under her. Nope she's sitting on him with little to no lift and just grinding. Not the same......
Now again I know for the most part most BBWs can't do on top activities just based on my own visits and research. So when I'm seeking ladies for multi hours I calculate what I'm sacrificing based on her body type, services, and rate. Its not always a lower rate that helps.....I still want gfe service and the preferences I want. Sometimes I prefer ladies who don't smoke. Maybe Id prefer an overnight with a lady who wouldn't necessarily require a dinner date. I've never met a BBW provider who would take an overnight appointment without dining out. So little things like that I factor in. Even to the effect of BBW women snoring loud usually. Maybe I'm in the minority there lol
- Succulent Sade
- 12-12-2013, 05:27 PM
Based on your area......with ladies who are verified with reviews in new orleans they charge on average 250 to 300 and hour. These are ladies moreso with reviews who provide BBBJ or cim and are GFE.....mostly with petite bodies.Well your opinion is that your opinion I as a BBw can do a lot in bed so all of the stuff about back aches and weak knees doesn't apply to me. I do offer Cbj I never said I didn't provider other things on my menu anywho I get your point of view thank you for sharing .
For a good amount of time I was only seeing petite ladies, but in my civilian life would only date BBWS. But I feel every position and act a petite lady can do a BBW should be able to do too........I had a rude awakening with those capabilities and those preferences when I joined the hobby word.
On backpage the rates vary between 170 to 250 on average in New Orleans. Most of these ladies tend to be not reviewed, non GFE (no kissing, cuddling, no BBBJ, no MSOG). To me when I see a lady only does CBJ, I assume daty, digits, and kissing are off her menu too. I'm not putting a plastic bag over your vagina to lick you.......so don't do that to me lol.
Based on your photo here.....Im assuming your a BBW lady based on your busts primary photo here. There are BBW ladies in your area who are reviewed with full GFE menus. Mostly for BBWs this is the norm servicewise as their is a market for guys that prefer that. BBWS tend to have very full GFE menus on average. I haven't seen many who were strickly cbj with no kissing. If I do they are mostly on backpage. If that service restriction works for you its your choice, there are just many other BBWS in that area that offer more.
And let's be honest here.........I tend to like providers of all sizes. But the reason I don't see BBWs primarily regularly is their are certain types of service that tend to be sacrifice and not done by BBW ladies in the majority.......
1. BBW women usually don't like doing positions of sex on top like asian cowgirl. (Bad backs, weak knees, etc) only variation is usually doggie and multiple variations of positions off her back in mish. She's not exactly standing on her feet with her hands in the air twerking on and over the guy under her. Nope she's sitting on him with little to no lift and just grinding. Not the same......
Now again I know for the most part most BBWs can't do on top activities just based on my own visits and research. So when I'm seeking ladies for multi hours I calculate what I'm sacrificing based on her body type, services, and rate. Its not always a lower rate that helps.....I still want gfe service and the preferences I want. Sometimes I prefer ladies who don't smoke. Maybe Id prefer an overnight with a lady who wouldn't necessarily require a dinner date. I've never met a BBW provider who would take an overnight appointment without dining out. So little things like that I factor in. Even to the effect of BBW women snoring loud usually. Maybe I'm in the minority there lol Originally Posted by gimme_that
- Guest062114-5
- 12-12-2013, 05:28 PM
Based on your area......with ladies who are verified with reviews in new orleans they charge on average 250 to 300 and hour. These are ladies moreso with reviews who provide BBBJ or cim and are GFE.....mostly with petite bodies.I'm just curious, do non-BBWs not want to eat on an overnight? My skinniest friends are the ones the eat a ton, and I can't imagine them screwing all night with no sustenance.
For a good amount of time I was only seeing petite ladies, but in my civilian life would only date BBWS. But I feel every position and act a petite lady can do a BBW should be able to do too........I had a rude awakening with those capabilities and those preferences when I joined the hobby word.
On backpage the rates vary between 170 to 250 on average in New Orleans. Most of these ladies tend to be not reviewed, non GFE (no kissing, cuddling, no BBBJ, no MSOG). To me when I see a lady only does CBJ, I assume daty, digits, and kissing are off her menu too. I'm not putting a plastic bag over your vagina to lick you.......so don't do that to me lol.
Based on your photo here.....Im assuming your a BBW lady based on your busts primary photo here. There are BBW ladies in your area who are reviewed with full GFE menus. Mostly for BBWs this is the norm servicewise as their is a market for guys that prefer that. BBWS tend to have very full GFE menus on average. I haven't seen many who were strickly cbj with no kissing. If I do they are mostly on backpage. If that service restriction works for you its your choice, there are just many other BBWS in that area that offer more.
And let's be honest here.........I tend to like providers of all sizes. But the reason I don't see BBWs primarily regularly is their are certain types of service that tend to be sacrifice and not done by BBW ladies in the majority.......
1. BBW women usually don't like doing positions of sex on top like asian cowgirl. (Bad backs, weak knees, etc) only variation is usually doggie and multiple variations of positions off her back in mish. She's not exactly standing on her feet with her hands in the air twerking on and over the guy under her. Nope she's sitting on him with little to no lift and just grinding. Not the same......
Now again I know for the most part most BBWs can't do on top activities just based on my own visits and research. So when I'm seeking ladies for multi hours I calculate what I'm sacrificing based on her body type, services, and rate. Its not always a lower rate that helps.....I still want gfe service and the preferences I want. Sometimes I prefer ladies who don't smoke. Maybe Id prefer an overnight with a lady who wouldn't necessarily require a dinner date. I've never met a BBW provider who would take an overnight appointment without dining out. So little things like that I factor in. Even to the effect of BBW women snoring loud usually. Maybe I'm in the minority there lol Originally Posted by gimme_that
- Succulent Sade
- 12-12-2013, 05:32 PM
- Keyhole Arc Blow
- 12-12-2013, 11:42 PM
- Guest110516
- 12-13-2013, 07:36 AM
In terms of the cbj thing, this site has a vocal, pro-bbbj lobby (PBL). Keep in mind you can also advertise on other sites. The PBL will tell you that you'll get the same reaction on other sites, but you can always verify this yourself. I'm not saying you should leave this site. I'm just saying you don't have to use this site exclusively.
- HarryHarper
- 12-13-2013, 07:54 AM
Ms Kia: you keep referring to your rates as 220 per hour and you will not reduce your rates to 40 & 50 an hour. Sweetheart that is a huge drop and no one suggests you drop to that level. I live in Ohio, providers here are 200 per hour and the better ones are 225-250 per hour. Half hour rates are 150-175 per half. Not 40 & 50 unless you visit BP or other shady sites.
Pick a rate you are happy with and if I feel comfortable at that rate I will come to see you, if I dont feel comfortable I will not come see you, it is that simple.
Trying to understand a mans mind is like trying to understand why women need 20 pairs of shoes when they only have 2 feet.
HH
Pick a rate you are happy with and if I feel comfortable at that rate I will come to see you, if I dont feel comfortable I will not come see you, it is that simple.
Trying to understand a mans mind is like trying to understand why women need 20 pairs of shoes when they only have 2 feet.
HH
- Guest062114-5
- 12-13-2013, 08:08 AM
- joesmo888
- 12-13-2013, 08:21 AM
Please don't take this personally, I assure you it is not.1. doctors, lawyers, consultants don't give you BJ's and let you nut in their mouth (or do they?)
Besides agreeing 100% with hittingcoach, and I'm from his area too, I disagree almost as completely with your sentiment here. I'm sure your an amazing person who, as a human, is priceless. But I don't think an hour with you, or anyone is worth over $200. I'm talking lawyers, doctors, consultants, and lots of others that are somehow deemed of this unjustifiable and unsustainable value for their time. With 9 billion plus humans on the planet, no one would actually work for their true worth. So for $220, I'd rather have 40 Vietnamese shoemakers for a day than one lady for an hour. Originally Posted by JohnnyCap
2. if you would rather have shoemakers for a day then why are you on here tallying up reviews?