For Providers: Do you perfer a gift or a tip or does it matter?

In the fall I usually make a ton of candy .Well not really a ton ....but a lot ....and I usually give a tray of candy to the provider I visit .....several have said thank you ..some have never mentioned it one way or another .....which is ok ....but I have gotten E-mails from some thanking me and subtley suggest that they would enjoy more .LOL I usually ask them when I can drop some off .. and deliver more to them ..........with no Strings ...I have even gotten E-mails from several of their friends asking If they could get some candy .. which I am happy to give ....its fun for me to make it and see someone enjoy it .......but right now it is a little warm to make the candy ...........fall is good .LOL

In the fall I usually make a ton of candy .Well not really a ton ....but a lot ....and I usually give a tray of candy to the provider I visit .....several have said thank you ..some have never mentioned it one way or another .....which is ok ....but I have gotten E-mails from some thanking me and subtley suggest that they would enjoy more .LOL I usually ask them when I can drop some off .. and deliver more to them ..........with no Strings ...I have even gotten E-mails from several of their friends asking If they could get some candy .. which I am happy to give ....its fun for me to make it and see someone enjoy it .......but right now it is a little warm to make the candy ...........fall is good .LOL Originally Posted by tsrv4me

Ahhh, so you're the one that Sammy Davis Jr was singing about! LOL

The Candy Man

Your a cool ass Cougar Max!
Berk told me how fun Iniquity is.
Cant wait to go sometime, sounds fun
and kinky. Originally Posted by lilsmurf

omg i went to that place last year and boy was it fun

"Once I gave a small gift of Godiva Chocolate, only to be informed that I was being inconsiderate because she was feeling blotted and was on a diet! Then, I saw the fireplace mantle and it looked like the aftermath of a Galleria shopping spree. Obviously, my gift was inadequate and I paid dearly for an lack-luster BBBJ COB."


Well, f*ck, that can be par for the course when an over developed sense of entitlement comes into play....what a bitch....I hope you ratted her out privately.

lilsmurf.....wtf....A GORILLA SUIT and a BLINDFOLD?!? Dood, I bet she had some fun with the next gent that showed up.

TTH, I'm not exactly sure that's the tip in question. But it would be kewl to leave it with UTR4P's little honey. Just place it on the night stand.

For me, other than a bottle of wine, tips/gifts belong in the ATF realm (see above).

"Once I gave a small gift of Godiva Chocolate, only to be informed that I was being inconsiderate because she was feeling blotted and was on a diet! Then, I saw the fireplace mantle and it looked like the aftermath of a Galleria shopping spree. Obviously, my gift was inadequate and I paid dearly for an lack-luster BBBJ COB."


Well, f*ck, that can be par for the course when an over developed sense of entitlement comes into play....what a bitch....I hope you ratted her out privately.

lilsmurf.....wtf....A GORILLA SUIT and a BLINDFOLD?!? Dood, I bet she had some with the next gent that showed up.

TTH, I'm not exactly sure that's the tip in question. But it would be kewl to leave it with UTR4P's little honey. Just place it on the night stand.

For me, other than a bottle of wine, tips/gifts belong in the ATF realm (see above). Originally Posted by Randy4Candy

<----Loves Godiva Chocolates, no matter what's up...always makes me feel better when I'm not feeling great and makes me extra happy when I feel well!

I doubt she's UTR's "little honey" anymore...he's a smart man and I doubt he'd subject himself to that kind of behavior if he didn't absolutely have to! Sorry you were treated so rudely, handsome! However, I agree with the sentiment...what an ungrateful "B"!

I try to never knock on the door with just the "envelope' in my pocket. I have brought chocolate croissants and mimosa's, flowers, cards, sports memerobilia, music cd compilations of their fav songs, even a stuffed animal to one lady who collected them, but never have "tipped" per se in cash.
I read many of the above comments, and "above expectations" "better than expected", well, I guess that has never happened to me, lol, I always go in thinking I am going to have the time of my life, and even if it was how do you determine what "percentage" to tip.
I love reading some of the ladies "gift" listings, I have seen some gifts that cost more than the appointment fee..... "Godiva chocolate" scoffed at, "oh my", sure there is better, but hell, Godiva AIN'T "Hershey's".....
The best received (besides the envelope) thing I have ever given a lady was that I actually cooked for them. I have had the opportunity to do this twice, and both ladies though it was one of the more "thoughtful" things a client had done for them.... sometimes the simple things work the best!!

-PT-

As said before they are not expected. Very much appreciated and can really be sweet to receive. Hookers are people too! LMAO!CD's of his Fave music, chocolates, flowers, cards....if you enjoy giving, do it. I am a giver. Remarkable times have come from selfless acts of kindness. Pay it forward and Smile. Life will smile back!