Now this....

I miss the constant back and forth. I don't think anyone was saying move on, opinions were asked for and opinions were given. And fbsm is my baby daddy, so I am more direct with him. PS child support is due.....

No way, buddy. I am completely on your side and agree with you. I love the topic. I probably wandered too much in my post. We need more actual discussion and dialogue here. Originally Posted by Three Piece Chicken Dinne

I agree that we need more discussion and dialogue here, that's why I posted.

Thanks btw!

Well said Spice!

I miss the constant back and forth. I don't think anyone was saying move on, opinions were asked for and opinions were given. And fbsm is my baby daddy, so I am more direct with him. PS child support is due..... Originally Posted by Simply Spice

I'm a lucky man to be your baby daddy darlin', so you can be as direct as you want, but now you've given up our secret .

P.S. The check is in the mail

Well said Spice! Originally Posted by Zgirl2

Don't be ganging up on me now Zgirl2. You haven't even met me yet, but once you do...well...just ask Spice

Don't be ganging up on me now Zgirl2. You haven't even met me yet, but once you do...well...just ask Spice Originally Posted by FBSMLUVR

Nobody is ganging up on u unless you're requesting that of course
But I was just scrolling thru all the comments, it's been quite entertaining and informative. But I do have to admit, Spice has some solid points. She's on point about everything she wrote. #spiceforPRESIDENT!!

Nobody is ganging up on u unless you're requesting that of course
But I was just scrolling thru all the comments, it's been quite entertaining and informative. But I do have to admit, Spice has some solid points. She's on point about everything she wrote. #spiceforPRESIDENT!! Originally Posted by Zgirl2

No request for being ganged up on, but thanks for the offer

Spice usually does have some solid points, and she's never short on giving her opinion lol. I have to respectfully disagree that she's on point about "everything" she wrote tho.

When I first posted this, I was hoping providers would join in the discussion regarding the 300/Hr price point. My first thought? Spice will be the first one, I can always count on her lol. I actually hadn't looked at Spice's rates, didn't realize she raised them until she mentioned it. I went and looked and thought, yup...this struck a nerve LOL

Lmao!!! My rent here is 2500 a month. Me raising my prices here in Denver was just due to where I live. Everything is so expensive here. My hotels rooms, even if they are crappy are 120 a night. So if I only had one appointment in a day at my El paso rate I would walk with 80 bucks. Nope and nope!!

Now when I go to El paso they will go down significantly because of price point average. However. And this is why he loves me, no one should ever be able to tell a woman her rate it too high. It's her body and she is allowed to set the amount for it.

We don't walk into McDonalds and say "you know what just give me half of a mcchicken instead for .50 instead of a dollar. Odd way to put it, but really. I adore fbsm and have met him in real life (not as a client), and we agree to disagree. But he's also not the one who has to take it up the ass ....so boom I win.....

Point well said....

there's good discussion and then there's just wasted bandwidth. i think this thread is good because it's more of a discussion about what someone likes and what they would hope to see you, but personally, i don't think there's much point in talking about price as a general thing because as i've said before… pussy is just like art; it's worth exactly what someone's willing to pay for it.

Best saying ever.

I will say this, as a provider, just as with a John gent you get a certain caliber of gent depending on your rates as well. Now please please please do not assume that I am talking about any of you. But a man that pays 60 for a quick visit vs a man that pays 2500 for a night is night and day. A woman raising her rates way up, may also be purely based upon the type of audience she is trying to entice. I have one gent here that I see once a month for an overnight. He goes to sprouts gets every meat and cheese and nuts, he sets out flowers, we eat at fancy restaurants where I have to point to what I want, because lord knows I can't pronounce it. We drink the best wine. Etc you get the point.

There are too many factors into a woman's rates. And too many men that will always say it's not that she's not worth it, rather he's not willing to pay it.

Well said!! You got it girl

Lmao!!! My rent here is 2500 a month. Me raising my prices here in Denver was just due to where I live.

However. And this is why he loves me, no one should ever be able to tell a woman her rate it too high. It's her body and she is allowed to set the amount for it. Originally Posted by Simply Spice

When I first saw you're raise in rates, it was obvious that it was due to your location. I'm sure Denver is much more expensive, so I totally see how it's justified.

No, no one should ever tell a woman her rates are too high, but we can talk about it in the ML in private. Wait, ML really isn't private is it? Lol Seriously though, you're absolutely right, it's your body and you're allowed to set the amount.

I adore fbsm and have met him in real life (not as a client), and we agree to disagree. But he's also not the one who has to take it up the ass ....so boom I win..... Originally Posted by Simply Spice

Ouchies! Umm, yea...I'll give you the win on that one!!

There are too many factors into a woman's rates. And too many men that will always say it's not that she's not worth it, rather he's not willing to pay it. Originally Posted by Simply Spice

Totally agree. Now that is 100% on point.